Okay, there's three things that a woman does not do if she actually likes you. There's three things that a woman doesn't do because she doesn't want to jeopardize the relationship. So, I see a lot of guys commenting or asking things like, you know, um she wants to go on this girls trip or something like that and I told her that I didn't want her to, okay? Or she wanted to go to the club with her girlfriends and I told her that I didn't like that. You know, and I'm surprised that after this discussion that I have, she doesn't um respect me enough to agree with me and see it from my point of view. All of the things that I'm about to teach you today comes from this one premise, okay? And the premise is this, if you even have to ask in the first place, she doesn't like you the way that you're hoping or that you think she does. I understand that you two are dating, but one of two things is going through her mind. Either number one, you're not the best that she's ever had, meaning there's a different guy before you that she was with or that she got with that was more attractive than you. Or number two, she's holding out for a better future. So, even though she's with you right now temporarily, she thinks that in the future something better might come along. So, if you have to have any spoken word, you've already lost because what a woman does right away when she likes you and when she loves you and when she sees a future with you, is she instantly positions herself as somebody who you would want to take seriously because she's most likely hoping that you two have kids one day or she becomes a mother and you two have a great life. So, she starts doing things to emulate that behavior and that lifestyle. If you're not getting that from her, no, she doesn't like you. Or she's in her mid-20s and she still feels like she's in her prime, obviously, right? And she thinks she's so beautiful, which means she's holding out for better, which brings me back to my first point that I just made. So, there's three things that women do not do if they actually like you and have genuine desire for you. And I'm going to show you how to handle all of these if any of this happens. So, I made a little list right here. Number one, the first thing that a woman doesn't do, okay, if she likes you, okay, listen to me closely. The first thing she does not do is she doesn't plan girls trips, she doesn't plan to fly out of the country, and she doesn't go to the club and go night clubbing and all this stuff. She doesn't plan these girl trip weekend getaways to Miami or none of that. Listen, women don't do that when they like you. Do you know who does that? Women who only have level five, six, or seven out of 10 level interest in you. Those are the women who do that, okay? So, I see a lot of guys where they're like, you know, I had this sit-down talk and this sit-down conversation with her, and I explained my boundaries and how I explained uh that that's not uh something I want in a woman in the relationship, and then it's always followed by this. Anytime they try to have a conversation, okay, and I've said this before, anytime you try to set a verbal boundary of the expectation of what you're wanting from a woman in a relationship, she doesn't like it. She's not going to listen to you. Find me one time Find me one time where that conversation ever went well and wasn't met with friction. Here's what's going to happen. She's going to not cooperate. She's going to be combative as hell with every sentence that you say, and she's going to say you're controlling and you're insecure. That's what she's going to say. You will never find me Find me one dude where he ever comes to you and he says, "Hey, yeah, you know, I sat her down and I told her this and I told her my boundaries and I told her my expectations, and she just completely cooperated amazingly." No, that That's not how that goes. Because the spoken word, if it needs to be spoken in the first place, you have already lost. You have already lost because she knows what she's doing. This is the funny thing. A lot of guys think that she's clueless. She's not clueless. She knows exactly what she's doing. She doesn't care. And that's the part that probably stings the most, but you have to accept this. She doesn't care. So, if a woman is going to the club, if a woman is that you're dating wants to go plan a week-long trip to Miami with her girlfriends, you don't say anything about it. You just don't ever text her or call her ever again. Nothing. You don't have a sit-down conversation with her about oh, I don't like that. You don't get defensive at all. You don't see if she'll cooperate and see it from your point of view. None of that, because you're wasting your breath. The fact that she even wants to, the fact that she's even risking the relationship. See, that's the thing that I want you to understand. I want this to sink in. She's risking the relationship and she doesn't care. This needs to sink in because she doesn't care about you the way that you think she does. She literally doesn't care. She doesn't care. So, she'll risk the relationship. So, all three of these points stem from one specific issue or stem from one specific thing. You got to understand. Women do not risk the relationship with men they genuinely love. When she likes you on a core level, like you become her everything. She would never want to lose you. If you're not getting that type of desire out of the woman that you're dating, she doesn't like you the way that you think she does. Because she wouldn't be putting herself in the situation anyways. Actions always speak louder than words, and I don't care Here's the thing, too. A woman that genuinely loves you, here's what happens when her friends do ask her to go to the club. After dinner, when dinner rolls around and then they all want to go to the club after dinner, she says, "Nah, I should go home." And they all say, "Oh, why?" And she goes, "Oh, I want to go see my man." She'll just come back home or she'll come back to see you. So, she's risking the relationship, she doesn't like you. So, that's the first thing you got to understand. You do not send us a single text, a single call, you just accept defeat. Because any friction, you do not try to negotiate desire, you just exit because it's pointless. You're wasting your breath. So, that's the first thing that women don't do. Okay, the second thing that a woman does not do when she loves you and when she's in love with you and when she wants to keep seeing you and she wants to keep pursuing you and she wants a future with you, is she does not add other men on social media. So, there's a lot of guys who have came to me over the years, whether it be through the comments or through my community where I help guys learn, understand, and master the language of women. You should join us inside of that, by the way. It is called Headman Nation. I built an entire community where I help guys learn, understand, and master the language of women so that way they can actually attract the type of woman that they want and retain her interest level. But, the next thing that a guy notices that she doesn't do or the next thing that a woman doesn't do when she loves you, is she doesn't add other men on social media. Because once again, she's creating a situation that looks suspicious. And it doesn't matter. See, that's the thing. It doesn't matter. A lot of guys get like wrapped up in the justification of the excuse. Oh, we knew each other through college. Oh, we were best friends growing up in middle school. Oh, we graduated high school together. Oh, he worked at the place I work. So, it's like, okay, so there's this way they met. So, now that's a justifiable excuse in the guy's head where they go, "Oh yeah, man. I trust her." I don't give a crap where they met or how they met. I don't care. Don't matter. If he is a dude uh with a functioning meat stick down below that drives just fine, right? If he's got a a functional joystick, then no. She won't do it. She doesn't add men to risk and jeopardize the relationship. She doesn't do it. So, the other funniest thing about this is guys listen to this and they the manipulation like, "Oh, we went to high school. We graduated at or we worked at the same restaurant together." It's like, "Oh, so that means that now uh now she's definitely not interested in him because yeah, they they used to work at the uh at the restaurant together. So, that means it's okay, you know, since they met at the restaurant, since they graduated high school together, that's completely okay, you know, now now she's definitely not going to want to sleep with him. Oh, I'm safe. Good thing uh good thing she didn't meet him uh down at the beach or that that'd have been way worse." It's like, "Are you kidding me?" She doesn't do things to jeopardize the relationship. So, once again, if you see suspicious behavior, what most guys do is they try to talk it out. If it needs a conversation in the first place, if it needs any talking, the unspoken word always means more than the spoken word. The unspoken action, which is the unspoken word in this situation, demonstrates that she does not like you. It demonstrates that she's opened up male attention from the outside. So, once again, no conversation needed, no text message needed, no I wish you all the best of luck. These cheesy cheesy cliche sayings, "I wish you the best. You were a great person, but I wish you the best." It's like as if she cares. It's like, "Oh, yeah, that really It's like you don't need to say any of this stuff. You don't need a conversation. You don't need to tell her the reason why you're exiting. You don't need to tell her how you think it's disrespectful that she adds other men on social media." She knows it's disrespectful. She doesn't care. Okay, so that's the second thing that women don't do is they don't they don't do stuff like that, okay? Number three, they do not sit around Okay, when a woman loves you, she doesn't sit around and try to micromanage where you put your time. So, you see this with a lot of women when they try to control their husband or they try to control their boyfriend is they micromanage that guy's time by asking the next thing, okay? So, you're going to notice this. If your woman is doing this, if what she's doing while you guys are already doing an event or an activity, is you're going to notice this. Write this down on a sheet of paper so you remember. And if you're a guy who doesn't have a lot of relationship experience, write this down because this is how it looks. So, anybody out there that's dated women long-term, you can comment below and you know damn well that this is what I'm talking about. What a woman does when she starts to try to control your time, is she micromanages what you're doing hour for hour, and this is what it looks like. You guys might be at a restaurant, and three-fourths of the way through that dinner, even though you just planned to take her out to dinner, now she's going to say, "Do you want to come back and Do you want to come back and watch this movie with me?" Okay, so the guy says yes. And then as you're sitting there watching that movie, she says, "Will you help me with this task?" As you're helping with the task, she says, "Hey, next Saturday, in 3 days from now, next Saturday, we're doing this. Do you want to come with me?" And then what she does on top of that, is when you do things, okay? When you go take time for yourself, you could go to the gym, you might go do whatever, you might go to jujitsu practice, you might go meet your best friend Frank or Tom or Henry or whoever for a cigar, you might go do something. Now, what she's going to do is she's going to say you never make enough time for me. Because what she's trying to do is she's trying to micromanage your time. So, what you're going to notice is women will consistently ask the next thing. And they ask the next thing to keep grabbing your time and attention, and they stack it on top of each other. And just when the next event is finished, okay? When the next event is finished, what she's going to do as that event is finished, could be dinner, could be the movie, is now she asks for the next thing. And she tries to get you to keep planning your future and every single weekend and every single day with her. Now, anytime you notice that she does this, what is probably going to be coupled with is that anytime you try to take time for yourself, it's met with friction, it's met with a disagreeable attitude, and she's mad that you spent any time away from her. What this is doing is this is creating an element of control as she slowly turns you into essentially a dude who's beta, and then she'll leave you anyways. Okay, so the next thing that a woman doesn't do, okay, is a woman doesn't try to sit and micromanage and control your time. If a woman likes you and loves you and understands that you have priorities, what she does is she says, "Okay." If you say, "Hey, I got to go to the gym." she says, "All right, cool. Have a great lift." If you say, "Hey, I got to work for the next 6 hours on this big project." she says, "Okay, perfect. I I won't text you or call you because I understand." If you need to go do something or take care of business, she doesn't sit there and give you a bad time because you went and took a couple hours with your friends. Okay? Women who try to keep stacking different things on top of you to grab your attention, these women are trying to micromanage your time, and this is something that a woman doesn't do because she wants her man to have other priorities because she wants him strong and capable. She doesn't want to turn him into this weak little puppy dog. So, these are the three things that a woman doesn't do, okay? If you notice that she's doing any of these, you don't need a conversation or a text message to tell her your boundaries. You don't need a phone call. You don't need a sit-down conversation. You don't need to do anything other than never text her again, never call her again, and then just exit because she don't like you anyways.
