All right, these are going to be the five ways that women weaken men when he gets into a long-term relationship. You have to be aware of all of these because these types of tests and these things will happen no matter how tall you are, no matter how good-looking you are, no matter how high of status you are, no matter how much money you make. It doesn't matter who you are. You will run into these things if you don't understand the masculine to feminine dynamic that has to occur. So, because of that, I'm going to be really indepth with this video. I'm going to show you step by step what to do. And on top of that, I'm even going to show you the five ways to make sure that these things don't happen to you. Stay with me until the end of this video because I know that it will impact your dating life for the better. Now, after today's video is over, be sure to join us inside of the community that I built so I can help you learn, understand, and master the language of women. I built this community for one reason and that is to help you make sure that you can attract the woman into your life that you genuinely want to be with and retain the interest level in the relationship so that way she doesn't desire to pull away and leave you. That's why I built that. I want you to go and learn and understand and master the language of women too. So join us inside of that community after today's video is over. Let's dive in. Okay. So number one, the first way, okay, that a man starts to get weaker, let me explain. getting the man to subconsciously start conforming to her frame and the man abandons his way of doing life that attracted her in the first place. Okay, so I'll say this one more time. Getting the man to subconsciously start conforming to her frame and then the man abandons his way of life that attracted her in the first place. So here's what typically happens, okay? The man meets this woman, okay? and the man thinks that she's really pretty. Maybe they have great chemistry, they have great romance, everything's great. Okay, he thinks she's really pretty. And on top of that, she likes him too. Okay, and what will happen, okay, subconsciously right now, what will happen is she will start to see what he will agree to and say yes to, okay, and this will start to dictate the frame of the relationship, okay? and how the relationship is navigated. So, she starts asking him to do certain things and be a certain way. Okay? This could be different interests that the guy didn't have before, hobbies, events, where he's putting his time and where he's putting his attention. She's going to start to see what he'll agree to. Okay? And what ultimately happens is he starts to become a yes man. he starts saying yes to almost everything or everything which causes her to lose interest and respect. Okay, so this is what you have to be aware of as the man starts to say yes and conform, okay, to the way that she's living her life and getting the man to invest time, energy, emphasis in things that he doesn't want to. He becomes a yes man and he's scared to say no because he thinks it will lead to her exiting the relationship. This is very important. He thinks that it will lead to her exiting the relationship. But what you have to remember is this. She starts to see that he has no sense of self. Okay? Because a man who has sense of self, he would have his own interests, hobbies, passions, events, and lifestyle. Okay? And she might even want to join him or accompany him during those events. But what you have to remember is majority of men, what happens is they start to conform to a different way of life that they didn't actually want to in the first place. All because that guy has fear of loss that if he doesn't the relationship will be over. So she sees that he has no sense of self and now she doesn't respect him and now she wants to exit. So this is what you have to remember. Okay? Saying no. When you're a man and you say no, this could lead to her temporary unhappiness, but it does not result in a lack of respect. This is what guys think. Guys think that if he says no, the relationship will dissolve. But what you have to remember is you have to be willing to say no or else it's very hard for her to respect you. So saying no doesn't lead to lack of respect. It will typically only lead to temporary unhappiness which means that with time, okay, she'll actually respect you more because you're willing to say what you will and won't do. And that's very important. So that's number one. Number two, okay, the second way that men tend to get weaker in a relationship. Okay, the woman starts withholding romantic intimacy. Okay, withholding romantic intimacy. So, this happens when the man is too available and his attention no longer holds any value. I'll say that one more time. This happens when the man is too available and his attention no longer holds any value. Okay? So, in the beginning, the woman tends to show the man lots of intimacy and high amounts of romantic desire in the bedroom for a few reasons. Okay, this is what typically happens. Number one, she desires to be his source of pleasure. Okay, she desires to be his source of pleasure where he really enjoys being with her. That's number one. Number two, she wants to get him to really like her. And number three, okay, she wants to gain his emotional investment in hopes that it will lead to a committed relationship. And this is ultimately her goal is to make sure that he starts investing in her emotionally, that he cares for her, he wants to be with her, potentially, let's say, um, you know, protect and provide, all of those good things. This is what she's desiring. So from here, all she has to do now is pull back to trigger his fear of loss and get him to start to reveal his interest level, which will get him or which will lead him to start failing interest tests. So this is what you have to remember now at this point. Okay, now she has a reason to exit because he's now revealed his SMV. He has revealed his sexual market value which has now shown that he has fear of loss due to her withholding romantic intimacy or desire. Okay. So now what happens is the guy starts changing even more. He alters his personality more. He becomes extra nice. He becomes extra available and it never works. Okay? So this is what you have to remember at all times as a man. It doesn't matter what it is. It doesn't matter if it's family, friends, no matter who you're around, a relationship, maybe co-workers at the office, you have to always be very aware of your time and attention. Okay? Because your time and attention is really the only thing that you can control. So, you have to always prioritize the right areas where you're putting it or it starts to not hold any value. That's number two. Number three, having her words not match her actions. So, when her words don't match her actions, a lot of times what happens is the man now thinks that he's doing something wrong or not good enough because he isn't getting the result that he assumed would happen. I'll say that point one more time with point number three, having her words not match her actions. So, when her words don't match her actions, the man naturally starts to think, am I not doing something the right way? Am I not good enough? Am I doing something the wrong way? Now he thinks that he's doing something wrong or not good enough because he isn't getting the desired result that he assumed would happen. The desired result would be increase in love, admiration, respect, and intimacy. But it typically does not work that way. So here's what you will see. Women will often times in a relationship if they are dating a man potentially contradict themselves. And what that means is they will say things like they want um let's say she might say to the guy, "I want more of your time, more of your attention, and you to be more emotionally vulnerable." Okay? Okay, if she says these types of things, here's what will often times happen. When the man starts to acquies or conform to her request and starts doing these things, as he's doing this or as he's agreeing to this, okay, the man actually starts failing tests because it shows lack of competency. It shows lack of competency. It shows that you're basically now um having her verbally lead you through how you need to be as a man. And then here's what happens. she loses desire because now you're following her lead and it's the countdown to the relationship until it's over. So just be very aware of that with point number three. Point number four, a change in vocal tone, okay, to please the feminine. So this is something that a man does and this is like another point that leads into point number three. What happens with point number three is as her words don't match her actions, the man tends to alter his communication, which means he'll oftenimes change his vocal tone to please the feminine. Be very aware of this. So, I want you to overall, okay, if you're ever in a social setting or anything like that, listen to um like if you see a relationship or you see a couple, listen to the husbands or the guys in a relationship. Listen to their vocal tone. Often times what you're going to notice is a tone of voice or mannerisms that change. Okay? So tone of voice or mannerisms start to change and actually match hers. What you'll notice is a lot of times men in long-term relationships, they start speaking very softly. Okay? So he's now actually moving into his feminine energy. As he moves into his feminine energy, that voice becomes softer. It becomes more pleasing. It becomes more agreeable. And here's what happens. She starts to now move into her masculine energy. And from there, now she desires a stronger companion. That masculine energy, what that looks like is her starting to be displeased in the relationship, doesn't like being around him, no longer feels safe when she's with him, and now she desires a stronger companion. So, here's what I can tell you, okay? When it gets to this point, this is a lot of times where um you know, maybe the woman starts looking at other options. Maybe she has even desires to leave the relationship or potentially cheat. She desires a stronger companion. And this is now also the countdown to the end of the relationship. Which means you need to be very aware of this when you're communicating with a woman. You need to keep all of your masculine mannerisms. Very important. Keep all of your masculine mannerisms at all times. Okay? Very important to understand this. If you start to lose those masculine mannerisms, the relationship starts to dissolve. And point number five would be nagging or having a attitude verbally about things he does or starts to micromanage his sentences. So this is the fifth way that a man really starts to um get weaker in a relationship because he doesn't know what to do at this point. A lot of times maybe they're living together or maybe they're married or they're seeing each other frequently. So he has to spend um a majority of time with her because they're together so much or maybe they're living together. Okay. So, if it gets to this point where there's nagging or having an attitude verbally or she's micromanaging his sentences, okay, she's seeing if she can get him to now start to walk on eggshells. And what that actually looks like, okay, is usually all of these tests are to attempt to trigger fear of loss in the man. So, you have to understand this, okay? Fear of loss shows so much because what it does is it gets the man to reveal his interest level. It gets him almost instantly to reveal his commitment to her in the relationship. It gets him to reveal his insecurities and question if he's good enough. It also a lot of times will get the guy to um just have fear of loss with her exiting or potentially cheating. What this stems into is the man overall feeling inadequate. If she gets you to a point where you're feeling inadequate, you have essentially gotten to a point where you're like emotionally emasculated and it's going to be very hard to recover. So what you have to always monitor is the frame and the dynamic in the relationship. Is the dynamic in the relationship good? Okay. Is it a solid masculine to feminine dynamic? And the dynamic will always go downhill if the man does not monitor his time and value of his attention. If you do not monitor your time and your value of your attention and you put it in the right places, if you're overly available, if you're overly pleasing, this will lead to her often times not valuing the attention that she had in the beginning, which means your overall being, right? Like you being around her, she starts to not even necessarily enjoy it. If you like this video, I advise you to take this even a step further. If these videos help you, I want you to think just for a second how deep I take these structured processes inside of my community where I show you how to learn, understand, and master the language of women. I created this to genuinely help impact your dating life for the better. Hit the like button, comment, and subscribe, and we'll see you in the next one.