He had told me that he wanted me to have his baby so our baby could come out looking like me so he could groom her. She was trying to pin me out. Reason behind me dancing is really going to blow y'all minds. Am I married? Did you go to jail in Europe? GIRL, this is such a great question, y'all. Oh my god. Like, whoever asked that question snap. What's up you guys? Welcome back to my channel. It's your girl Barbie Saxs, the big one, not the little one. If you are returning subscriber, welcome back, baby. If you are new here, do not forget to hit that subscribe before you leave. And also on top of that, hold on, hold on. Make sure you guys are turning on your post notifications so y'all get notified every time you post a video. All right, y'all. So, today's video is going to be a chitchat video. And oh my god, LIKE I'M SO EXCITED. LIKE, I AM SO EXCITED. OKAY, let me bring it down. I'm excited about today's video because for one, I have never ever done a chitchat video ever on my channel. So, this will be my first chitchat video. For one, and for two, Y'ALL KNOW I LOVE TO TALK. LIKE, COME on now. Yeah. I'm ready. I'm ready. I'M READY. HOW ABOUT say I'm ready. I'm ready. Yeah, I'm ready. So, let's get into it. All right. So, I asked y'all on YouTube and um Instagram to drop me some questions. You know what I'm saying? Let me know what y'all want to know about Barbie stacks. And when I tell y'all y'all play no games, y'all play no games. I had so many questions, y'all. So many questions. It's not even funny. I tried to get as many questions as I could. And what I did was I try to like basically if y'all had the same questions, I try to like use that as one question besides asking the same question over and over again. Okay? And some questions was kind of crazy. I'm not going to lie. Some questions was kind of crazy, so I left them out. But for the majority part, the good questions that I felt like was worthy to talk about on today's video, got them in a notebook. Okay. Before we get started in these questions, y'all, I'm going to need y'all to grab y'all some wine, something y'all. Choice of Bev. All right. And y'all drink with me. LET'S HAVE SOME FUN. LIKE, LET'S make today's video fun. Like, let's drink. Okay. And also on top of that, cheers to us almost hitting 30K, y'all. Like, what the hell? We almost at 30K. I just think that's crazy. Okay. Definitely got to do something big for the 30K. Y already know. And definitely got something coming for y'all. So, we do got 30 questions to go through. And I know y'all probably think like, "God damn, girl, 30 questions." Look, y'all wanted to know THE TEA. OKAY. YEAH. LET'S JUST GO AHEAD and start with number one. Um, these questions are in no particular order. I did want to put them in order, but truth be told, I didn't have time, y'all. So, I'm like, you know what I'm saying? We just going to wing it. Like, we just going to wing it. So, question number one is, how do you become so responsible with your money? Oo, girl, I love this question. Whoever asked me this question, girl, you just don't know how excited you had me just with this question alone. Okay. But it's so crazy because a lot of people don't like talking about money. I don't know why, but when it comes to people talking about money, it literally makes them nervous. It makes them anxious. The anxiety be out the damn roof. I don't know. Like talking about money should not be an awkward thing in my opinion. But some ways that I became responsible with my money is for one, learning financial literacy, which I feel like is very important and everybody should learn that for themselves. Number two is knowing exactly where my money is going. I don't care if it's a a subscription, Netflix, uh, Amazon. I don't give a damn if it's bills. I don't care if it's a goals. I I don't care what it is. I literally know where every dollar goes to when it comes to my bread. And I do mean every dollar. Okay? DON'T DON'T DON'T THINK I'M JUST SAYING that I do mean every dollar, even down to the gas. All right? Understand that. Number three is avoiding like impulsive purchases. Like, you know how sometimes you can walk in a store, you be like, "Oh my god, like girl, I need that. That's so freaking cute. I need that. And the question is, do you really need it or do you really just want it? You know what I'm saying? Nine times out of 10, you want it more than you need it. And you're just telling yourself you need it. And when you have that type of mindset, that type of mind frame of you walking in the store and can't telling yourself no when it comes down to buying things, you're literally setting yourself back. Like, I'm the type of person I love spoiling myself. I literally have a hard time telling myself no, but that comes with with self-control, y'all. You have to learn how to start telling yourselves no. And like I said, I get it. Like, I don't like telling myself no. I hate going to the store and saying something I want. And I tell myself, "Nah, Barbara, we can't get it today." That eats me up. I'm not going to lie. But honestly, when you start learning how to tell yourself, not even no, but not right now, it makes a huge difference. I'm in the store, right? And I see something that I want and I really, really, really want it. And to the point where I'm like, you know what I'm saying? I can get it. Why not? I tell myself, I ask myself, I say, Barbie, is this a good financial decision to make? You know what I'm saying? And every time I talk to myself in that type of manner outside of I want this, I need this. It's like, I DON'T KNOW, SOMETHING ABOUT THAT question when I ask myself it, it just snaps me back into reality. And I'll be like, YOU KNOW WHAT? IT'S LIKE, NO, I don't need this. I just want it. And honestly, it could wait. Another tip I can give y'all as far as becoming more responsible with y'all money is open up several different accounts in your banks. So for me, I have different banks that I bank with, but within those banks, I have multiple accounts in them, right? So I literally have a account for everything. I have an account for my houses. I have an account for my bills. I have an account for my online purchases. I have an account for literally every single thing. I have an account for gas, girl. Literally everything. Like you're probably thinking like, "Damn, girl, why you got all these accounts?" Trust me, y'all, it works. Okay, it works. And on top of that, it keeps your money organized. It keeps everything in one place to where you're not like looking at one account and you're like, "Oh, I got all this money." Let's say, let's say if I have an account, right, that got $2,000 in it. And I'm like, "Oh, I got $2,000. I can go to the mall. I can go buy this. I can go buy that." Tom, you really don't got that much money that you think you got. It's only $2,000. $2,000 really ain't much. And when you break the $2,000 down into the different accounts, and you put your money into your bills, you put this amount of money in your savings, and you put this amount of money in wherever you put it, and after you get done spreading your money out, girl, it's all gone. Personally, I feel like that works better for me to where I know exactly where everything is going and where everything is coming out of. Number two, how do you stay strong in your faith, girl? So, I'm not even going to lie to y'all. I don't want to sit up here and be like, "Oh, yeah, I go to church every Sunday." I do not go to church every Sunday, y'all. And honestly, that that's not a good thing, okay? I'm I'm I'm already admitting it for myself. I don't need y'all to hop down my throat and be like, "Girl, why you don't go to church?" I don't go to church every Sunday. Now, it is something that I do want to incorporate in my life soon because I feel like God is number one. There's there's no there's no person, no thing greater than God. So, it's definitely something that I want to start incorporating in my life. But I feel like as far as as now, what I do to stay strong is my in my faith is pray. Like I pray about everything, y'all. I pray. It don't matter where I'm at. It don't matter what time it is. It don't matter what I'm doing. Okay? I'M GOING TO PRAY. ONE THING ABOUT IT, I'M GOING TO PRAY. I PRAY OVER DECISIONS that I make. I pray over go sometimes when I'm walking in a club, I will pray, y'all. And I know that sounds crazy like, "Girl, you about to walk out of your club. Why you praying?" I pray for protection. anything that I feel like can go wrong or anything that I feel like I just need in that moment, I pray. So, that's honestly how I stay strong in my faith is talking to God. And no, I'm not perfect. No, I don't go to church every Sunday. No, I don't go to Bible study every Wednesday. I don't. And I'm not perfect. But I do plan on going to church more in my future, y'all. So, to answer that question, how do I become so strong in my faith? Is I pray. I talk to God. All right? I I feel like this is no better communication is no better outlet than it is God. Okay, so I hope that answered your question for that. Um, number three, what is your major in school and when will you graduate? All right, so my major in school is accounting and when will I graduate? Honestly y'all, I took two semesters off so obviously clearly that pushed my graduation date back. But I did plan on going back to school this August. I'll just have two more years till I graduate. And I am so damn ready, girl. I am so TIRED OF SCHOOL. LIKE, I'M JUST READY to graduate. I'm ready to start my big girl career. And I'm ready to leave a strip club alone. Honestly, truthfully, question number four. As a dancer who is thinking about getting out the club, is there any advice you'd give to someone who wants to start dancing? H, let's see. I would honestly say to whenever you start making your money, whenever you start seeing like big bags, save that money. Put that money up. Don't let the lifestyle trick you into it becoming a cycle. Now, what I mean by that, I mean, don't let the lifestyle make you feel like, "Oh, girl, this is beautiful. Every night is going to be a good night." I know I can go to work and make $1,000 here. I know I can go to work, make 2,000, 3,000, $4,000. Yes, you can make some really good money dancing. Absolutely, you can. But the goal is to get out of the strip club. I say this all the time. It's not to say in a strip club. It's to get out of the strip club. So, whenever you make bread, put that money up. Save that money. Don't spend all your money on bags. Don't spend all your money on shoes. Don't spend all your money on jewelry. Don't spend all your money on things that's not going to bring you back revenue. Okay? So, for an example, whenever you make bread, save that money for a rainy day. You know what I'm saying? And then the rest of the money that you have that you, you know, you feel like you could play with cuz you save this money. So, okay, I can do something with this money. Use that money to invest in. Start you a business. You know what I'm saying? or invest in something. Sorry, invest in some property, anything. But do not let the lifestyle trick you into it becoming a cycle. Now, when you let the lifestyle trick you and it becomes a cycle, then you literally start repeating yourself. What is a cycle, y'all? A cycle is a circle, right? And a circle is something that's never ending. It's back to back to back to back to back. Girl, you going to look up, you going to be 30, you still going to be doing the same thing. You going to look up, you going to be 40, you still going to be doing the same thing. That's what I mean by when I say do not let the lifestyle trick you into it becoming a cycle. Go in there, make your money, make as much money as you can. Have fun. Be safe while doing it, but make sure you doing it for a reason. Make sure you make sure you have some goals. Don't be dancing to to get your teeth done. Don't be dancing to get you a Birkin bag. Don't be dancing to get you like dumb things like that that don't really matter. Don't spend your money on that. Now, cool. If you want to invest in your looks, that's fine. But truthfully, honestly, the thing that's going to help you out the most, you know, as far as your future is investing in things that's going to bring you back revenue, like a business, you know what I'm saying? Investing in real estate, things like that. That's my best advice that I can give you as somebody that wants to start dancing. Um, number five, how do you protect yourself from the negative atmosphere in the club? Honestly, y'all, I pray. I pray. Like, that's how I protect myself from the negative energy. And every time I go in a club, I always set a goal for myself. And while I'm setting this goal, I always tell myself, wish your girl a big fat crazy stupid bag, a peaceful bag, and let the money flow to us naturally. I say that every single time, girl. And that has something to do with just, you know, like speaking positivity into the atmosphere before I even walk into it because I feel like the strip cup is full of negative energy. You got drunk all around, people that you don't know, everybody in one spot, you feel me? Full of negative energy. I don't think nothing positive is can come from the strip club. Honestly y'all, I literally lost my train of thought. Somebody called me and literally I just forgot everything I was just saying. But basically, girl, pray. Okay, that's how I protect myself from the negative energy in strip club is praying because there's so much going on in the strip club. Everybody high, everybody drunk, you feel me? You got all type of people in. You got scammers, MURDERERS, ALL KINDS of people. Okay, protect yourself. Pray. All right. All right. So, question number six is, "What would you tell younger you ABOUT YOUR DANCING JOURNEY?" THIS IS SUCH A great question, y'all. Oh my god. Like who ever asked that question? Snap. I feel like if I was sitting in front of my younger self right now, I would tell younger Barbie, you are beautiful. You are smart. You anything that you want out of life, you can get as long as you stay focused. Don't let this atmosphere swallow you up and make you into somebody that you're not. You are more than the people that you are around. You're intelligent. You have multiple jobs. You know how to do things outside of just shaking your ass. So, don't become like the girls around you. A lot of people in a strip club, well, I'm going to say dances. A lot of dancers in a strip club, I feel like they walk in as a certain type of woman and they come out a whole another person. Every single time, y'all. I see it every single time. Especially with the girls that just start dancing. Like, they'll come in and they'll like, "Hi, you know, my name is such and such." And they'll just be this very happy, you know, persona d a year will pass by. And not even a WHOLE YEAR. SOMETIMES SIX MONTHS WILL PASS BY TO a year and they're a whole another person. Now all of a sudden they a mean girl. You like what the hell You wasn't YOU LIKE YOU WAS A WHOLE ANOTHER PERSON NOT THAT LONG AGO. AND ON TOP OF THAT NOT ONLY WERE they they walk in innocent all the time. Okay. They walk in innocent and they leave like hoes. Like I start to say but that's exactly what happens. They walk in innocent and leave like truthfully. And I'm not going to say all of them, but definitely a majority of them. So, with that being said, like I said, I would tell myself, stay true to who you are. Don't let the game trick you out your position because at the end of the day, you here for a reason. You're here to make your money and you here to dip. You're not here to you're not here to sell me. You're not here to do that. You're not here for that. That's not why you started dancing. Don't let the game trick you out your position. Number seven is, is there anything you desire to do with your life once you stop dancing? Abso lutul. Absolutely. So, whenever I finish dancing, y'all um like I' I've said this multiple times um on my channel, but whenever I stop dancing, I want to go into the accounting field. That is what I'm going to school for now. And your girl want to want to become an accountant, period. Basically, like long story short, um I do have an aunt that's an accountant in Manhattan. So, that's kind of like already in my field. That's kind of already, you know what I'm saying, like in my face to do. Anyways, I love money. I love learning about money. I love talking about money. So, I kind of feel like like that would be the best lane for me to go in, honestly. And on top of that, I want to start me a business. So, not to really just touch too much on that, but I do want to start me a business, LIKE KIND OF LIKE ON SOME CARDI B TYPE You know what I'm saying? Like, I'm not going to say I want to do everything in the same steps that she did it, but Cardi B used to be a stripper. With her being a stripper in the past, I feel like that's very inspiring to me. Like, girl, not only were you a stripper, but you made it out of the damn out of the game. Like, you didn't stay in that Like, you did exactly what you were supposed to do. And that's what I be trying to tell people all the time. Like, the goal is to not stay in the strip club is to get out of the strip club. And Cardi B is a very good example of just that. Now, however, now how she did it, exactly how she did it, girl, it don't even matter cuz she made it out. Okay. And on TOP OF THAT, MY GIRL, SHE GOT A HEADLINE. SHE GOT all type of going on. Number eight was, "What made you want to document your experience working in the club?" Oh my god, girl. That is such a great freaking question. AND HONESTLY, TRUTHFULLY, I DON'T KNOW. LIKE, I TRULY DON'T KNOW. LIKE, TRUTHFULLY, I feel like when people start YouTube, they start YouTube for the money. But that was not the reason why I started YouTube. It honestly truthfully was not. I've been dancing for 9 years, and I've been doing YouTube for 4 years. So, half of the time of me dancing, I wasn't even documenting my experience. But if I would have to sit back and try to think of possibly what made me want to document my experience working in the club, I would probably have to say for the fact that I just always had so many stories to tell. You know what I'm saying? Like every time I go to work, literally I have a new story to tell. So I kind of felt like, damn, like maybe I should start a YouTube channel. You know what I'm saying? Because on my YouTube channel, I can talk about my experiences. I can talk about the stories that I encounter, the weirdos, you know what I'm saying? The weird rich witches, like everything that I encounter in one night in a strip club. And I just kind of feel like YouTube would be the perfect place to do that. Like a lot of people will be able to relate to me as far as other dancers. And girls that want to start dancing will know what they're walking into before they walk into it. Because when I first started dancing, I didn't have nobody show me the ropes. I DIDN'T. GIRL, WHEN I FIRST STARTED DANCING, I knew nothing about dancing. And honestly, truthfully, around that time when I started dancing, stripper vlogs was not really a thing for real. Like, like people wasn't doing stripper vlogs. I feel like stripping was more so of it's I feel like it's different now. Like now everybody glorify strippers. You know what I'm saying? Stripping is like, oh my god, everybody want to be a stripper nowadays. But around that time, I kind of felt like it wasn't as popular as it is now to start dancing. So, I truthfully, honestly, I didn't know what I was doing. I didn't have nobody to guide me. I didn't have nobody to tell me the dos and don'ts. Be careful with this, be careful with that. I literally learned everything the hard way when I started dancing. So, that's another reason why I do YouTube because I want to put the girls on. I want to let y'all know the dos and the don'ts. And that's why I always share my stories with y'all so y'all can just have an insight of how this really is. Because a lot of people think stripping is glitz and glams. Like, oh, it's so beautiful. Like, oh, I want to be a stripper. You know WHAT I'M SAYING? LIKE, I WANT TO BE A STRIPPER. LIKE, Y'ALL MAKE SO MUCH MONEY. But girl, yes, we make the money, but girl, it comes with a lot of Also, it's not what it seems like. All right, let's just start there. The dancing is not everything that you think it is. I promise. Okay, I pinky promise. Question nine is, are you nervous for the next chapter of your life? And truth be told, y'all, absolutely. Absolutely. I think I'm very nervous for the next chapter of my life. And the reason why I say that is because this type of person, me not knowing things bother me. It makes me nervous. It makes me anxious. Like I don't I don't like to know the unknown. So because I don't know what that looks like for me. I mean, I have an idea. You know what I'm saying? I have an idea how I want that to look for me necessarily mean it's going to happen in that specific order. But um am I nervous about my next chapter in my life? Absolutely. I just hope that everything is beautiful and everything is the way I imagine it to be because at the end of the day, God is in control and God literally, you know, is a person who who has to say so. But I wouldn't say nervous as far as scared. I would just say nervous as far as I just hope it's what I imagine it to be. Number 10. How do you deal with other women hating slash being jealous of you for no reason? Girl, girl, how do you deal with being JEALOUS OF YOU? BASICALLY, GIRL, HONESTLY, it's something that it you'll never get used to. Honestly, you'll get used to the jealousy and the hatred, but you'll never get used to actually like just dealing with it like every time. Well, personally for me, every time I have to deal with it, it makes me uncomfortable every time. Every time I have to deal with it, it annoys me every single time. And I've been dealing with this my whole life. I've been dealing with women being jealous of me, hating on me my whole entire life. Even down to the women I've been in relationships with, y'all. Yeah, but that's another topic FOR ANOTHER DAY. OKAY. I'VE BEEN DEALING with this literally my whole life. And like I said, honestly, it's something that makes me uncomfortable every time I have to deal with it because I'm the type of person I don't think people are jealous of me, but they do be jealous of me. Like, I feel like I'm too humble sometimes. I'm so humble to where if somebody does something jealous or some hate and towards me, I try to give them some type of grace. I try to give them some type of of excuse of why they did what they did. Because in the back of my mind, like, why would you be jealous of me? You get what I'm saying? Like, you could literally have everything I have, too, if you work hard for it. You could literally you you could literally live whatever life you want to live if you work hard for it. But the fact that you're jealous of me is crazy. Like I just I don't know, maybe I'm just too humble. But the way that I deal with other women being jealous of me or hating on me is I simply get the from around them. Okay? I do not I do not play that. I do not play hating as jealousy ass women. That I don't play that because you got to think about it. When you have people around you that's hating on you, that's jealous of you. I feel like they'll do anything to you, baby. And you ain't doing to me. Okay? Like I've seen too many movies where was jealous of people. They done put what? Nir in their shampoo bottles or bleach in their in their um what is it called? Their eye solution bottles. All type of to just to just them up, set them back. Like no, I'm scared of that I ain't going to lie. I'm scared of that And and baby, you can't be nowhere close to me. I do not. I truly honestly y'all I don't deal with it at all because I don't be around it. Soon as I get a whiff that you jealous of me, I'm moving around. Number 11. What happened with school? Did you finish? I think I already answered this question already, but I did take um well, not take, but I did take off the the last two semesters of school because I honestly needed a break. And right now, I feel like I have a lot of things that I'm focusing on that requires all of my attention. And on top of that, I just came back from Europe. So, it's not like I said, forget school and I'm not ever going back. I am going back to school, y'all. But right now, I feel like my focus is in different areas. cuz I have a new project I'm working on and it requires all of my attention, y'all. And I just know if I try to start this project while going to school, something's going to fail and I'm not a failure. So, if I can't be 100% in every single area that I'm in and I'm doing for the time being, I just simply won't do it for the time because I want to make sure I show up for myself 100% in whatever I'm doing. Number 13 is, I like to hear about your younger years. I'm 25 and struggling with feeling like things are going to be okay, especially financially. Can you talk about finances? Yes, I can. Yes, I can. Um, I honestly want to say this is this is one of my favorite questions too that somebody asked me. Okay. First of all, I want to say everything will be okay. Speak positivity over your life. It don't matter what you're going through right now, you will overcome it. For one. Um, for two, you want to talk about my younger years. I wish I knew exactly like what you're talking about. If I had a guess, maybe you're talking about like my younger years financially cuz you're saying especially financially. Keep talking about finances. Okay. I feel like I've always had the same mindset I have now as an adult. Mind you, well, granted, I'm older now. I have more wisdom. So, it is more things that I know now than I didn't know when I was younger. But, I will say, ever since I was a ever since I was a child, I always knew the the value of a dollar. Like I was a type of person that I can go in the store, I know exactly how much something cost to the saint. Okay? Because of my upbringing. So my upbringing was kind of, and this is not to like put y'all too much in my business, but you know what I'm saying? Y'all ask, so I'm going to tell y'all. So growing up, I wasn't I wasn't, you know, fed with the how they say it with with the golden spoon, the silver spoon. I wasn't I wasn't fed with no silver spoon, y'all. I wasn't I had a very hard upbringing. Okay. My mother was not rich. Okay? father was not rich. Very much lived paycheck to paycheck. Okay. Like it was it was hard for us. I'm not going to lie. We lived a hard knock life for us. I would say we was kind of poor growing up. Like I wouldn't say the poorest, but yeah, we were kind of poor. Not going to lie. Like I didn't have the nicest shoes, the nicest clothes and like that growing up. So at a young age, I kind of already knew how I wanted my life to go because of what I had to endure as a child. So, I was on some like, "Yo, whenever I get older, I'm going to be rich. I'm going to be a millionaire. I'm going to be this. I'm going to be that. I'm going to have whatever I want. I want to be the type of girl that can walk in the store and get whatever the hell they want." I want to be the girl that walk in the store. And if I wanted the same thing in every single color that they had it in, I want to be able to do that. So, I always, always, always, always knew what type of woman I was going to become before I even became that woman. Okay. So, I think that was your question. Hopefully that answered your question as far as me talking about my younger years. But as far as talking about finances, um I feel like I kind of already touched on that a little bit in uh the beginning of the video, which was really the first question, but like I said, just know exactly where your money is going and become financially literate to where you know exactly what's going on around you. Number three, not making crazy impulsive decisions just just for the of it. Like like that's actually a thing. People People don't People do that more than y'all probably think they do. Like I used to be that type of person. I would walk in the store and see something be like, "I need that." Mind you, that was never even on my mind to buy before I even seen it. Okay? I didn't even know I wanted it until I saw it. That's how you know it's an impulsive buy when it wasn't even on your mind to get until you saw it. Okay? Don't do that. And number four, organize your money. Put your money in different accounts. I can't tell you exactly what kind of accounts to have because we all have different goals. I have different things with regatories. Basically, to sum it up, organize your money. Become financially literate. Do not make impulsive decisions when it comes down to buying things. And number four, have financial goals. Okay? Don't be that guy that doesn't have no money to fall back on a rainy day. Okay? Don't be that person. O that is something that I'm scared of the most. I'm so scared of being without to where there's in my mind that's not an option. I work hard. I work hard for a reason. I work hard so I don't have to worry about calling calling somebody up if I need a dollar. Hey, can you let me borrow um $10 till next week? Hell no. I work hard so I don't have to worry about doing that. So, I hope that answer your question. I didn't go that in detail because I already answered the question, but yeah, I hope that answer your question, girl. Okay. Um, so question number 14 is, what's your favorite cities to dance in? Um, honestly y'all, I feel like I've danced in a lot of cities. I've danced in New York. I've danced in Miami. I've danced in Atlanta. I've danced in Charlotte. I've danced in um Houston. Um, what else? Where else? Where else? Where else? I feel like I'm I feel like I'm missing I feel like I'm missing some cities, but I feel like out of all the cities that I've danced in, my favorite city to dance in is Miami. Like Miami will ever be number one. We turn Miami. Miami will always be number one, y'all. Always. Okay. And the reason why I say Miami is cuz I JUST FEEL LIKE Y'ALL MONEY IS DIFFERENT OUT THERE. LIKE GIRL, WHAT THE HELL? WHAT IS Y'ALL DOING? OKAY. HONESTLY, TRUTHFULLY, I feel like that's where the scammers reside. For real. Cuz the money in Miami is just different. Like I feel like Atlanta don't got on Miami. Okay, now heads up, don't shoot. I don't want to tussle with y'all in the comments on who got more money, Atlanta or Miami. Cuz that's not the purpose of this video or this segment of the video, but I just feel like the money in Miami just hit different. Every time I go to Miami, I make a bag. Every single time. Like every single time. When I go to Atlanta, I make a bag, too. But the money is just I don't know. It's just different. So, I would say if I had to put the cities in order, I would say Miami, then I would say Atlanta, then I would say Charlotte, then I would say Houston, then I would SAY NEW YORK. OKAY, IF YALL DON'T KNOW, I HATE DANCING. I hate it when I dance in New York. And a lot of people that's never danced there be asking me like, "Girl, really? Is it is that I truly honestly feel like New York I feel like the strip clubs is really bartender city." like they they they glorify the bartenders in my opinion, not really so much the strippers. So, whenever I was dancing in New York, which was a little minute ago, I feel like I feel like it was really like a bartender thing. Like, if you was a bartender, you was good. Like, if you was a dancer, I felt like you had to work a little bit harder. And the club that I worked at when I was working in New York, the um the stage was behind the bar, which is kind of like that with a lot of strip clubs out there, but the stage is like behind the bar. So, it's like if people are throwing ones, right? If they're throwing ones, and the ones don't hit the stage, then it's the bartender's money. You get what I'm saying? And so, it's kind of hard to like, oh no, that was my money. Oh, no, that was my money. Or no, he was throwing money that it's kind of hard to argue with that. It all just depends on where the money lands. So honestly y'all, New York definitely has to be my least favorite city to dance in. And on top of that, when I was dancing in New York, that's when I first started dancing. And I didn't really know what I know now. You know what I'm saying? So obviously, it's a huge difference if I go back to New York and I dance there now than before. But honestly, I think New York is trash to dance in. That's just my opinion. So hey, YOU DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO WITH that information. If you want to try out New York for yourself, I say go ahead and do it because at the end of the day, hey, we all have different experiences. That was just my experience. Okay. Teen is, did you go to Spain for school? Are you in a relationship? Is someone new making your heart smile again. GIRL, I DON'T KNOW why this just made me laugh, but it did. Okay, so um did you go to Spain for school? Okay, I know for one, I know this is the OG subscriber because when I was talking about this, this was definitely like a year and a half ago. No, I ended up not going to Spain for school. Thing is, I can still always go to Spain. Like, it's like it's not like the um opportunity is off the table or anything like that. It wasn't like a a one-time thing, so I can always go, but I ended up not, you know, uh enrolling in school the next semester, so I ended up not going, basically. Um, are you in a relationship? No, I am not in a relationship. Uh, is someone new making your heart smile again? You know WHAT I'M SAYING? OKAY, we just going to say you know what I'm saying. Um, next question is, how is your house journey going? Okay, so I know a lot of y'all have been asking about the house and how the house has been going and I kind of like left y'all like on the outskirts about it. And truly honestly y'all, the reason why I haven't been updating y'all on the house and what's been going on with the house journey is because girl, it's literally been a journey. Okay, let's start there. So, for one, if y'all don't know, if y'all new here, I do have two properties. I bought two houses uh last year. And I feel like the reason why I didn't want to come on my channel and start talking about the properties is because I feel like I wasn't educated enough to talk about it because it was my first time doing all of it. Like last year I bought two houses in one year, y'all. Two. Okay, that is that is crazy. That's a real big thing. Like no one's out here doing that. Especially like on the type of level that I am. Like yeah, celebrities, rich people, but like normal working people are not doing that. I felt like I wanted to learn as much as I can before I came on camera and I just started talking to y'all about the journey and telling y'all about this and that and the third. Like I just felt like it was a lot to learn. So that's why I chose not to really talk about it. But as far as right now, I feel like I could talk about it a little bit more cuz you know I I've learned some things. You know what I'm saying? Your girl learned some things. So um how is your house journey going? I feel like my house journey is going beautifully. Okay. I will say it's two different journeys though. So the first journey with the rental property is a completely different journey than the house journey is going. Okay. The one I'm living now in now. know with my rental property, right, girl. Girl, it's it it's a journey. It's a journey. I feel like now that I have tenants that's living in the house, it's just always something, girl. It's always something. They're always I'm not going to say complaining about something cuz that they don't really complain that much. But I will say it's like a hand to feet thing. If if something goes wrong, you have to replace it in in a timely manner, too. And that just goes back on making sure your financial uh situation is in order because if it's not, then the tenants is unhappy. They're they're pissed the hell off. If they're pissed off, that means you're going to be pissed off. End of the day, you're playing with your money by not making your tenants happy. Yeah, granted they signed a lease agreement. If the house is not in order, if things are breaking and you're not fixing them, then baby, they could just take you to court real easy. like definitely say my rental property is definitely my most stressful property that I've been dealing with simply because I have tenants in there and it's different when you're living in your house and someone else is living in one of your other houses. I feel like it's it's very different. I feel like I don't have that many complaints from them, but the complaints that I have had from them have been very stressful because it's been things that needed a immediate fix right then and there. I know one time they had um called my uh property manager because I don't deal with my property, girl. I don't absolutely not. I pay somebody to deal with deal with it because girl, if it was up TO ME, I WOULD LOSE MY MIND. TRULY, HONESTLY, I LOSE MY MIND BECAUSE IT'S SOMETHING THEY I FEEL LIKE TENANTS, they always calling for something, girl. Always calling for something. And a lot of the times, it don't really be a big deal what they be calling about, but they going to call every single time. So, I do pay somebody to manage my property. Um, but like I said, once they call her, she calls me. So, I still deal with it. But I will say I've spent a lot of money on that property alone. Even after I had bought the property, I don't know if y'all know, if y'all new here, I did buy my rental property in cash. I bought it completely out. So, I don't have no mortgage note or anything on that property. But that doesn't mean things can't go wrong because you paid it out cash. You know what I'm saying? Things have broken since they've been in there that I had to replace. Truthfully, honestly, y'all, I wouldn't I wouldn't give this up for nothing in the world. Like I truly honestly would not. And my rental property is one of my biggest biggest investments. Truthfully, honestly, don't get me wrong. My house that I'm living in now is an investment. But the rental property, baby, we get that check every month. Okay? We get that check every month. And I love it here. So, to sum it up, I feel like my house journey has been beautiful. It's been some hoops and loops I had to jump through, y'all. It's been some things I had to learn. You know what I'm saying? and I definitely bumped my head, but that's the beauty of it all, learning through it. Okay. Um, question number 17 is, did you go to jail in Europe? GIRL, WHAT? LIKE, WHY WOULD Y'ALL ASK ME THAT? NO, I did not go to jail in Europe. Like, what? Um, I know I did kind of like fall off the face of the earth for a little bit, but no, girl, I was not in jail. Did you go to jail is crazy word. Um, somebody said, "Why you ain't vlog on your phone?" The reason why I didn't vlog on my phone is because y'all, honestly, the quality isn't the same. Like, and no, that's not an excuse, but that's truth be told, the quality isn't the same. Like, when I vlog off my camera, the quality is A1. Beautiful, magnificent. When I vlog off my camera, girl, it it you know what I'm saying? I'm trying to get y'all I'm trying to give y'all the real deal. I'm trying to give y'all 100%. You know what I'm saying? The the good views, good angles, all that. the phone. It just it just don't hit y'all. Honestly, I don't think I can go back to vlogging off my phone ever again. I haven't done it in years. Honestly, truthfully, y'all, I just didn't want to vlog off my phone. And because I left everything, it didn't even make sense to vlog off my phone. I didn't even have my my my computer to even edit the vlog. So, nothing truly made sense. So, I just decided, hey, I'll just pick it up whenever I get back. And that's what I did. Sorry for having y'all waiting so long, though. But your girl is back and she got that. So, period. Okay, question number 18 is where would you recommend dancing in Atlanta? Um, I would recommend dancing at what's that club called? Pinups. Okay, so whenever I go to uh Atlanta, I dance at Pinups. I've danced at Onyx as well, but I really like pinups. But for me, like my opinion on pinups is that's kind of like the after hours spot. So it's kind of like the spot everybody go to after they get done doing everything else they're doing. So, be prepared for it to be like a very late crowd. But I will say the money is up in there though, okay? The money is definitely up in there. Um, before you just hop up and run to Atlanta, make sure you have a license because if you don't have a license to dance, they will not let you dance. Out there will just charge you more if you don't have a license. But if you plan on dancing like on a big night or something like that, they're not letting you dance for that. You paying extra money to dance if you don't have a license. Everybody's not gonna let you get away with that. Like that's one of them things where if you run into somebody who feel like being nice in that moment, they'll let you do it. But don't think you're gonna come back tomorrow and they gonna let you do it again. Cuz nine times out of 10, they won't. So it's honestly truthfully better if you just go ahead and get your license and get it over with so you don't have to worry about nobody questioning you and you don't got to worry about being turned around. If I'm not mistaken, because I haven't danced in Atlanta in a minute. Um, whenever I had got whenever I had got my license to dance in Atlanta, I think I paid like $300. Before you go out there, just know exactly what club you going to and um, make sure you get a license because like I said once again, if you don't have a license to shake that ass in Atlanta, you will not be shaking no ASS IN ATLANTA. OKAY, ONYX is a cool club to dance at, too. But for me, when I danced at Onyx, I was new dancing at that club. So, they made me work uh day shift before I started working night shift, but I was only there for like the weekend. So, I was just like, "Fuck it. I'll just do a day shift." And dayshift was still cool. Um, one day shift that I had worked when I was out there in Atlanta, I made like $700 day shift, y'all. Okay. $700 is not bad for dayshift. That's actually very, very good. Um, number 19. Can you give us more insight on the home buying process with one or both properties? With my first property, I bought that property out in cash, y'all. So, it was easy. Literally one, two, three. All I had to do was bring the bread to the spot, sign all the documents. It was a lot of paperworks, by the way. The packet was like this damn thick. This thick. And that was it. Literally easy peasy. They didn't they didn't need no extra nothing. Okay? They just wanted to make sure you had the money. Oh, and on top of that, they needed some type of verification of where the money came from. That was another thing. So, being a dancer, um, for me, I have multiple sources of income. So, for me, it wasn't a problem to prove where all my money came from. But if you don't have different sources of income, that may be a problem for you. And that may be something that you need to look into moving forward because if you don't have any way to verify how you got this money, you look that as a red flag, and they may or may not want to do business with you. Money laundering is a real thing. All right? So, make sure that y'all have proof of where y'all money is coming from. Now, when you're buying a home and you're taking out a mortgage on that home, that is very stressful, girl. That is very stressful because you got to think about it like they all up in your business, girl. Know everything, girl. They want to know where you got the money from. They want to know the credit score. They want to know all your delinquencies. They want to know um if you have any accounts that's that's been closed in the past. Baby, they they want to know everything. Nothing is your business when it comes down to buying a house. I will say taking out a mortgage on a home is very much more stressful than buying a house out of cash. Buying a house out in cash is one two three easy. Taking out a mortgage takes longer. Um it's a longer process. Um it's banks, you know, that your broker is has to go through trying to find the right, you know, loans for you. FHA loans, VA loans. Uh it's all kinds of loans, y'all. And it's also all kinds of steps. And it it's a process truthfully. When it came down to me buying my home, it took me like I want to say like three weeks to a month just to get just to get approved with everything and all the documents signed and and to actually like have the house and the house that actually belong to me. It took me a good minute. For me, it seemed like every time this would go right, this would go wrong. And then when this would go right, this would go wrong. Nothing ever just aligned up with each other up until the end. And it was very damn stressful, girl. Very stressful. So, whenever you're buying a home, just be prepared to be stressed out because I'm telling you, it's not a walk in the park unless you got all the money to pay for it. It's stressful. Okay? I had to put down a lot of money on my home. This wasn't a walk in the park for me. Okay? I know a lot of people that probably have beautiful credit and they don't have to put down much, but I had to put down half of the amount that my house is worth just to get the rest of the money FROM THE BANK. OKAY? SO, do whatever y'all want to do with that information, but just make sure everything is in order. Your credit, you know what I'm saying? Your bread, where you getting the money from, everything makes sense, everything is lining up. Because if it don't, then they're not going to approve you. And that's just that on that. The next question is, where have you been? I think I already answered this question, but I was in Europe. Um, how is Oita? Oita is good. This is my girl. If y'all don't know, this is my baby. OA, my little baby. She's good though, y'all. Bad as hell, but she good. Um, how's everything going with the house? Everything's going perfectly with the house, y'all. Beautifully. Both my properties. Like I said, this investing in these properties was probably like the best thing I could have ever did. Honestly, y'all, I'm doing it again. Like as stressful as this whole process was with both of my properties, really my second one more than the first one, I do I want to do it over and over and over and over and over again. I plan on having multiple properties. So, this is just what comes with it. All right, y'all. So, next question is, what is the wildest thing that's ever happened to you in the club? Girl, like I don't even know. Like I feel like I've had a lot of wild things happen to me in the club. But if I would have to choose one, I would have to say this one time I was working in Atlanta. This guy um he was with his I think it was his wife, his wife or girlfriend, one of the two. And they were swinging. Y'all know the couples that go to the club looking for people to take home. Yeah, they was that type. So uh the guy is the guy is actually the one who spotted me out. You know, usually it's the girl, but the guy was like, you know what I'm saying? I I want her. Cool. So, I go over there, I start talking to them. The lady's like, "You got a friend?" "Yeah, beta." I go get my home girl, right? We start dancing. And while we dancing, y'all, the man completely turned me off. Like, I'm the type of person I don't get turned off. I DON'T GET TURNED ON IN the club, but I don't really get turned off either. Like, I'm always like in the middle. Like, you could piss me off, but it's kind of hard to turn me off for real because I'm not ever turned on, if that makes sense. Anyways, so as I'm dancing with him, he's in my ear, right? And he's like, "Oh, you so beautiful. You so beautiful." Mind you, I get compliments every single day. That's nothing. But it was the way that he was doing it. He was doing it in a sexualization type way. Ooh, you so beautiful. Ooh, look. Look at the way that you throwing that back. Like, ooh, look at the way. And I'm just like, CAN YOU STOP? LIKE, LIKE IT WAS JUST SO CREEPY. Like I just felt like he was mentally like having sex with me mentally. Like I don't know. It was just so damn weird. This the part that really creeped me out the most. He going to come up behind me and say, "Oh, I want you to have my baby. Ooh, I want you to have my baby." Instant turn off. Don't ever tell me you want me to have any of your kids. Clearly, I don't have any kids now. So, what the hell would make you think I would want your kids, right? But that's not even that's not even the crazy thing. That's not even the wild part about it. The wild part is he had told me that he wanted me to have his baby so our baby could come out looking like me so he could groom her. I beg your pardon? You just sat up here and told me that you want to that you want me to have your baby so your baby could come out looking like me so you can groom her? Are you dumb? Like what? Like honestly y'all that threw me the off. That threw me the off. I don't like pedophiles. I don't like pedophilia. I don't like rapists. I don't like I don't like none of it. I I hate it. Hate it. Hate it. Hate it. Hate it. So the fact that you sat up here and basically told me that you wanted me to have a baby for you so you could have sex with when she become of age is creepy as hell. That's creepy as hell. And honestly, I'm about to call the POLICE ON YOU. HONESTLY, I'M ABOUT TO CALL THE COPS ON YOU BECAUSE I I JUST PRAY AND hope that your wife, your girlfriend, whatever she is, y'all don't have no children together. And if y'all do, I hope that that's not what you're doing to those to those kids because that's that's weird. It's honestly the weirdest thing ever. And it made me feel so uncomfortable to where I didn't care about the money. I got my money up that I made and I got the hell on because like I said, I don't I don't like pedophiles. turned me completely off. So, I would have to say that for sure has to be the weirdest thing, wildest, weirdest thing that's ever happened to me in a club. Like, what the you mean have you a baby so you could have sex with her? are you dumb? What? So, the next question is, would you ever go back to the military? And the question is, hell no. Okay. Um, don't get me wrong though, y'all. Like I feel like um I feel like with the military like it's something that I would never change, you know, if I can go back in time and change anything, I would never change going to the military. I feel like the military set me up for success and it basically like gave me a foundation, you know, when it came to life, when it came to this life and figuring out, it gave me a foundation to stand on. So I don't regret the military, but would I go back in the military? Absolutely not. Okay. Absolutely not. So, the next question is, are you married and how have you been? So, am I married? No, your girl is not married. Um, do I plan on getting married? YES, I DO. UM, I do plan on getting married, y'all. Um, for the ones who don't know, well, probably a lot of y'all don't know this. I don't think I've ever said this on my channel before, but um, I have been married before. I was married when I was younger, like way way way younger and And honestly, whenever like I went through my divorce and stuff, like girl, I told myself, I will never get married again. Okay, I will never get married again. And I stood on that. I stood on that. I stood on that. I stood on that for a long, long time, girl, and never got married. But now that I'm older and like that, I've realized me not getting married again is honestly me doing a disservice to myself by telling myself to never get married again. Like marriage is beautiful if you do it with the right person. So yeah, I do want to get married again. Next question is, how have you been? I've been good, girl. I cannot complain. Okay. Um, next question is, how do you honor your mom each year? Y'all, y'all trying to make me cry. Y'all trying to make me cry on here. What's going on? What's really t Let me get it together. Let me get it together, y'all. For I cry for real. Um, how do I honor my mom each year? So, this is something that I don't talk about often because I feel like it's very emotional for me. Um, but if y'all don't know, you know, you know, I'm going to tell y'all. Um, my mother did pass away a couple years ago. Like I said, very uh touchy to speak on. Um like I don't know why I keep laughing. I laugh, y'all. I laugh for everything. Okay, I laugh. I laugh in every situation. Good, bad, ugly, sad, when I'm nervous. I laugh all the time. But back to the question. Um, a way that I honor my mom every year is around her birthday, I always go to her grave site. Um, where I live now is in a completely different state than um where my mother is buried at. Y'all, this is hard to talk about. DAMN. LIKE, I DIDN'T EVEN REALIZE THIS IS GOING TO BE THIS HARD. I feel like I feel like I'm struggling to get this out. But anyways, uh, every year on my mom's birthday, I go to her grave site and I bring her flowers and, um, I talk to her. I kiss her grave and my god, I want to cry. You outdid yourself with this question for real. Um, I talk to her. I kiss her grave. I bring her flowers and we just talk. Next question. Next question. Cuz if I keep talking about it, I'm going to cry, y'all. For real. People want children. So y'all, for a long time, I always told myself I did not want kids. Um, because I was just like, e, like, why do I need kids? You know what I'm saying? My life lit as hell without them. Why do I need kids? I never wanted kids. I always knew I did not want kids. Cuz growing up, it was four of us. It was me and my brother, my other brother, and my sister. Our house was crazy as hell. Always loud. Somebody's always walking in your in your room. No such thing as privacy. You got somebody You always got somebody eating your food. There's no such thing as leftovers cuz if you put it in the fridge, it'll be gone. SOMEBODY WAS JUST ALWAYS doing something in my house. Always doing just something something very much something. So, I just always knew as a kid like, "Bro, if this one is LIKE HAVING KIDS, I DON'T WANT THEM." LIKE, y'all so aggravating. I you I literally thought my siblings were aggravating. AND LIKE WHO DOESN'T, RIGHT? Who doesn't think their siblings is agony? But I thought my siblings were so aggravating to the point where it made me not even want kids ever. Obviously, I'm getting older now, right? Obviously, I'm 30 now. So, as I'm getting older, I do want kids. Um, well, I'm not going to say kids. I'm going to say a kid. I don't want two kids. I just want one. I just want one little human that I could raise up to become the best little human that human could be. Okay. And I feel like I could do that with one child. I don't need two, three, four, five kids to do that with. One, yeah, one is enough. Okay. So, I do see a child in the near future. And yeah, that's all I'm going to say on that. And y'all, PLEASE DON'T THINK I'M PREGNANT OR NOTHING CRAZY like that. I am not pregnant. Okay, let's just go ahead and and clear up that allegation. I don't want nobody thinking I'm pregnant. I'm not pregnant. Okay. The best part of your Europe trip and why did you go? M. Honestly, y'all, I would say the best part of my Europe trip was probably the experience. Um, going out of the country, which I do often. This wasn't the first time I've ever went out the country, but I will say this was my first time I went out the country and and stayed for that long. Usually when I go out the country, I'm out the country for for maybe like 2 to 3 weeks, but this time when I went to Europe, I was in Europe for 6 months. So, I feel like the best part was honestly just the experience and being around being on a whole new continent, picking up on little words while I was out there. Like, I'm not going to say I know how to speak the Albanian language cuz I don't. BUT I KNOW I KNOW A COUPLE WORDS, Y'ALL. I KNOW ABOUT A FIVE, SIX, seven words. I ain't going to lie. I learned a little bit while I was out there. I would say the experience was probably the best part. The next question is, do you ever see yourself doing something different? I don't know if you mean like outside of dancing, but I'm going to assume that's what you mean. But um absolutely. I see myself doing something different as far as dancing. Um dancing is something that I never planned on doing for this long. All my OG subscribers already know that. I talk about I I used to say that all the time. When I turn 30, I'm not going to be in a strip club no more. When I turn 30, when I turn 30, when I turn 30, girl, and I'm 32 in the strip club. What the hell? I want to work in accounting field and I want to start my own business. I'm I think I answered that question already. Um the next question is what made you get into dancing? Girl y'all take a seat. Take a seat. Take a seat. Let's take a sip to this question. Okay. Reason behind me dancing is really going to blow y'all minds. So what got me into dancing was honestly not myself. Dancing was never something that I thought I would do. Never something that I wanted to do. Never was a thought that went through my mind. You know how nowadays how everybody want to be dancers? How all the little girls glorify dancing? Oh my god. I want to be a stripper. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. That was never me. Never me, girl. For one, I always felt uncomfortable when it came down to uh when it came down to how men stared at me alone. That used to make me uncomfortable. For two, I didn't know how to dance. For three, I was not all that confident as I am now. Like all of these things came later on, like as I started dancing. Like it was never something that I've always had. I always knew I had a pretty face, but girl, I didn't know how to shake my ass. I didn't know how to dance. I didn't even know how Girl, I was a mess. Okay, I was a mess. So dancing was never something that I wanted to do. Now, how I actually got into dancing is because I had this girlfriend that I was dating at the time, right? And she was trying TO PIN ME OUT. SHE WAS TRYING TO PIMP ME OUT. TO MAKE A long story short, my ex-girlfriend tried to pimp me out, y'all. And at the time, I didn't I didn't know that that's what she was trying to do up until I knew that that was what she was trying to do. So, I just remember vividly this one time she called me, right? She called me. I answer the phone. I'm like, "Hello." She's like, "What you doing?" Ah, whatever. She get straight to it. She's like, "Have you ever considered like dancing? like, "Has that ever been something you thought about doing?" I said, "Dancing? What you what are you talking about dancing? Like what? What type of dancing?" She like, "Stripping?" I'm like, "No." Like, "Why would I be a stripper?" I literally, y'all, it's crazy that I'm a stripper now because I literally said strippers are And I'm not even that myself being a stripper today. But I said that cuz I was uneducated about dancing. So, I was like, "Why would I why would I want to be A HOE?" LIKE, WHY WOULD I WANT THAT? And she's like, "It doesn't mean that you're a hoe if you start dancing." Da da da. And I'm like, "Okay, but like why would I want to do that once again?" So, make a long story short, she ended up getting in my head and telling me, "I think you should do it. You're pretty. You got the Spanish look going on." You know what I'm saying? I am Spanish for y'all that don't know. I'm her doring black. So, she's like, "You got the Spanish thing going on. I know they'll love you in the city. I I you so pretty. On top of that, I think you should start dancing." So, I'm like, "But I don't know how to dance though." You feel me? You're telling me I should dance, but I literally don't know how to dance and I'm uncomfortable as hell. Like, imagine walking around in a little ass piece of a thong and you already feel uncomfortable when men look at you with clothes on. Now y'all looking at me with a little piece of thong on. LIKE, I'M UNCOMFORTABLE. I'm literally uncomfortable. So, she ended up talking me into doing it, y'all. And the thing is, the crazy thing is is I didn't even know she was trying to pit me out. Whole time she was trying to pin me out, y'all. Damn. I'm so glad I have good discernment. And I'm so glad like I'm in tune with my gut feeling in my mind and I'm smart and I've never been a dummy because if I was dumb and she would have definitely had her way with me, okay? Cuz she was trying it. Like I remember one day she was like, "How one day I went to work and I had got off work and she was like, "How much money you make?" And I said, "Shit." Like in my mind I'm thinking like, "Why you asking me how much money I make?" Like like that's something that you don't ask anybody. I don't give a damn if you work at McDonald's. You're not walking up to a McDonald's worker and saying how much you make. you not walking up to somebody that work in a bank and you and you like how much you made. You feel me? SO WHY YOU ASKING me that? That's how that's how I would always think when she would ask me that. And so she like, "Damn, you act like you can't tell me how much you make and I helped you get in the club." And I'm like, "You didn't help me do nothing. All you did was point me in the direction and told me which clubs I should go to and which clubs I should not go to. But as far as helping me, I helped myself get in this YOU FEEL ME? IT WAS my face that got me in this damn building. It was my body that got me in this building. It was my ass that I had to shake that got this money. So why you asking me how much money I make it? Like I always thought that was weird. But mind you, I did not know that that's what she was trying to do. But girl, a whole time she was trying to pin me out. And once I started putting the pieces together, I told her by herself and I told her, "Look, listen. Don't ask me how much I made again. Don't ask me that cuz what what you want to cut or something? That's what you looking for? You not getting it. Like you not dancing. You not shaking your ass. I'm absolutely not. She felt some type of way. I didn't give a damn and it was what it was. But basically, that's how your girl started dancing because of my ex, she tried to pin ME OUT. THIS so crazy. I can laugh at it now, y'all, cuz it's funny now. But at the time, it was like, are you dumb? Like, WHO YOU TRYING TO PLAY ME FOR? Happened to the rental property you were working on. I think I answered that question already. I still have that rental property now. Nothing happened to it. I still have it. Um, and the last question is, "How is your mental as a student and a dancer?" Okay, I feel like that's a very good question to sum up today's chitchat video, but how is my mental as a student and a dancer? Um, I haven't been a student in about a year now, but when I was a student, my mental was, girl, unstable. Um, I felt stressed out. I I was balancing a lot at one time. I was balancing school and work and YouTube. I just had too much going on. So, I felt like my mental was very unbalanced, very, very crazy. I felt like I WAS GOING CUCKOO. LIKE, NOT GOING TO LIE, I feel like I was going crazy. Um, how is my mental now as a dancer? I feel like my mental, my mental is cool. My mental is kind of always calm on the dancer side because I've been doing it for a long time and I know what I'm doing. So, I'm never like stressed out dancing. I feel like the only thing that really just stresses me out when it comes to being a dancer is when the money slows down, that stresses me out. Um, and also on top of that, like putting my focus more so into dancing than I do anything else. Now, with that being said, I feel like I'm an overachiever. That's just me. I don't know about everybody else, but I'm over overachiever. And anything that I put my focus into, I put my all I put all my focus into it. Now, I do feel like my mental has changed as far as dancing because I used to put all my energy and everything into dancing. But now that I'm getting older, I'm realizing I need to shift my focus. I need to stop putting all my energy into dancing and put that energy into other things because even on YouTube, I make videos, I make vlogs and things like that, but I'm still talking about dancing. That's still putting all my energy into dancing. On top of that, I do know my days are winding down dancing. um this isn't something I want to do for the rest of my life. I got two properties out of it. I feel like I'm more than satisfied. I'm more than I'm more than content with it. So, as far as right now, I feel like as a whole, my mental is great. But as a dancer, not so great. Like honestly, y'all, it's a drug. The cup is a drug. Can we talk about it? It's a drug that nobody wants to admit. It's a drug that nobody wants to talk about. Like the club is a drug, an addicting drug that you cannot get off of. It's like once you start making a certain amount of money, you get this high from it, that you never want to come down from. And honestly, it's very scary. Find yourself doing the same thing for years and years and years and years and years. Even after telling yourself, yeah, like, nah, I'm not going to be doing this for too much longer. Or, yeah, nah, I'mma stop dancing when I'm 30. Or, yeah, I'm going to stop dancing when I'm 35, 40. Then you see yourself still doing it and you wonder why. is because it's a drug, y'all. Making fast money is a drug no one talks about. But overall, I feel like my mentor was good, though. Like, you know what I'm saying? I feel like we good, y'all. So, that is all the questions for today's video. I hope that I was able to get to everybody's question that um DM'd me because I try to get every single one of y'all questions. Like I said, if y'all repeated the same questions, then I just made that into one question. Obviously, um even reading the questions down, I still found some questions that was repeated. But hey, it's cool. You know what I'm saying? We got through the questions, GIRL. AND WOO, THAT WAS A LOT. THAT WAS A LOT. I FEEL LIKE IN THAT IN THAT LITTLE SEGMENT, in that little piece of video, I feel like I went through a whole lot of highs and lows. Highs and lows, girl. Like, wo wo wo. But we got through one. Okay. 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