Cara Mendatangkan Rezeki Tak Terlihat - USTADZ ADI PRATAMA LARISINDO - Scale Up Rezeki

Eh rabbisrohli sodri waassirli amri wahlul uqdatan min jasali yafqahu qauli. Amma ba'. We are grateful to Allah subhanahu wa taala as we recite hamdalah together. Praise be to God. Our greetings to Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam together we recite Allahumma sholli wasallim wabarik ala sayyidina Muhammad wa ala ali sayyidina Muhammad. Both father and mother, brothers and sisters will be blessed by Allah subhanahu wa taala. earlier was our trip walking around the new ee what is it called? One week of istikamah. God willing, every day we will try to distribute basic food packages to the elderly and people in need. Well, for that, fathers, mothers , brothers, sisters, the name of the program is Seyubuh Sejita Manfaat, which perhaps fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters have already participated in . And I pray that those who are istikamah infaq at dawn will have good fortune, may Allah grant them good fortune, Allah will make all their affairs easy and may Allah always grant them goodness. Amen. Amen, O Lord of the Universe. And hopefully we are also a bridge of goodness in this Sekap Rezeki, hopefully our consistency will accompany your father, mother, brother, and sister. Well, father, mother, brother, sister who are blessed by Allah Subhanahu wa taala. Hey, I want to ask first, is there anyone here who is joining Zoom Scaling Up Rezeki for the first time? Maybe you can comment. Is there anyone here who is joining for the first time? Please comment first. Comments. Oh, there is. Where is Amran from? From Bogor. Okay. Okay. Where is Santi from, Sis? Santi? From Karawang. Anyone else joining for the first time can comment first, please . Let's get to know each other first, let's discuss a little first, maybe. I'm from Jambi, this is my first time. Who is this? Abi Soldan is the first time. There is someone from Makassar, his name is Mr. Dira Fir, yes, from Makassar. Okay. Feva Sidarjo is there too. Maj Majda is the first time. Hmm. Juliana is from Lombok, yes. E sorry there is no sound. Is it true that there is no sound? Is my voice there? Well, if there is no sound, maybe the sound hasn't been activated yet . Activate it first. Peace be upon you. There's no sound. Yes, there is . Ee K from Depok Bar first time. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 9 people, yes, it's the first time, yes, the first time is only 9 people, 10 with ee Fuad. Okay, there are only 10 people who have just joined for the first time. Hopefully those who are joining for the first time, welcome. I would like to say welcome to the parents who are joining for the first time . Yes, I hope that you will be consistent for a long time . Well, and this has been a long time coming, so it's homework, so it's homework, how do you not just learn but practice. I will show you a video that may be a lesson for all of us. It is very important for us to watch this video. Before we start, let's watch the video first. So, please, Mom, watch this video carefully and understand what it contains. many say thank you to Allah for the trust that has been entrusted to you today. When the children were little, as you said earlier, they used to ask for food, but I didn't have any rice at that time. I cried during the story earlier. So now, thank God, if I have to throw away rice, I don't seem to be willing to do it until now, I don't make ketung, I do n't make crust, I don't make crackers, like that until now. Be grateful to Allah for being able to provide for orphans, being able to give alms, being able to provide for Islamic boarding schools. That's what I expected. Hopefully all children will be devoted to their parents, devoted to their religion. so that you will always be successful. Yes. Yes. Thanks for crying. Earlier I was crying when I told the story, remembering that in the past I had to eat this and that without having any rice. I have too. Yes, I have. When the father was sick, the children were still small and asked for food. Since morning, he has been crying non- stop and eating. Mom eats. Yes. Mom is still cooking. This mama is lying, she said she doesn't have any rice . Someone was given a plate of rice. Eat with two people and then go straight to sleep after eating. Even though the wounds of suffering are balanced, the journey of opening my love. I became a father, mother, brother, sister yesterday we ee together with Abi En ee Abi filled out a study at one of the companies, yes, the company ee restaurant yes, already has almost 40 branches throughout Indonesia. Working in the FNB sector and meeting the owner's mother, she said that in the past it was difficult to even eat. Now, thank God, Allah has made these children a blessing from their parents' prayers . Well, here I see father, mother, brother, sister, maybe some of them are parents, right? Well, maybe you can pray for your child too this morning. And don't forget the morning alms, Mother, Brother, Sister. Later you will be contacted by CS, admins like that. The good news is, God willing, this morning we will learn about seven ways to invite invisible sustenance. So, what was Abi's discussion like? Well, it just so happens that Aben is now present among us. Father, Mother, Brother, Sister who are blessed by Allah Subhanahu wa taala. Please open your camera, prepare your notes and hopefully this will be a means for Allah to give you wisdom. And once again I remind you that there are still many who cover their cameras. Please open the camera because our speaker, Aben, opened the camera. Can you imagine if Aben said that while covering the camera like this? Well, yeah. Well, usually Abi AB closes the camera because he's cleaning it, maybe so that it's quiet or because there's just a momentary obstacle. So, for that, I Mother, Brother, Sister, we all learn, we intend that what we learn will gain wisdom, what is it called for all of us? Well, we invite you to ABN for your time and opportunity . I opened the camera but closed my eyes. Yes, Bang Nabil. Bang Nabil is here. Very attentive at ABN closing the camera because of sneezing. Good. Bundi laughed. Auzubillahimasyaitanirrajim. Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Asalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. May the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be with you too. Praise be to God. Allahumma sholli ala sayyidina Muhammad wa ala sayyidina Muhammad. Q rabbisrohli sodri waassirli amri wuldatan Analisi yafqohu qiidni ilman warzuqni fahman birahmatika ya arhamarahimin. Allahumma inna nasalukal ilman naqaniban. We are grateful to Allah by saying hamdalah alhamdulillahiabbil alamin. As well as paying our respects to His Majesty, Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam. Allahumma shalli ala sayidina Muhammad wa sayidina Muhammad. A seeker of knowledge will never receive the blessing of knowledge, except only gaining knowledge, not blessings. If while he is seeking knowledge, the energy, energy or effort expended in seeking knowledge does not exceed the energy of the person providing the knowledge. Well, that's why many people have come to assemblies here and there but it doesn't have any impact on them. even ee not only changes but also the knowledge is not attached. Or even if he knew he probably didn't have the energy to put it into practice. You already know the power of morning alms. It's normal to hear that you already know how powerful it is that Allah says He glorifies and gives additional rewards to those who spend the night. But he's not interested in that. Well, why? Because knowledge is alive. Knowledge is yarfaillahulladzina amanu minkum. Allah elevates a person's status because of knowledge. So be careful in the assembly. Not just sitting. Of course, the people who sit in class during school learning are different, sitting at the front, at least two of the front benches, compared to those who sit at the back. Well, we are the same as this assembly. So for those who don't have an excuse, make room. Even if there is a really difficult job, it's okay to just turn up the sound on the loud speaker . If necessary, connect it to the sound system in one house and listen. Well, use a loudspeaker, huh? But for those who may not have the time and take the time to really learn. Don't wait for free time to study. Our sincerity is directly proportional to God's sincerity in glorifying the lives of our friends. That's it. Okay. So, God willing, in the next 60 minutes we will continue the story of yesterday's material on infinity sustenance, namely invisible sustenance. Well, people always know, even in theory people know. Yes, I know that sustenance is not just money, there are various kinds of sustenance. But according to the law, time, energy and strength are mostly used to earn a living in the form of money. Well, Allah has mentioned sustenance in the form of business or work in Surah An-Najm verse 39. Okay. Surah 53 verse 39. Man does not get anything other than what he works for. So all this time unquote our mistakes, our mistakes. Even though Allah has prepared seven doors, even 10 doors, of the 10 doors of sustenance, Allah has prepared 10 doors. Far. Allah has prepared 10 doors, we only need to knock on one door. Well, it's natural that what appears is only material wealth. We rarely knock on the door of good fortune in the form of health. We rarely knock on the door of fortune in the form of love. So, I will start with a story from 2015 when I was witnessed by an opportunity with God. a teacher was brought in. See, including teachers who were brought by Allah. But our fruit is already trying. Because why was Allah brought? If we agree, Allahu la ilaha illa hual hayyul qayyum. Allah is the one who regulates all the contents of the arrangements on this earth. Yes, right? Allah is the one who regulates all affairs in this world. This means that everything is brought by Allah. Everyone cannot be met, but God meets them. including us present at the assembly 203 people were present at the assembly this morning. It's not just because he has the intention. There are people who have the intention but run out of data packages and can't click and there's no signal. There are those who have data packages but have no intention. Well, but we are here because Allah permits it. That is the highest level of understanding because Allah is pleased. Well, in 2015, a teacher suddenly came to the mosque when I was still studying the Koran with my father, Kia Lukman. When I see this teacher, he is like a dream come true for me as a Muslim. That's really cool . came in a Nissanana sedan, an expensive sedan in its class at that time. He continued to convey from the study until it was finished, approximately 1 and a half hours, nothing from the Koran came out of his mouth other than the Koran verse, then he distributed the sustenance again, the money he filled in the study, he distributed the money. After that he said, "Well, God willing, I'll invite all my friends. I happened to have a religious study on Wednesday night, so I went to his house. His house is very big. I once shared my screen with my friends, right? His house is big, maybe around 1000 m², like a house, if I call it, like the palace of the Prophet Solomon. Well, and I was even more amazed when I saw him reciting verses from the Quran. Oh, I just found out that he is a civil servant, you know, a civil servant. Okay. Well, so at that time, I saw how great this person is. God has destined his life. Well, finally, I started to want to learn more deeply. Okay. So, I met a figure who I haven't met an ideal example of. There are people who understand the verses of the Quran but are also financially stable. Well, this is him . This is my teacher's house. Well, if you look at it, it's incredibly rotten. Well, this is the one house in Pontiana. He has two houses. One. Well, This is where we study the Koran in this room. Eh, it's this big. Sambi. Here is a special parking lot for the car park. Hm. This is a special parking lot for the car park . There I was even more amazed. There is a teacher or Ustaz like this. This is the Teresan road. Not to mention here. Pelamboyan Street. Later, the screen will be the house of knowledge in Jogja. Oh, here it is. Hm. Add this. Now, this is the house. Hm. Here it is. The same character of the house, large pillars. This is a second home. So if in Jogja it is mandatory for a house to have 13 rooms. This is my house, the teacher's house in Jogja. Then I was even more amazed by his life. He is the one who conveys knowledge. Which one is he? Ee he is the one who gives quizzes, he is the one who shares food. Until one moment, he just finished his admiration, not daring to ask, not daring to approach further about his personal life. Well, I was just amazed, this is a really cool person who teaches knowledge. But he is also the one who ee Well, here he prays for the teacher me. Ah, this person doesn't really fit. Well, that's the person. Okay. Ducati motorcycle. Well, it doesn't look like someone who is an expert on the Quran, his style is like that. This is his teaching style at Kopassus. Well, that's how he is. Okay. So, one moment came. So, when I was sitting studying, I felt like I met a model, right? Yes. It was dark, there were no pictures. Yes. It was closed, and it was just me. So, I said, this person is giving a sermon and he also contributed and shared. Then he also made me even more speedless when I came to his house. In front of his house, there was a tombstone with his name and date written on it, his birth date that wasn't there, but my voice was there, right? Abi, my friends, right. Obviously safe and sound. So, there was a tombstone with his name written on it, but there was only his voice and the date of his death. Well, there was no date of his death. I asked why I called him Abah? Well, our life in this world prepares a ticket there. He said. That's why Abah is holding a meeting. This is what Abah has prepared. Abah has prepared the shroud. And what made me lose my composure again, Bah, if all that Abah has achieved is having enough, having a position in government, having material things, what about Abah's dream? He said he was dead. Oh, I immediately fell silent . His dream is dead. People dream of traveling and having a house. This is his dream is dead. How come, Bah? Because even at the transit point, Abah has been served in such a way at this launch, right? At this transit point, God's service is already very powerful, let alone at the destination, unfortunately Abi's voice is gone, Abi, what's important to tell us, we can't hear it clearly, clearly, clearly, try going out first, come back in. It seems there's a signal problem, there's a verse from the Quran that's coming through, right? Okay, it's clear, what's unclear are the faces of the people—the camera warps. Okay. Okay, calm down. God willing, my voice can be heard now. Okay, Mom, pay attention. I'm worried there's a button that hasn't been activated. In the left corner there's a symbol like speaker. If it's X, it's impossible to hear his voice. Well, if you don't hear it again, tell me the address later. Okay, great. If you don't know, repeat what B said earlier, what was his last ambition? B died? The story is, B repeats it, didn't hear it. Ready. Ready. Execute 89. Son, said Bang Bejok, Ustaz, reported the order, said nak tak amani, his name is mak-mak, I love mak-mak, all of them because Allah is good, meaning serious, want to learn, so his dream died, then answered why died, bah, this, so I've met many rich people, I've met many successful people, if asked what his dream is, what do you want to make it come true next year, 2 years, 5 years, yes, I'll start a company, I'll open 10 branches, Brother, I want to expand abroad. Well, that's the average answer. Then I asked him, "Why?" If his answer was a bit unique, not common, he wanted to die. Then he answered, "Yes, even at the transit point, they've been given VIP service." Yes, there are so many, nothing is missing. Wife Beautiful, money, enough material wealth, healthy children, and glory . Well, they've been abroad , they've been to all the islands, let alone the real place, he said. Oh, that's how it is. That's what the Quran says. Believers love the afterlife. Only those with weak faith or infidels love this world so much , ignoring the afterlife. That's how he thinks. Well, people who love this world so much or have weak faith, then the sustenance before them is only what is visible. Because those who can only see their eyes , their hearts cannot see the sustenance that is not visible. That's how he is. It's like when I saw Bang Nabil. Oh, if my friends saw Bang Nabil for 4 years, it was far away and invisible. Hm. But because I saw, oh behind this child there is great potential, behind this child there is strength, there is piety, so I seriously accompanied him. Well, returning to my teacher's story, I hadn't finished my youthful admiration, he said, "Bah, excuse me, he works, his house is originally in Pontiana because His son goes to Al-Azhar Jogja Middle School, he also works in Pontiana. So buy a house, build another house in Jogja. So Pontiana Jogja is just like public transportation. It used to be like that, I saw it like a public transport. If you go for a week, you can go back and forth two or three times, leaving in the morning and returning in the afternoon, that's how it works. Okay. And I haven't dared to dig deeper. I was just amazed, but I didn't dare ask where his source of income came from. Until that time, we were still accompanied by Ustaz Lukman to hold an impossible poverty event in Jogja. preaching seminar event. Excuse me, Bah. Yes, we want to have a missionary safari agenda in Jogja. Any suggestions, Bah? Is there this, Bah? Ee, recommendations for places to stay, that's all. Because at that time he said, "If you go to Jogja, let me know, son." That's what he said. Oh, how many people are we staying at Abah's house? He said, "There are 13 of us going, right? So at the beginning, when I left, four of us even had a team that joined us, we all wanted to join the da'wah safari, the da'wah of our friends who had just migrated, so let's just go to Abah's house. Then he said, "Hey, I said, don't be so crowded. How many of us are there, 13? Oh, that's enough, I mean, does the house have 13 rooms for guests? We can go one by one, right? I was surprised. Oh, Dad, thank God, we didn't have to pay for room rental or hotel rental. Ah, that's how it is. Because back in 2015, when I was pioneering da'wah, I knew that even those who invited me were new migrants, they only had enough money. Meaning they only provided two plane tickets. Then, the building rental was still tight. So we took the initiative ourselves, we didn't dare to burden the committee. Well, then the day before leaving, I sent a private message again, "Hey, do you have any recommendations, Grandma, for renting a car?" "Okay, okay, that's easy. Later, Abah, who has three cars at home. There's a Grand Vitara, a Honda Civic, and a Nissan L Grand. "Well, he said, "Oh, are three cars enough?" "Oh, that's enough, Bah." I thought about it and we left on Friday. It was still early in the morning, the airport was old, there was a holy land, we landed in Jogja at 0.30. Okay, let me know, son. What time will you arrive? I thought, when you arrive, maybe the drivers will pick up your friends, right? As I've had dealings with good rich people. Well, then, okay, Bang En, just pick up the keys at home, that's usually how it is and that's the norm. How surprised I was when I landed in Jogja, as soon as I got out of the airport, Abah himself picked me up. He went straight to Friday prayers. After Friday prayers, he treated me to a meal and so on. I became even more curious about this really cool person. Come on, he's rich, come on, ee ee what's it called? He understands the Quran well and he's also physically involved in serving. Well, that's what's expensive. So if Bunda Ratmi, who has been to Pontiana, saw Ismuya's excellent service standards, that's the inspiration. Right. Well, then finally our friends came to him, served food, entertained, chatted, ate until tomorrow the event is over, the event is over, the event is not yet, son, he said, okay, it's over, not yet, Bang N's event, okay, okay, where are we, finally, we were given a car, two cars are enough, okay, okay, Abah, wait at the mall, let's watch, let's have fun, invited to watch. Well, usually a movie studio has 180 seats or up to 200. Well, that was the first time I was invited to watch a movie at Civi. Once I went into the studio, it was like a sofa. He rented a cinema for us and his family, about 40 people. I said, this person is getting weirder. I said, I've watched it. Well, the highlight was dinner. We sat down to eat, he was busy ordering from the seller, carrying the food menu. I was increasingly amazed by the Quran through the manners and responses of one of my teachers. This is a real Quran. Well, then until the evening, chatting, finished until. That's me Asked what his business is, where did it come from? I started to get curious . Abah is an ordinary civil servant. Alhamdulillah, Allah gave him a major, ee, what's it called? Uh, astronomy, calculation, geography. More or less like that. So, outside of Aba's civil service, in my spare time I have a land surveying company. Well, and my client is Jarum Sampurna Sinar Emas, which once signed a minimum of 5 to 10 billion for land surveying services. Oh, I just said O. Well, but finally in the conversation that night I asked another thing, bah. I think if you ask what the secret of Abah's success is, which is what friends meet people like that, actually the secret is not in what is visible. Okay, we see him entertaining people, okay, we see him in what position, what is it called, having a Quran. Okay, we see him diligently giving alms. But what is truly his core weapon, his main weapon in presenting a quality life . Okay. What is his belief? I asked what, bah, I think, because it was already quite late, at 00.00. We chatted at length about the characteristics of the Quran. Then answered with a simple answer. Nothing. Ah, he didn't say it directly. He said, "There is not a single successful person that I have met except his deeds are." Will you tell me? Will you tell me? Do you want to know? We really want to hold our breath once you know waiting you know really holding it like that you have heard the story already not yet not yet not yet baatmi in baatm not yet not long ago not yet not yet yes not yet this is the first time so that's what I'll tell you son Yes, just a minute. Tell me istikhara first. May I know, sir? Just as good as his wisdom, he answered indirectly to what is it called ee this is my deeds so as not to seem arrogant. The answer is no. No need to use that use this okay. use a cellphone no one right ee what is it called wait drama wait this is important I do n't know there are successful people that I have met one of them is a community business figure that I made my adoptive father He is a container entrepreneur, one of the five richest people in Pontiana he said Abab went to the trouble of chasing him on the side of the road ask uncle what is the secret of Uncle getting rich he Answer that using third party language so you don't get carried away. That's all I learned. It's really cool. This person answers with manners. Almost all the rich people Abi meets have one. Abe says he has one thing in common. He is a person who really honors his mother. Well, that seems trivial. So that's how Abah found out from Uncle Brahim how rich he was. Even though Abah had moved house, every time he wanted to go to work, Abah would accompany his mother to ask for her prayers. Secondly, since then, since Abah started working until Abah retired, Abah has never received Aba's salary at the BPN office. The whole salary was in an envelope, Abah gave it to Mama. Until he died, only then did Abah find out how much his salary was. I said it's appropriate. And the peak of my father's turning point was when my father made a pilgrimage to my mother and in-laws. Well, that's it, friends. And that turns out to be Allah's command in surah Albaqarah verse 83, right? Let's see. So, here, friends, let's discuss the theory. Okay. What does Allah say in surah Albaqarah verse 83rd? And when eh 82. Well, and do good to your parents, relatives. orphans, the poor, and speak kind words to people. Establish prayers and pay zakat. The first commandment is to do good to parents. It is emphasized again in surah Luqman in the 31st verse of the verse that Allah says firmly. Wainal insana biwalidai. And we command humans to do good to their parents. Now. Well, God clearly said the command. Well, then asbab later. OK, be patient, I'll answer later. What happens, Kiai? The parents are divorced, what do you think? I'll answer later, right? Or don't you have parents, what about Kiai? Because I am a child like the Prophet Isa, born without parents. Fish . OK, be patient, viewers, let 's play first. Well, then that's the initial sentence telling you to do good then what Allah? Make it happen, keep the promise in Surah Al-Isra. In theory, if you do Good means you are doing good for yourself. Well, then in Surah Ar-Rahman verse 60, it is about jazaul ihsan ilal ihsan. There is no reward for goodness other than that goodness . If our lives are not good today, maybe we don't have many seeds of goodness. That's the way of thinking. And the premium seed of goodness among the many seeds planted is called birru walidain. Why use the word biru? Goodness has three levels. There is khair, jazakallah khairan. Okay. Well, khair is one- way goodness. We give for the goodness of others. There is something called ihsan. In ahsantum ahsantumikum. If you do good, I will return the goodness. Kindness that is reciprocated is level 2. Well. Well. The highest level of goodness is called birrun. Birunta. Well, that is goodness that is at the level of devotion. Well, because the level is devotion, the reward is abundant. There are three levels of goodness. The first, what was it called? Khair. The second Ihsan. Ihsan. The third, birunun. So, we have to be smart in doing good. We have to be smart in exploring sustenance. There are many. Okay, I think there are some inside. So, why did I start with Abah's story? Our material today is seven doors. Seven doors of invisible sustenance or how to get invisible sustenance . Well, I'll start with number one, the highest, one of the best of the best, namely biru walidai, which honors parents. Sometimes, even if the request is unreasonable, the more unreasonable the request, the more reasonable the prayer that Allah grants for us. Who is an example? That's what happened to UIS Alqarni. His mother was old, couldn't walk, had no wealth, but instead asked to be taken to Mecca and carried on her back for the Hajj. That's something unreasonable. So my advice after this is all my friends, especially those whose parents are still around, say, "Mom, God willing, next month I'll buy a kilo of gold for you." Mom likes gold. Does Mother Ratmi like gold ? Fish . Huh? Yes, it's annoying. Overcome by cuteness. Do you like it? Yes, right? Wait, Mom. God willing, Mom. Next month, Mak's sister will buy Mas. Next month, Mak, God willing. Where's Mama's KT? My little brother wants to take Mama on an Umrah and Hajj trip. Even though suddenly your mother immediately held her forehead. What are you dreaming about, son? He said, "You haven't paid your debt to mom yet ." Is not it? Yes, but at least set an intention first, Boss. Set your intention first. Right, Mom? What do you want to eat, Mak? Ask. So, that's the first door to sustenance that people rarely explore. there is heaven in your home. So, to make it even more powerful, I want to show you this video, a powerful video. Hmm. yes. Well, if I watch this many times, this is the true story of Ustaz Ahmad Alhabsi's journey. This is the only practice of his that makes him able today or not, O Allah, to bring the dead to life ? If mom and dad can live again, I promise I won't be naughty anymore. I won't skip school. I want to be a good boy. I promise I'll do anything, Sis. As long as my parents live again. I want my parents to be proud of having a child like me, Sis. Remembering when I was little being stroked, cuddled, loved. You are my life's role model mother. How much I love you. This was when he was on a trip to Jakarta for a film. Having money, I ended up staying overnight at the mosque. I don't know what happened, suddenly in the middle of the night there was a child who suddenly confided in me like that. Eh, one step at the mosque, I'm so proud of you, I caress you, I weigh you down, dear, whatever you do, without your parents' consent, there will be no blessings and peace, I want to make a contract for the afterlife with Umi. What contract? I want to divide all my income into two. Poor Rasudin first of all he lectured there umi is my suffering has disappeared I honor him in heaven. Ya Rahma strengthen me to is my motheril mamu Ah, my acceptance. Okay, there are similarities I see. This is it again, friends, look at it. This is so that we understand the meaning. Well, this was a social experiment in Thailand that made real interviews of each employee with mothers, asking them about their relationship with their mothers. Konkan see. How many days a month do you work? people come. Do you still live with your mother? The answer is easy. What was your last conversation with your mother? Still able to answer. I'm confused. Don't think when you'll have fun with mom. What is your mother's favorite food? Confused about the answer. those memories never existed or indeed never asked what was the last time you ate with your mother. Have you ever told your mother that you really love her? What can make your mother happy? What are you doing? when I had the chance to eat with him. We know you have to work today and are sorry you ca n't watch. brought his mother a chance to eat at a restaurant. A mother from the village with simple outfits, had never eaten at a place like this. What would you do if you had the chance to eat with him? Bagin men replied, "I just want to see her smile. Can I ask for expensive bribes? I want my mother to eat delicious food. I want to feed her as she feeds me. I want to hear her laugh. Do I have anything else you want to say to your mother? I want to ask, Mom. I want to be a good child. This will make my mother happy. I want to hug her and keep her alive. The mother who moved first, who hugged her child. Friends who are blessed by Allah. Well, that's one of the relationships between BN honoring parents, mother or father with sustenance. So if Allah's command is ordered, then Allah is very fair. From the theory that Allah mentioned, goodness will definitely be rewarded with goodness. If the level of goodness is birrun, Friends, then what Allah gives us is above birrun. Huh? Where? In surah 6 verse 160. This is what we must believe. What does Allah say? Whoever does good deeds, yes, surah 6. Whoever does good deeds, then for him the reward 10 times. We plant one rice seed, a whole bunch grows. That's the simple language. So, the reward for the ihsan level of practice is 10 ihsan. In fact, that level of goodness , ihsan and khair alone are already rewarded. Moreover, the practice of birrun is like a good deed but full of devotion. We even have to struggle to mobilize all our energy. Well, from what I told you earlier, friends, the story of Abah Irfan, the story of UIS Alqarni using Usis, the practice of carrying my mother. Yes, maybe if the reward was equivalent to only getting health, food. But because of the awesomeness of Allah's reward, right, Allah's reward is heaven because it is so awesome. Well, this is just one door, we have discussed it for almost an hour. Well, so theoretically, friends, you have seen the reply letter about Allah's reward. So I will try to write it down, right? Well, theoretically, we agree, friends, parents, that there are three verses of Allah's promise about the reward. One surah 17 verse 7, two surahs 55 verses 60 3 surah 6 160 okay. Three levels. Three levels mean degrees of goodness. One goodness is khair baik, the second is ihsan, the third is birrun. I've explained this earlier, we'll study it later. But what I want to convey is that the door of sustenance from honoring parents is the highest degree birun, the level is full of service, so Allah will also reward it. Well, maybe all the wishes that we have been asking for are only knocking on one door, the door of hard work and that is limited. Well, the question is how are our BNs? I tried to chat with parents who have passed away, parents who are no longer alive, there are many mistakes to me if what ee first salary give to others, the good news is that serving parents can still be done even though we are no longer on earth. That's why we created a program called waqf for pious children. Okay. How is the waqf for pious children finally ee from the construction of a school place of worship intended for parents as long as the place of worship continues to grow, then the reward will flow to the parents. That's it, sister. So one of the directions or recommendations for waqf is to look for a place that is productive and prosperous. Well, there is an operator, there are people who move it. Ah, that could be one of the suggestions. So for those of us who want to get the leverage of sustenance, one of the many things we will discuss is the name Biru Walidain. Serve your parents. Then and why once again I forgot one verse I have to convey. Allah even mentioned that the first place for friends to get sustenance is still their parents. They ask you what they do for a living. Answer whatever you earn. parents should give it first. So, the best alms is first to parents. Is it okay to have a mosque? Yes. Is it okay for orphans? But if you want to trace number one, our parents and parents are like BN. Allah doesn't mention it unless your parents are rich. That's not the formula. So earlier, Aba Irfan Qul Ustaz Ahmad Alabsi shared with his mother, meaning he had half implemented the rules of this verse. I repeat yes. One of the doors of sustenance among many There are other ways to receive the sustenance that Allah has promised besides just effort and work. Well, another way is called biru walidain. So the question is, how? If our parents are no longer in this world, then friends can pray every day for them. Send our best al-Fatihah. Okay. Until the day of the balance comes, every prayer will be transferred. Because the Prophet Muhammad said that the children of Adam are cut off except for three things: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, and the prayer of a righteous child. And one of the good news is that the righteous child in question does not have to be a biological mother. Uh, sorry, not necessarily a biological child. Well, but an ideological child, a child who is taught. Santri too. Okay, that's the way of thinking. Well, then, besides prayer, what can be done? Well, from the wealth that friends have entrusted to Allah, you can use it as a waqf for their wealth. Well, but my recommendation is that you can make a waqf. If you have one near your house, please do. Well, that's why we are at Ismu Yaya, in Hijrah House. I say we are obligated to prosper because behind these buildings lies the trust and hope of the waqif (donor). So, every Quran house in the Hijrah House in Ismu Uyaya, used for 24-hour Quran activities, rewards flow to all involved, even if it's just a sack of cement, even if it's only 1 square meter of land that's been cleared. That's the way of thinking. Well, especially at the highest level. Not just donating, but also aspiring. Like yesterday, I accompanied Asnawi's father. Asnawi's father built the Alhusaini Safati Quran House . That's the name of his grandfather and parents. Well, that's the expensive part. He built it with his wealth and then built a prayer machine. So, from the beginning, Asnawi's father was a supporting waqif at Ismu Uyaya. In the end, Allah saw that he was not doing enough . So, in return for the waqif or alms that had been entrusted to the Sidak family, or a small amount of sustenance, Allah gave a gift. He allowed him to build a mosque and a Quran house. That's the expensive part. That's what I've been repeatedly praying for, that before we pass away, the SK Rezeki family will have a prayer machine. Not just a prayer machine, but a prayer machine where every student who studies the Koran, who prays, prays for us and our entire family. That's the dream. So, to be able to have a prayer machine, we used to contribute to the existing prayer machine. Well, hopefully, if the reward is material wealth, that's normal. But the reward is when we make waqf, we give alms, we do good deeds, we are continued, God allows us to continue other good deeds. So, for friends whose parents have passed away, don't worry, you still have the opportunity to do good. That's how it is. Okay. I feel like there are still many other doors. But, so what do ABN recommend after this? While it's the weekend. If you have parents close by, take them out for a walk. Whether it's just to eat ice teler or eat meatballs. I took my grandmother to eat meatballs three days ago. Did you eat yesterday ? Someone will bring food later. Ah, At that point, dinnertime is when you ask again, "Uncle, have you eaten yet?" Well, at least that's attention. Well, just someone close. Just like when we were little, he used to ask, "Son, have you eaten yet, son?" Son, have you eaten yet, son? Son, have you eaten yet, son? Have we still cared that much when he's getting old, his bones are starting to get brittle ? Or are we just busy with our own affairs, friends. Well, amen, Sis Dewi. Well, those who are far away can do video calls, send their favorite food online from afar. Well, use that. The deceased parents were looking for what's it called? The nearest place. There's sustenance, deliver it even if it's just a sack of cement. If there's sustenance, deliver it even if it's just a sack of cement. If there's sustenance, you can leave it in the waqf program at the hijrah house or ismu. We help, we pray for it in our waqf program for pious children. Well, that's one door of sustenance that friends can work on in order to pick up the sustenance that Allah has promised, friends. Hopefully what was conveyed this morning motivates us to remember that there's only one sustenance from work, Allah mentioned in Surah 53 verse 39. Well, so that friends don't get trapped only by that and that a human being doesn't get anything other than what they have worked for. The sustenance from work is only this. There's more sustenance through prayer. There is sustenance through congregational prayer. Look, for you fathers, we have commanded families to establish prayer and be patient, we do not ask you for sustenance. There is sustenance through prayer, there is sustenance through children. Well, coincidentally, parents used to say that many children, much sustenance. Well, sir, how many? How much? Then there is sustenance through marriage. We will discuss this in the next meeting. So, Abi, many marriages, much sustenance. That's wrong, sir. Wrong. Wrong in the Koran reading. Bang Setiawan, don't try it, okay? Later, AB will say that marriage is sustenance, meaning many marriages, much sustenance. Ah, ABIN was also brought in, if it's like that, Bang Ario, he appears, that's the one . If there are such and such studies, he appears. Right? I hope someone next to him will allow it. That's how he is. Well, that's how it is, friends blessed by Allah. May Allah predestinate us to be able to explore more sustenance. Allah's promises are so many because of limitations It is our knowledge. We only know that the tool of sustenance is called work when there are many other doors. Okay, I have 10 minutes Bang Nabil. I return it to you. as a door to sustenance for pious children. Okay, masyaallah tabarakallah. Thank you to B Serundak Father and Mother ee we will discuss about one new one here ee just one detailed discussion about sustenance that is not visible, namely parents . Hopefully Abi is healthy and hopefully we can be consistent in learning. Amen. Allahum amen. Amen ya rabbal alamin. Mother, Brother, Sister. I want to remind again those who have not given the dawn donation, let's give the dawn donation. While it's still morning, Yes, Mother. Then also those who have given the dawn donation, maybe you can comment already. Then for fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters ee I want to challenge this, how about next week, next Saturday we ee who is brave here who what is it called to make this ee study once this sustenance continues to roll on ee More and more people want to join. Well, I want to challenge all of you, dads, moms, brothers, and sisters. At least invite one friend and make sure to join us on Zoom like this. Do you dare? Mom, you dare, Bang. I've invited him, Bang Nabil, but he still hasn't wanted to. So, how do we invite him? That's the question, right? Well, we need a strategy and uh what's it called? The way to invite our friends is maybe just one person. Imagine 270 people inviting just one person, that means 500 next week, God willing. For that, Moms, brothers, and sisters, we are opening a question and answer session. Please, those who want to ask questions can raise your hand or in the comments column. Which is better to support or help those around us who are in trouble or in debt than donating to the mosque, to the tahfiz house and the like. One of the questions, Bi. But those who want to ask directly are also welcome. What was the question? The question was, which is better to support and help those around us who are in trouble or In debt from ee, donate to the mosque, to the tahfiz house and the like. Oh, all of them are good. Every time, be careful with the question of which is better. What I mean is that all commanded deeds contain sustenance behind them. Well, all of those deeds contain sustenance behind them. So, if you trace number one, then the practice of sharing is three. One is zakat, two is infaq, three is waqf. Well, and that is sequential. The first sunut is zakat to cleanse wealth. The sequence of zakat. Well, that means the poor, the needy, the amil, the garimin, the debtor are included in it. So we can use our zakat to help people who are being chased by debt because they are no longer able to. Well, the sequence is good. But if asked about the highest degree, it is still waqf, but we have to be sequential. That means it is a ladder. How about the question? Like this, which is cooler? 5th grade or 2nd grade subjects, the cooler is still 5th grade, the higher we are, but we will not be able to class 5 if it hasn't passed grade 2 that's how Bang Nabil thinks so zakat first the highest infaq waqf well then after it becomes like this sometimes after we pay zakat the wealth is purified then it will invite other blessed assets so that we can finally give alms after we diligently give alms making our fortune multiply up to 700 times. Once it multiplies then we can give waqf that's the formula. He clear. I okay well then continue Bunda Edi Berkah Mulia EBMB. Please, Bunda, why did this disappear. Asalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh Abi. Waalaikumsalam Are you healthy, Mom? Alhamdulillah, Abi is not feeling well with her husband. Masyaallah. There is something that bothers me earlier Abi at the beginning of the news about a child with a mother. Yes. This is about me with me Abi. With whom? Young so I am my oldest child. My oldest child is a boy, Abi. Currently working in Japan, Abi. I have been 4 years, Abi. Yes. So for 4 That year he never came home, Abi. Hm. So I was overcome with this intense longing for him. Ee usually ee once a week, does he video call? How many months has it been since he video called again? But when I WA he answers but his answers are only short. Yes Umi. Yes Umi. Amen. Amen. That's all. E he's long like that. So the story is 2 weeks or 3 weeks ago , Abi. I owed someone when my husband was sick so I didn't have enough money to buy medicine. So I borrowed from someone and it happened to be my son's friend. So that person ee painted my son . Like that. Ee I don't know how that person got my son's number . My son ee confirmed to me 2 weeks ago, "Umi why did you borrow money from A?" like that. So I said, "At that time Abi was sick, son, and there wasn't enough to buy medicine." And even then he was the one who offered . Then he seemed disappointed that my son was with me. He didn't say anything harshly, No, ma'am. I just said, "Ah, Umi, that's it." And then she confirmed it. Then I said, "Umi, I'm sorry, son. Umi can't be a good Umi for you yet. Maybe Umi has embarrassed you. He didn't answer that, Abi. But he sent me money to return that person's money, Bi. So the money is finished, Abi. The money has been returned. But until today my child has never called me, Ma'am. So every night I can only pray to Allah and convey my longing to Him. B I said to Allah, "Oh Allah, please soften my child. Oh Allah, I believe, Abi, the inner bond between a mother and her child is extraordinary." And I have told Allah that I forgive my son's sins with me and I do not consider him wrong. During this time he left with my blessings and my consent. During this time, he has also helped to send his younger siblings to school. I have five children, Abi is the first. He's already helped enough, Abi. So I said, "No parent wants to burden their child like that." I haven't told him for a long time about our situation. I tried to survive on my own. I don't want to, I don't want to burden my child, no matter what our situation is, I don't want to burden my child. Even if he wants to send money, I'll accept it. That's what I wear to my younger siblings' school. As for us these days, I don't want to have more children. I also miss Abi, my husband and Abi, we both miss each other. Yesterday I said to my husband, "Iuk, try WA." My husband said, "Sometimes I'm disappointed, Mom. We 've sent long WhatsApp messages, and she just says yes. Meanwhile, we parents want to be asked how Umi is? Is Umi healthy? How is Umi? Have you eaten? How is Umi? That's all, Dad is the one who keeps calling because he misses me. Oh God, I want that. I want him to be like that, Dad, who contacts me. He's the one who is being looked after, he's the one who asks about me. It's not me who is holding back this longing. After every night, I pray repentance. After that, I pray the hajat prayer. Saying my hajat prayer, then I pray the tahajjud prayer. My tahajjud prayer is spent every night just for these five children. Dad, I mention their names one by one so that Allah will protect them, Mom. Because all my children are far away, Mom. No one can protect them except Allah. Every night, I ask Allah to protect them. Allah save them. Protect their faith, O Allah. That's amen, O Allah. I'm afraid, I'm afraid for my children because right now, only Allah can protect them . So every day I do it, I ask Allah to connect my feelings with my child, the longing of a mother for a good child, mother, God willing, Japan, where is your child, mother, I'm going to give it to you. After I gave it to Kak Herly. After that, send it. Can I contact him? Yes, Abi. Yes. Ready. God willing. Maybe he's embarrassed by me, Abi, because his mother is in debt. But he doesn't know his mother is in debt for the children. I miss Abi. Yes. This is what is devoted to good parents that Mothers must raise today is good, I think, ee, sometimes it becomes like this, the only thing that makes our minds wander is innama ymmurukum mute, in fact, Satan tells us to do evil, namely to abominations. So something that leads to sadness, prejudice is the devil's trick. That's how she used to think. I. Well, even if it's true, for example, he's busy, then the only thing Mother can do is What I do is change my positive thinking towards Allah. Oh Allah, maybe my child is under a heavy workload at the office. So he too might miss his mother terribly. But perhaps with his limitations, it's understandable that today's children ultimately have a weak communication challenge. So, I saw something good that responded, I've forgiven him. So, Mom, keep thinking positively. Okay. That Buddhist mindset is one step above prayer. Prayer is only above the tongue. But positive thinking brings feelings, thoughts. Blessings, child. So, my child might be under a heavy workload, there are challenges that make him sink. That's one. The second thing that Mom must realize is that each of us has a story to tell when we return to Allah . Yes. Yes. This is not final. Even though the worst case scenario is that Prophet Noah preached for 900 years, his son didn't believe in him. So, until Allah angered Nunu, you shouldn't hope that it's not your child. That's the highest consequence of faith that we must prepare for. But the good news is that our child is not the son of the Prophet Noah. There are still many opportunities. So, if I look at it simply, why is the situation like this, Mother? Because God wants to hope that Mother Eni truly has a greater love for God, dependence on God, happiness in God besides her child. That's the way. In this way, Mother wants to moan, wants to truly hope that la haula wala quwwata illa is because of emotional issues. I can't do anything. My child's heart belongs to You, O God. That is the precious wisdom of this event. So, when Mother prays later, say, "Mother, thank you, O God, for presenting this feeling of hope, for presenting this event. Well, I surrender, O Allah, my child is completely yours. You are the one who has the authority. Don't let this sadness exceed my sadness for You, O Allah. That's how Mom is. Well, God willing, we will continue to try. So God wants to make Mother groan as Prophet Noah groaned. Well, that's God's various ways and this is part of the peak. So the prejudice of shy children that must be thrown away is not allowed. Not that. So, get rid of the prejudice. Focus. Earlier, Mother had already realized that only God can protect her. He has God. O Allah, only You can make my child return to his natural state. So the prayer of Mother Rbi habli minihin. That's all Prophet Ibrahim's prayer was for his children. Rbi hambli minihin. O Allah, with the nature of your mercy and womb, the nature of your love and compassion, O Allah. Thank you for entrusting me with these five best children, O Allah. Well, then as you also taught Rbi habli minahin. Make my children pious children, O Allah. That's how it feels. Don't go too deep. Because once we get carried away, we become weak, we lose hope and worry ultimately weakens us from doing other good deeds, Mother. That's it, yeah. Stay healthy, Mom. Send it to Kak Herli later, okay? Yes, always healthy, always blessed. God willing, many of Mother's other children will also pray for her. I am also a mother's child who, God willing, prays for Mother Eni even though I have never met her in person. blessings, always healthy. Amen. Allahum amen. Amen. Masha Allah. Thank you, Mom, Abi. And we continue, eh, Mother Nurdiana. Nurdina. I'm Nurdiana. Please, Mother Ndiana. Thank God. Jazakallah. Brother Nabil. Abi, may I ask a question? Thank you for the knowledge and time. Bismillah finished. May the family and team all be healthy and safe on Allah's journey. And everyone present here. Abi, may I ask about Abi's statement earlier about having lots of fortune from having lots of marriages? Well, ee this ee I want to share ABI. My current activity is as a professional coach and I am also currently deepening my profession by studying psychology again because I am concerned about helping married and unmarried women who are victims of husbands who suffer from NPD, ABI. Well, I'm asking for your permission, Abi, I've been researching, observing, and observing for the past 5 years. Emm, please ask for permission, Abi. I'm sorry, Abi, I didn't turn on the camera because I wasn't ready to use the camera just now. Oh yeah, but I'll listen to you, God willing. So, um, the cases that I observed, that I handled, from the women who came to me, um, tickled me, Abi, ee, tickled me to understand more deeply about polygamy, Abi. Which at the moment, in my opinion, is one of the solutions. Hehe. one of the solutions to save these clients . One example that I've been working on for the last 5 years, in the last 5 years, ee is ee, so there are a lot of pious women, like that, Abia, an alms expert who really wants to save her offspring, like that, to become the caliph, guardian of Allah, heir to the prophet, like that, right? but distracted by ee what is the name of ee husbands who suffer from NPD. Well, one of the characteristics of NPD is that scientifically, they manipulate, right? So, one of the clients I handled, eh, her husband's character in his worship rituals is really good, Abi. ee fasting without eating on Mondays and Thursdays is diligent, yes, always going to the mosque and then seen giving alms outside, sacrifices, even Umrah but nauzubillah minzalik yes his will is everywhere then ee what is it called to the family is stingy ee what is it called emm lying is like breathing and these are scientific signs. That's why I don't mind what the language is like, because this area is sensitive for women. But when I relate it to the great women I met there whose faith is subhanallah. Well, but you met the wrong man, right? This is homework, right, Abi, you know. And ee what's it called? Meanwhile, I also see references from scholars that are halal, you know. We're saving the mental health, you know, of women's physical and mental health, right? This pious one is from a man who is wrong and it is permissible for ee what is it called to ask for a separation like that . Well, ee, and one of my clients, what happened was like this, ee, her husband asked his mother for permission, can he buy his wife clothes, nauzubillah minzalik, to buy clothes for his wife, she has to ask her mother for permission, you know . So, the reason why ANPD occurs is because it is one of the mistakes in parenting. So what's it called? It's a mistake of Birul Walidain, you know. Understanding birul walidain. So we really have to honor our parents. But what if, for example, what is the name of the teaching? It's okay to disobey the wrong ones, Abi, but we have to give them an understanding, Abi, without preaching, Abi. Hey, please correct me if I'm wrong. Well, the second one, so you know, I once heard from one of the clerics, is it permissible to ask for a divorce because the mother's mental health is already bad, what is it called? Starting to get disturbed and almost committing suicide, huh, Abi. Because no one believes it, Abi. Nobody believes this mother's story. Because outside of that, wow, the casing really makes it seem like this is a pious man. So, the second advice from the scholars is that in the time of the Prophet, poor men were still poor, so please correct me, Abi. So I heard this ee what is the name of this story directly but I apologize if the delivery is wrong. So until he came again I was still poor. try to get married again. Oh, I'm still the second one still poor. Try getting married again, that's all. Finally, by marrying the third woman who got ee, this third woman is a businesswoman. And really rich, Abi. Because the third wife educated the first and second wives so that they became very rich. That ee is proof that marriage is mm what is it called? ee, it increases one's sustenance, that's what is in accordance with sharia, Abi, that's how it is. And in the right way, Abi, like our teachers who have set a good example, like the late Ustaz Arifin Ilham, so honest, so noble, so honoring women, you know. Well, ee how can I continue my vision as a psychologist and also as a professional coach to save you know, educate unmarried women and married mothers who are trapped in the conditions of NPD husbands and ee families of NPD husbands to survive and believe that God's help is near so they can free themselves and also educate society that men with noble morals are almost extinct, Abi, rare you know. So we have entered the end times, right Abi, is that right or not, Abi, is that right or not? I. So, for example, sorry, I 've heard rumors like this from the scholars. In today's era, that's how it is, right? Because the Prophet Muhammad also married more than one wife, that was to save women, right, Abi. That's right, Abi. So, what is the highest level of charity? It is to provide for a widow by marrying her. But don't worry about that , the noble ones definitely have good morals and there are many of them. I have references because many of my clients say, wow, my God, they are so noble in Abi. So, um, from this correlation with Rizki, what's his name, Abi? I see that this polygamy solution is from what? a man with noble character, who understands the Koran, right? Ee and rumors from practicing scholars who are indeed ee thank God I see that they practice polygamy honestly, right? Even the first and second wives can live in the same house and can pick each other up even though they are in different cities . and it is true and real because it is done in accordance with sharia. Ee so for those good scholars who are truly afraid of Allah, if they still have one wife, that means they are still 3/4 single. There are still three more slots. Bang Nabil seems really happy, doesn't he? There's still something like that , Abi. So, please excuse me, what is it called? ee please give me some guidance because ee I am a professional coach and also study psychology for the mission of strengthening women, right, so that they do not feel humiliated by ee what is the name of the second or third wife but they fear Allah ee in a noble way and face the phenomenon of oh my, this woman has a hard time accepting ee what is the name of a woman who is married nobly. The second is said to be all kinds of fun. In fact, the lives of NPDs are more terrifying because they are exposed to, I'm sorry , NPDs are definitely exposed to pornography. That's why they never have enough for one woman, you know. So their case for obedience is real Abi. So, and I can, if for example with permission, Abi, I can contribute to Ismu Yahya and also to help the people of the Ismu Yahya congregation who are experiencing this. because it is very rare for anyone to open up space for them to express this problem, Abi, because no one believes in this MPD case. Unfortunately in Indonesia it was only revealed in the last 10 years, ee, maybe because I've been doing this for the last 5 years, the last 12 years. But while abroad it is much further away from us. That's why, ee, what's it called, NPD education in Indonesia is still very minimal and indeed, ee, what's it called, it penetrates the egos of men, they deny it like that. Ee means ee if I may contribute to ISMU Yaya I ask for permission and ask for your guidance on how I should deal with polygamy, it is one of the ways out Abi because noble and moral men are very rare. Please save the women who are persecuted, pious women who want to save their families, see the face of Allah, want to be with Rasulullah in the eternal highest heaven, want to bring their families to drink Kautsar lake water from the hands of Rasulullah. That's really intimidating, Abi. I saw that, uh, I strengthened it, one of the things I strengthened was that we learn from Mother Asia, right? Mother Asia, who only asked for Pharaoh's faith, believed in it without reducing her wealth, without destroying her position, so she was killed, right? Well, the characters of these noble women were killed off with Abi's slander . So, ee, what is the correlation? Marrying many people is indeed the solution, you know, Abi. Is n't that true, Abi? And may I ask your permission to strengthen the mothers, the women who are exposed, the MPD and the women must open their hearts to the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad to marry, ee polygamy and so on. Please give me some guidance, Abi. Thank You. I apologize for anything that is not acceptable. Amen. Thank you, Mother Nur Diana. Please. You're welcome, Bang Nabil. Ah, far away there is a new angle of preaching, right? Indeed, I hope this will be the end of our discussion this morning. For those who haven't had the chance to ask, I ask permission because at 0.00 I have to pick up this child's report card. His way of thinking is that there are three stages of the Prophet's preaching. Chapter 1 12 to 25 fortune. 25 to 40 is the household chapter. 40 65 only chapter 63 until work on preaching chapter. Those are the three phases of the life of the Prophet Muhammad. Is there something wrong with polygamy, Bi? No. That's the law. And Allah has mentioned the example of a monogamous family. The days his father played the role of father were at home. As Ali Imran mentioned in the Quran, Imran's family. There are also families that play a polygamous role. Even her husband is rarely at home, he is always assigned to various regions. Who? Prophet Abraham. Well, and both of them are destined to enter the Buddhist heaven. Well, but with the case that Bunda mentioned earlier, there are many men like that. Well, actually NPD is just a branch, one branch of the character mentioned in the Quran. Waakadina amanu amanna. And when they meet us, they say they believe. And when they leave the group again, they say they will go back to being criminals, you know. Well, that is a representative of a hypocrite. Well, hypocrisy is level one tracking dawn and evening prayers. The second level is when you are given a trust, whether it is a trust for assets or a family trust. So, what are the options then? So we at Ismu Yaya have only just reached the level of studying, discussing knowledge about household matters. Then the Sahabat Sakinah program was born. For the past 6 months, I have been having regular monthly meetings with professional teachers about how to build a household. Last month, we studied with Coach Indra. Well, exactly what Bunda Nurdiana said, we are also currently studying, discussing the phenomenon of polygamy that we have not yet resolved . Then, because I am not a practitioner, not an exorcist, because I personally also believe in this verse and you said Allah you may in surah 4 verse 3 Allah mentioned it, right? Well, you can have one or two of these people. So marry the woman you like. Two, three or four. Okay. So there are four slots. But there are also those whose intelligence is 2 3 4, which means adding 2 + 3 + 4, so they say that the Prophet's wife is quite smart, right? If he uses a special verse for this chapter, he uses a verse from the Koran. But this is the verse that made me, who was taught by teachers, say, bro, he said, it is permissible to marry, but look, you will not be able to be fair between your wives. Even if you really want to do that. God created us. I already knew it wouldn't be fair. Well, then I noticed that my friends, Bunda Noriana, who succeeded in polygamy, when the one who looked for the one who looked for the one who was purely his wife, so it was the other way around. So some of the ones I saw that were successful were his wives. And if we look at the platform of the Prophet Muhammad's polygamous marriage, so talking about feelings of love, the Prophet Muhammad's pure love for Khadijah was the Prophet's strength. And it is proven that there is still Khadijah, there are no other men or other women. Then when Mother Khadijah died, the Prophet Muhammad married Aisyah, Absa, Zainab and if we read the literature, all of them were purely tools for da'wah. There is a section ee what is it called ee science, there is a section ee household and so on. That's how he is. Well, please, later we can discuss this phenomenon in more depth, okay, Mom? Well, if there are still good singles, what do we recommend for singles ? Iqbal Nabil is his name. Iqbal. Is not it? When it's ripe, it's afraid it will rot before long. Well, we'll discuss it later, okay? Mother Nurdiana can chat. Later, we will brainstorm with Coach Indra on how to help this phenomenon. This means a new field of jihad. Well, we need to try to facilitate it. Okay, thanks for the insight. Masyaallah today the material is out of the box. The person asking is also outside the scope of BMKG . Bang Ario immediately became silent when Bang Ario appeared. OK, that's it, friends, Moms and Dads. Thanks a lot. Next week we will continue exploring sustenance from other doors. But today, let's practice making blue walidain first. Jazakallah to this mother, Mother Nurdiana and all her friends. Thank you for being together this morning, okay? Ee, may Allah make it easy for us and keep walking on siratal mustaqim. The good things come from Allah, the bad things come from me personally. Asalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. May the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be with you too. Masha Allah, may Allah bless you. We would like to thank Bin ee for sharing, sharing his story with us so that this morning we can learn about how to invite unseen sustenance, namely sustenance that is outside of ee, perhaps in the context of wealth, peace , blessings and happiness in our lives. For this reason, fathers, mothers , brothers and sisters are blessed by Allah subhanahu wa taala. Once again, I remind fathers and mothers, let's invite our brothers and sisters out there who might be able to act as guardians, ee Allah, expand the benefits of this dawn study. Well, hopefully the time that fathers, mothers, brothers and sisters have spent this Saturday from dawn will be beneficial for all of us. Amen. Amen, O Lord of the Universe. For that, fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, I pray that we can all gather in the heaven of Allah Subhanahu wa taala with the Prophet Muhammad and die in a state of husnul khatimah. Hopefully we can see the face of Allah subhanahu wa taala. Amen. Amen, O Lord of the Universe. As the MC and host this morning, I apologize and take my leave in a good manner from Allah. any mistakes come from my personal impression. Thank you very much for all the opportunities and I also pray for fathers, mothers, brothers, and sisters who are consistent in studying on this Saturday morning. I hope that you can also participate in the morning alms giving, and I am not just telling you to do it but inviting you, Mother. I thank God, for almost a month now, Istikamah infaq subuh every day. Hopefully, Allah will also allow you and your parents to be consistent every day. For this reason, let us end our assembly meeting this morning by reciting hamdalah together. All praise is due to Allâh, the Lord of the Worlds. We perfect it with the assembly's kafrata prayer. Subhanakallahumma wabihamdika ashadu alla ilahailla anta astagfiruka wa atubu ilaik. Thank you very much Abi E, Ayunda, brother, sister who is blessed by Allah Subhanahu wa taala. I'm closed. And may Allah grant us guidance and guidance. Peace be upon you and Allah be upon you . May the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be with you too. May the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be with you too. always thank you for the knowledge. Ready invitation, Mom.