Okay, in this video I'm going to be showing you exactly how women get attached. Okay, and this is the masculine temperament that actually creates arousal and desire. The reason why I'm making this is because majority of men don't understand this at all. You have to actually understand what gets her emotions engaged. What you have to understand is that her arousal and her desire is through words. Okay, inside of the mind. For example, with you, it is most likely based on what you see. This is why men, okay, watch dirty websites and women read, okay, dirty romance novels because it comes down to the words for them. It's different. When you finally realize this, you're going to start to see that women do not see the lens of attraction the same way that you do. So, listen, modern men today lack masculine temperament. They lack attitude. Okay? They lack masculine temperament and attitude which is the fundamental core of emotional spikes as well as a nonconforming attitude. Okay. So words, okay, when you actually focus on the words and what you say, you can actually tap into like her primal hardwiring and her primal hardwiring of attraction and desire and arousal. So the core of the man only comes out when he turns his brain off and actually speaks freely based on what he feels instead of constantly thinking. I'm going to give you numerous examples through this and majority of men don't know how to do this because they watch so much content. They're basically sitting there mute and in like this passive state damn near sitting there just like almost hypnotized because they have too much screen time. So listen, okay, the core of the man only comes out when he turns his brain off and speaks freely based on what he feels instead of constantly thinking. So most men simply cannot do this without drinking. They just can't. So to do this, what I'm about to show you today, because you can see I have an entire board of notes right here. To do this sober is a complete skill. It's a complete skill. Okay? especially in this like common modern-day like HR culture which all men were raised in to just be very nice and be very polite and don't ever be offensive and make sure you never step on anybody's toes or else you're a bad guy. It's like all this is just BS. Complete BS. It's like all that happened was you don't even speak your mind about certain things or you don't even say what you want and then you sit there passive thinking that someone's going to get mad at you because you said one wrong sentence. It's like it's just stupid. Okay. So without this what I would call masculine temperament without this okay or you can call it whatever you want without this one thing you can call it swag you can call it bravado you can call it masculine temperament okay without that whatever you want to call it her female spirit will only long for something else and never fully love you if you don't have this one thing. You can be the best looking dude on the world. You can be the most handsome whatever. You can be the richest. you can be the highest status. When she starts talking to you and she starts testing that core, she sees that you don't have any oomph. And the oomph when you talk is what creates a sense of confidence. Whether you like how that sounds or not, okay, doesn't matter because that's what actually unlocks her arousal and her attraction. You got to remember this. A woman might stay with you from where you're going and what your purpose is in life and your direction and your competency, but women sleep with that dude or women bang that dude because of energy. The energy that he puts out in this world. Okay? So keep that in mind. All the looks maxing, all the red pill content, all the manosphere content in the world will not save you, okay, without this one thing. So, in order to get my point across a little quicker, I'm going to give you three core stories which will actually help illustrate this. Because what I have found is that almost every single dude, typically above the age of like 45, 46, 47, 48, naturally has this figured out because they didn't have so much screen time. So, their interactions with people were based on a sense of like camaraderie and um coming together, of having a good time and the right energy. So keep this in mind. There's three core stories I'm going to tell you right now to actually help you with vocal tone to understand masculine temperament. So this was me the other day. So me myself, I was at a cigar bar, okay? And there was this old guy there. He was probably like 60 years old with this pretty hot like younger woman. She was probably like 30, okay? So for him, right, that's like a that's a big age gap. Okay. And she's with him and they're clearly on a date or they're clearly together. So, um, what happened was I actually walked over to him and I was like, "Hey, can I borrow this pack of matches because I had to light my cigar." And he looks over at me and he goes, "Hell no." He goes, "You think you can just take my matches? Who do you think you are?" Right. And I laughed and I said, "Oh, wo, wo." I go, "Yeah, yeah, you're right, man. I'm going to find my own." And instantly I could tell what he was doing right away. And then the woman he was with started laughing at both of us and she starts laughing at this whole tone back and forth that we're doing. And then you can tell she's in that giggle state. And when they get into that giggle state, that's the point where they actually are like really feeling you. Okay. From there, he's like, "Oh, no, no. I'm just kidding. Here, you take these matches." Right? And he went on his day. And I said, "Oh, thank you." Right? But it's just those small interactions like that. Most dudes who are like, let's say if that dude would have been 30 instead of 60, he just said, "Yeah, sure. Here you go. Oh, thanks." And nothing would have came of it. But here, there was energy. Okay? So, I pointed that one thing out to my friend. I was with my friend. Okay? I was with my friend and I told my friend I was like hey I was like check this out. I was like if he can do it right if this guy did that and this guy got her to giggle and she is 30 and he's 60 and you see what that does to the energy and to the environment when a woman sees that you let go and you stop thinking and you say that edgy stuff with that proper vocal tone that shows bravado. I was like hey I was like dude if he can do it so can you so can anybody. So, I told my friend, I was like, "Hey, man." I was like, "Next woman that you see, all you're going to do is you're going to say whatever comes to your mind. You're going to turn your brain off. You're going to stop thinking. You're going to just say whatever comes to your mind. And whatever you say, you're saying it fully confident, right? Because confidence in what you say only comes from what you believe. So, like if you fully believe what you say, it's almost automatically correct by default." So he walks by um the woman, this is the second story. He sees a woman that he likes or he walks past her or something and instantly he turned his brain off and he was just like, "Oh god damn, you're cute. Oh you're so teeny tiny. Look how cute you are. Oh my gosh, well you just said whatever came to his mind." And he said it with confidence. He said it with um conviction. He said it like he didn't care what the outcome was. And she blushed and then she was like, "Oh my gosh, I thought you were so attracted, too. I'm so nervous." Right? He walks away. By the time he's walking away, she's already sitting there going, "Uh, hey, wait, wait. We didn't exchange numbers." Like, she had like a positive interaction just from that. She even said, she's like, "Oh, I feel like you're just so easy to talk to." This was actually her words. So, this came from just seeing the results. I was like, "Dude, like if this old 60-year-old dude who's like balding can do this, like you can do this, too. Like, any guy can do this. It's an internal thing. Women are turned on through words. You have to understand this." Okay? And the reason why I know that this is true is because women's fantasies come from like novels, okay, or romance novels and words. When men look at bad stuff, right, they're going to these dirty websites, right? When women want to go down that road, they're not typically loading up the computer screen, what they're typically doing is reading those books. So that's what you have to remember is the woman's attraction comes into the mind, right? It's through words. It's through tone. And then the third thing that happened was this. Okay, fast forward like a week later. This thing actually happened by accident right here. This actually happened by accident. So, I'm sitting there um at this at this bar top and I order a pizza and it was kind of like a fancier restaurant with my friend, right? And at these fancy restaurants, I hate them, right? Because I just like basic food, right? I like steak, I like chicken, I like pizza, I like cheeseburgers, basic stuff. If I have a pizza, I just want pepperoni, bunch of pizza sauce. Well, you know, in these fancymancy restaurants, right? They got hot honey oil and all the stupid stuff. And I said I was like, "Look," I go, "I don't need none of this fancy shit." I was like, "I want just basic pizza." I'm like, "You give me some pizza sauce, right?" And I just said it like just like that. I was like, "I don't care all this high class stuff, right? I see I also see I was like, I see all these uh people ordering this stuff. Hummus." I go, "I don't need none of that. Go, I don't know what that even is." I go, "I ain't never had no damn hummus in my whole life." Right? And then what happens is the servers laughing. Table next to us, they start laughing. the woman who's married next to us, um, you know, she starts giggling and saying how much that, uh, she's even with her husband and she's saying how funny that was. It creates the environment. This happened by accident just from me just saying what I like, right? Just caveman stupid simple. Okay, so for example, like another thing that I'll notice is like my grandpa naturally had this. My grandpa naturally had this tone. Almost every dude's grandpa had this tone, right? He'd say, "Oh man, $3.80 for that coffee." I remember at my diner it was a nickel. Yeah. Growing up when I was 12, it was a nickel. Look what happened, right? Just whatever. Just grumbling, right? Saying whatever they want. And the energy gets them to laugh. It gets people to laugh. It gets women to laugh. So this is why, okay? Why women laugh at dudes of all ages because you have to understand that her attraction is verbal and it's less about the physical like yours is of what you see. Hers is verbal. So women's arousal, okay, is most sensitive to words and vocal tone, which is why they get turned on reading like dirty books, okay? It's not typically visuals. It's typically all words. So once you understand this and you now understand what I'm telling you, like how to get a woman attached, like this is how you get a woman attached. That's why like I just laugh like I see all these dudes who are like on maybe social media and they're like in their early 20s, right? And they think that it's all about like how they look and stuff. And sure, that's like one piece of the pie, but there's so much more to it. And like if you follow just whatever the next trend is, right? It's like you don't have enough experience. Like I'm almost 30 years old now, right? So I've actually seen stuff at all different ages through hanging out, partying, seeing what women giggle at. Like this is all like part of the thing, right? So now that we've understood this, we understand the vocal tone, we understand masculine temperament. Now there's actually three secret steps that I want you to understand. There's three secret steps that you have to understand in order to get to the end result, which is actually mastering front-end game. Front-end game is the very first piece when it comes to my process called the language of women. But what I'm going to do right here is I'm going to walk you through the three steps that you can actually use and leverage in your own dating life to start to actually like incorporate this masculine tone and masculine temperament into your day-to-day interactions. So that way you can finally generate some attraction and get some real results. So step one, okay, you have to know thyself. And when I say know thyself, that means we are crafting or we are creating a unique masculine archetype. We are creating a unique masculine archetype. So you have to know yourself. Okay? And this is based on your location of where you live. This is based on your hobbies and this is based on your interests. So let me give you an example. I will show you right here a picture of me in 2022. Okay? This is me in 2022. I was at like a country music concert or something. And now here's a pic from me last week. I'm the same dude. You can see I'm the same dude. I think it's even the exact same uh cowboy hat. I'm the same dude. So this right here is congruence. Once you have congruence through personality and through identity, now you can finally combine that with the proper vocal tone. I see a lot of different dudes emulating how other dudes talk. And the problem is like, dude, if that other dude that you're emulating grew up in a completely different environment, sounds completely different, it's not going to be the same as you. It's not like there's one personality that's better. It's like, how far can you actually lean into yourself confidently? Okay, so this is congruence. Once you have congruence, now you got to combine this with vocal tone. Okay. So, me, the way that I look, okay, and the aesthetic that I have, and I'm from North Dakota and where I'm from, if I was at a bar, if I was like anywhere, if I was just out and about and I said, "Oh, wa look at you, huh? You pretty lady, huh?" Okay, that would come off natural. That would come off congruent. If I tried to do or say something or start throwing out sauce or RZ into the universe that's like a completely different dude, it's not going to align and it's not going to be the thing that I need. So the first is you got to create your unique masculine archetype. This is me. This is what I wear. This is how I am. This is what I'm doing. And it works. Okay. But what I can tell you is do not emulate somebody that you're not. If you emulate somebody that you're not, this is the fastest way to start to lose because rest assured, I want you to really be aware of this. There is no specific better personality. I'll say that again. There is no better personality. It's not like somebody else has a better personality. Okay? Only your conviction in yourself is what matters. Your personality can be literally the best if you believe it's the best because it's you. So, it comes down to a sense of belief. And a sense of belief is confidence. And you're going to see what I mean by that when it gets to step two. But I want you to remember that saying right now. Belief is confidence. Confidence is belief. Okay? If I've ran, let's say, let's say I've ran a 5minute mile every week, once a week for um let's say a year straight, well, by week 53, I probably have just as much confidence, okay? And belief that I can run maybe a 459 mile if I go just a little bit quicker because I have proof of running exactly 5 minutes on the dot. Belief builds confidence, which leads me to step number two. And step number two is demonstrating real life active masculinity. I will say that again. Real life active masculinity. So, let me give you an example. When you're with a woman to demonstrate real active masculinity, because the male, the man energy is active. It's the doing, right? The man energy is that doing energy. It's like putting your will out into the world. It's that that that spirit of like the warrior, right? The conquering energy. Okay? So, you're demonstrating soul. Dudes with a lot of soul, dudes with a lot of heart. They'll typically outwardly demonstrate this and they typically attract all the women. So, what you're going for is loud, active, and sure of yourself. That is active masculinity. These dudes who are very worried about their looks, I get it. You want to be lean. You want to have a six-pack. I've had a six-pack for like the past 10 years, right? But like, if you're missing the internal guts of the man and how he is and how he sounds, you're going to be at a severe disadvantage. Confidence in vocal tone only comes from belief in speech. Now belief in speech comes from when you stop thinking. Okay? Because now you become sure of yourself because what you're saying becomes correct by default because you believe it. This is how energy works when you're attracting women. Let me give you an example. Here's what belief would look like. Let's say you have a bright red apple and you know it's red and you can see that it's red and a different dude comes up to you and he says, "Hey, that apple's blue." How confident and how convicted in your speech would you be to prove to them that that apple is red? You say, "No, bro. Look, the apple is red." Like, you can see that it's red. Do you see that it's red? You can see that it's red. Right? Okay. You following me? You would have full belief and full confidence because you believe what you say. That is conviction. That is confidence. This is how you build it with women. But you have to start throwing out those active sentences. active sentences demonstrating active masculinity, putting your sauce, your rz, your will out into the universe. This is much easier with step number three because step number three, I have two rock solid examples of how this actually works when you have the proper friends around you and the proper male energy and the proper wingmen. When you're with your friends or if you want to call them wingmen or whatever, okay, you need other guys who actually understand how to talk to each other this way. And when you do this, okay, you need wings that get this and talk to each other in this exact speech pattern that I'm demonstrating. Okay, it's like even if you have like a football team or a basketball team, right? There's like a common set of like lingo of like speech, right? Of like like pumping up everybody, right? When you guys are all on the same page, okay, you need to spend more time talking to each other. Okay, the men spend more time talking to each other than they do her. So, it's almost avoiding direct conversation. You're almost avoiding direct conversation. You can literally get laid or damn near have a girlfriend by the end of the night by absolutely knowing nothing about her, not knowing where she's from, not giving a crap where she went to school simply through your energy and talking amongst the other dudes that you're with. So, let me give you an example. I had a group of friends back home, okay? There's probably like 10 other dudes, okay? And a few of them, what I noticed, even like my one really close friend, he goes hunting all the time. Um, what I would notice, okay, he would always say this, boy, boi. But they would even do this when they're texting. What's up, boy? Boi. That's just what they would call each other. So, when they're out on the sandbar, when they're out on the party, it's just a yo, boy, what's up? Okay. What you're going to notice is like, for example, let's say they all go out on the river or something and they're on the jet ski. All of a sudden, like the tone, the attitude, it's just so much like this frat boy behavior. Okay. I You might hear something like this is probably like 5 10 years ago, but you hear something and it's like, "Boy, you see that boy? We jumped that wave. Oh, bro, we jumped that man." Okay, that energy right there. What would happen is all the women would feed off of it. The women would literally feed off of that energy. And then the women would even start saying it too because now there's like a common set of like language that everybody's like having fun with. And it's this energy. Women follow fun. So that rowdy energy to women literally is like flies on right? Like I can't control that it's like this. This is just what I've observed after, you know, learning this stuff over the past like 10 years plus. So when you combine these three things, step number one, know thyself and create a unique masculine archetype. Step number two, demonstrate real life active masculinity. Step number three. Now you get your wingmen or the friends that you're with to all understand this and have a common set of language where it's almost like you're rising each other. This right here is how you actually get the vibe state that gets her to want to sleep with you and she thinks you're like the funnest, coolest dude ever all of a sudden. So all three of these, what I just described, step one, step two, step three. This right here is what I would call front-end game. Okay? So now it's time that you fully understand, learn, and master the entire system of the language of women. Which means some of the things that you learn in this video, this is some of the few key core concepts of what I'm going to show you inside of front end game when you start to learn, understand, and master the language of women. Which is why it is now time for you to join us inside of that community because there's two more pieces of the puzzle left. I'm going to teach you midame or middle game, which is how to act on the first one to three dates. And then I'm even going to show you backend game how to successfully manage a proper long-term relationship. But you have to understand the stuff that we just described today is literally just the tip of the iceberg. It is literally just the tip of the iceberg. If you think that this stuff is good and this stuff makes sense, this is only just a few of the key core concepts that I explain at an even deeper level in the actual system. What I'm demonstrating and showing how to demonstrate real front-end game inside of the language of women. The next step is you need to actually take this further. You need to understand that over the past however many years, you have gotten to a point most likely in your dating life where you don't have any options. You're watching video after video and you still don't have results. 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