Because hearts are often left broken with words left unspoken. I tend to avoid men in leggings. Hello, Bumble's B Line. I'm I'm Emma reporting for Bumble's B Line. >> >> Now tell me everything. You're through to Maya. Hi there, how can I help? >> >> Go for Maya. >> Okay, so maybe I'm overthinking this, but the person I'm seeing refuses to post me. They're saying that they just like to keep the relationship private, but I've started to wonder why would they just hide launch me? And how can I tell if they're protecting what we have or if they're just hiding me? >> It's a tough one because I feel like it's different strokes for different folks. Study your partner. If he's frequent and the only thing missing from the snaps is you, maybe some alarm bells, but if they're a private person, then just accept their privacy. You got this, babes. Hello, Maya here. >> Hi Maya. So, the person I've been dating keeps joking and taking the mickey out of me. And normally I can give it back, but on our last date I noticed we spent the whole evening roasting each other and neither of us said anything nice. How do I tell them I quite like a compliment without getting roast for that, too? >> Well, first off, kind of fun. But if you want your cute moments, you like some softness, I just think there's no problem with addressing the issue head on. Or you could just start with complimenting him. Be like, "Haha, funny, funny." You look fit and then see what he says back. And then if after that he goes, "You look then be like, "Okay, enough. Come on. It will all be fine." Yeah. Okay, love you. Bye-bye. You've got Maya. >> Hey Bumble, every single girl that I seem to go on a date with is wearing these horse trotters shoes. What's going on? >> >> I don't know. They like the shoes, don't they? Let them live. If you don't like horse shoes, don't ask them out on a date. Look at their feet first and say, "What kind of shoes are you into?" And if they say horsey ones, say, "Not today." I tend to avoid men in leggings. There's plenty more people that don't wear horse shoes. Okay, bye-bye. Oh, it's time for go ahead or shred. Okay, let's have a look. Dear Maya, you mentioned your favorite childhood snack once. They turn up with it on the next day. Go ahead or shred. Well, that's just cute, isn't it? Lovely. Go ahead. Hi there, Maya. They wear sunglasses throughout your dinner date. You're indoors. Go ahead or shred. No, I would ask them to take them off at some point. You can get shredded. So long to the sunnies. They bring their dog to the date. Go ahead or shred. Obviously, go ahead. That is really cute, responsible parent. Go ahead. That is it. Some shred, some go ahead. >> >> Hello, how can I help? >> So, I'm dating a guy, but he keeps using my skin care, like the really expensive stuff. And like I've said in a jokey way, "Don't use that, Ash." But I know he's still doing it when I'm not there. And I've asked him again, and he's denying it. Like he's denying everything. What do I do? >> At the beginning when you started explaining, I was like, "That's fine, cute. Sharing is caring." If they're doing it and not telling you, like, "What? Are you a a thief in the night?" So, the lying, that's an issue. I would take that as a little bit of a red flag. Just just confront him. And maybe do it in the laughy way and then see where he goes. I think both of you deserve to glow together. You are blessed. Don't worry. Hello, Maya here. Talk to me. >> I matched with someone on Bumble who lives in Hackney and I'm in Wandsworth. Every date has to be near them because apparently my borough has no personality. I've crossed London three times and they never crossed the river. How do I tell them that their postcode isn't a personality either? >> Oh, that's crazy. I actually used to live in Wandsworth during lockdown. Loved it over there. So much personality. He is wrong. I don't know. The honest truth is I would feel like he doesn't want to make the effort. Like you are not that into me because it's not that far. Mutual compromise is what it's about. And if he's not willing to do that, then signora. Hope that helps. Wandsworth's great, by the way. You're through to Bumble's Be Line. Maya speaking. >> Hi, Maya. Can you help me? So, I matched with a guy while I was in Ibiza and for three days he acted like he was fully in love with me. So, we arranged to go out now and we're back home. He's rearranged twice and his energy over text is great, but I'm starting to get a little bit concerned. Is he genuinely just busy or do I just need to dead it? >> Dead it. Hello, Maya speaking. >> Hey, Bumble Be Line. I've been seeing someone for three months and we're basically together, but neither of us have actually said it. Can I just ask what we are or will that completely ruin the vibe? >> Tell the what are we question. I have this quote that I always live by where it's like, if you love someone, tell them because hearts are often left broken with words left unspoken. And that applies to liking someone. Do you know what? Let me just call my friend Jordan. Hang on a sec. What up? >> >> Hello. Hi. Very smart and professional Maya >> >> with the glasses. >> Thank you very much. Giving out advice today. A girl has been dating a guy for 3 months. She's with him, but she doesn't know how to ask, "What are we? How should she ask?" >> She should ask her friends or counsel what they think of the guy. And then if they're into it, then yeah, then you just got to go straight up and listen, "Hey, are you serious or not?" >> An ultimatum. >> A clear A clear intention. >> Friends advice needed. Okay. That's like what I'm doing here. Beautiful. Thank you very much. >> So, that's all? >> That is all. >> Okay. All right, Maya. >> See you next time. Bye-bye. Bye, lover. Bye. And there we have it. The wise words of Jordan Stephens. Maya speaking. >> Hey Beeline. So, I went on a date with someone I really liked and they said they had a good time, too. Now we're chatting like nothing happened. I don't want to spend another 2 weeks guessing. Can I just ask for a second date or does that make me look too keen? Eek. >> You don't deserve that. There's someone that would literally be on their knees for you waiting for a reply. The right person for you will not leave you questioning these kind of things. It'll be easy, simple, straightforward, answer there. You won't have room to doubt their feelings for you, so take care, honey. Thank you. Bye. Bye. Bye. Okay. Maya is here. Hi. >> Hi Bumble. I've come across a guy on Bumble who's exactly my type. But every photo on his profile is a beach club, festival, or him holding a massive bottle of something. I love a night out, but I'd like to know who he is outside the party photos. Am I judging too quickly? And what could I ask to find out what else he's into? >> Well, you know, sometimes people aren't picture takers. They don't want to get their phone out and take a selfie, so the only footage they have is the pictures from the night out. So, I wouldn't be too quick to judge, but I would just go back to basics. What kind of food do you like? What are your favorite restaurants? Do you have any hobbies? And then lead from there. Hope it works out. Thanks. Bye-bye. That is me clocking off for the day. Remember, be bold, have fun with it, and don't ignore your intuition.