Bismillahirrahmanirrahim asalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh Waalaikumsalam warahmatullahi W Alhamdulillahi Al ihani wasukrahu Ala taufii watinani asadu Alla ilahaillallah wahdahu la syarikaalahuiman wa asadu Anna muhammadan abduhuasulidw Allahumma shalli Alaihi wa ala alihi wa ashabihi wa ikhwani mothers who are blessed by Allah subhanahu wa taala as well as fathers who are present in our study this time on this happy occasion we will discuss about ee women and heart diseases that infect them yes we know that among the greatest deeds is to cleanse the heart from all kinds of diseases therefore ee Prophet Ibrahim ya Ee pray to Allah ya which is immortalized in the Qur'an the words of Prophet Ibrahim Alaihi Salam W tuzini Yaum yubatun yaumanfa Maun W Banun illa Man atallaha biqolbin Salim O Allah do not humiliate me on the Day of Resurrection when humans are resurrected, that is the day when wealth is no longer useful and children cannot help except those who meet Allahqbin Salim with a clean heart, that is, clean from all his illnesses. Allah also praised Prophet Ibrahim in another verse, yes, when he met Allah with a clean heart, likewise in the hadith when was asked which human being was the most, the Messenger of Allah said kmumilbi lisan every person whose heart is in the congregation is swept, that is, a heart that is swept and whose tongue is very honest, the companions said, Ya Rasulullah lisan arnahu, Ya Rasulullah lisan that is very honest, we understand, namely soduk, meaning he tries to be honest, he does not try not to lie even a word, he tries to be honest in all things, sukul lisan We understand, but wmumulb, what is meant by a heart that is swept, yes, the Messenger of Allah said, namely inqi, namely qi, namely a clean heart that is pious, la Fi W wala hasad, a heart that has no sin in it, no hasad, no envy, the Messenger of Allah used the term Makmumulb is a heart that is swept, a sign that the heart is often visited by dirt. Dirt enters the heart through what we see, what we hear, what we think about, so the dirt enters the heart so it needs to be cleaned because Makmum means like a house, yes, our house, if we let it enter, dust enters, dirt sometimes enters animals, so it needs to be maintained by cleaning it every day so that the dirt does not accumulate. Inah, a beautiful parable from the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam that the heart is prone to being entered by a lot of dirt, so it needs to be maintained by cleaning it every day, so the prophet explained that the best person is the one who often cleans his heart, he pays attention to his heart. This is the best person so he cleans all the diseases in his heart, then also in the hadith of the Prophet Su Al wasallam said inallikum W ajsadikumikumikum Indeed, Allah does not look at your appearance, but Allah looks at your hearts and your deeds. The first thing Allah looks at is a person's heart, that's why we live in this world, don't let it be only only pay attention to the external appearance of our physical cleanliness on the outside, yes, we clean it, we tidy it up, use skincare, yes, what skin, what skin, yes, wear what else, what miniur, sleep, or not enough, yes, then wear what, yes, I often hear things like that, yes, that's right, that's good, yes, it pleases gentlemen, yes, but don't forget to clean your heart, how few people pay attention to Haya, how many people are neat and shiny on the outside, especially, especially now, the term is glowing, glowing, glowing, but their hearts are a mess, their hearts are a mess, why doesn't he pay attention to his heart, of course, a good believer pays attention to both, even cleanliness of the heart is more important than physical cleanliness, eh, therefore, among the best good deeds is trying to clean the heart because earlier, the Prophet Muhammad was asked about the best human being, a human being who likes to clean his heart is like a house that he always sweeps every day, yes, then Ibn Rajab alhambali once said, afdolul amal salamatusadr Min anwailahnauli yaahna KH said, the best deed is a heart that is clean from all its diseases, from all the mess in the heart, a person tries to clean his heart and Her efforts to cleanse her heart are a pious deed and this discussion about the heart is important for all believers and believers for both men and women, but for women it is of course even more important, because women's hearts are not as strong as men's hearts in general, but of course there are many women who are tougher than men, but in general, women are babar in general, yes. In general, they are easily offended, yes, they carry feelings, they like to sulk. Why is it because their hearts are weak and this comes in many arguments, I mentioned this, among others, as Rasul Wasallam said about women. irfiq or rifqan Bil qawarir yes, when in Safar there is a person who does Hada, which is reciting poetry to make the camel run quickly. The poetry is too beautiful so that the camel moves quickly, so Rasulahi wasallam said rifqan Bil qawarir, be gentle with alqawarir qawarir, the plural of qarurah qarurah is a bottle that is filled with clear liquid, so yastqir Alma so that the liquid water stays in the bottle and we call it a bottle that falls quickly if it falls then it cracks easily and breaks easily Rasulullah compares women with bottles so that glass is also called ee qawarir yes glass yes because bottles are made of glass Yes Rasulullah compares women with bottles or compares women with glass Why because they are easy to break easily if they are broken to return them to their original state is very difficult Why is it so easy to break because their hearts are very weak and soft their hearts are very easily scratched yes unlike men yes Touched a little sometimes not offended bullied also e just indifferent yes women Touched a little touched a little easily sensitive yes easy that is the nature of women then ras was say be gentle to women Why do they prioritize their feelings over their minds yes they prioritize their feelings over their minds of course this is needed in many things such as taking care of children caring for children yes and many but in general ee if women Why are they strong in taking care of children because their hearts are so loving so soft to children that men can not do but in other things their hearts are easily scratched if they are scratched it is difficult to repair it has been hurt remember all the time yes until death do not forget then Rasulullah The nature of women is easily cracked like glass, also in the verse eh Allah when commanding the believers not to mock each other insult each other then Allah specifically mentions women in the letter alhujurat says Allah subhanahu wa taala yainaan Do not be like you as those who could be mocked more than the girls who mock this is actually the word of Allah and do not let a group of women mock another group could be mocked more than the girls who mock some amaat Ken is specifically mentioned the mention of women even though it is enough to mention men before what is that Allah kembakusukan kepadaum kanganalian Danus Why is it mentioned women specifically after mentioning the believers in Um because mocking each other often happens between women, women's hearts are bapar yes easy ee hurt easy to mock easily jealous easy to envy ee how many women mock each other just because of for example wallet problems yes bag problems shoe problems Wow her wallet is an old wallet Masyaallah yes that bag is an old bag that model bag is still carried around so they often mock each other they always wear the same clothes nice clothes arrogant nice clothes brought ugly clothes pity ugly clothes Nice clothes what are they called Arrogant good ugly ugly clothes what are they called pity so many women material for teasing each other very much can tease each other because of their children can tease each other because of their bags can because of their husbands are beautiful husbands are ugly then you are ugly husbands are handsome like that so material for teasing each other very well happens among women Isn't it that men don't have any there is also this why in particular because it happens more to the W Why because their hearts are easily affected their feelings ee so sensitive that women ee that's also why women are mentioned in the hadith of the prophet sallallahu wasallam forbidden to visit graves often said ras wasb Allah curses women who often visit graves Why are women forbidden to visit graves often this is wrong with the scholars Are women absolutely not allowed to visit graves or are they only forbidden to visit graves too often I am more of the opinion that it is forbidden too often Why is it forbidden too often because women if they visit graves they cannot control their hearts Moreover, if he visits his child's grave, for example his parents' grave, then if he does it often, he will often cry. If he cries often, in the end, many benefits cannot be carried out. If he is too sad, he often does not worship, he takes less care of his husband, and in the end, there are many harms. The domino effect that arises because of sadness that occurs too often is why women are forbidden to visit men's graves often. Men are told to visit graves often. Kara, perhaps, looking at the world, they need to visit graves to remember the afterlife. Women, even though there are the same benefits, both remember the afterlife, but women are forbidden to do it too often because their hearts are not strong. In the hadith, we know that niaha, wailing is a major sin, wailing for someone who has died, there is a brother who has died, there is a brother who has died, then wailing by raising their voices, yes, why did you leave us, oh my God, why did you take him, oh my God, he is too good, oh my God, this much wailing shows that he is not pleased with the destiny of Allah subhanahu wa taala. This applies to both men and women, but it comes in the hadith with the pronunciation of women specifically, watuam qa mautiha tuqamu. yaumalqiamah ya alaiha sirbalun Min qtiran w min jarab Prophet Sallallahu alaii wasallam a woman who mourns if she does not repent before she dies then she will be divided on the Day of Resurrection with Mai clothes made of hot and mantal liquid that makes the body itch yes called naihah women who mourn Why because many who mourn are women if there is a death the ones who mourn for a long time are women Why do they mourn easily Because their hearts are sensitive men are more resilient when facing rain I said this in general not all men are more resilient than women there are women who are more resilient than men but in general the name niahah often happens to women Why are their hearts weak and even mentioned by the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam at the end of time when Dajjal appears Rasul wasam said Dajal yes Dajjal will descend this area then Rasul wasam said and when Dajal descends it is around Medina Dajal cannot enter Medina so he stops in an area called aljurf If I'm not mistaken it is around the city of Medina then Many people are curious to join Dajal and most of them who go out to join Dajal are women. This means that maybe at that time they heard the rumors about the powerful Dajal so they were curious and wanted to be influenced by the doubts of Dajal so that the most who went out to follow Dajal were women Hatta Inna rajula larjiu Ila Um Ila hamimihi wa Ila Ummi wa ukhtihi wa ammatihi until finally when many women went out to Dajal from the city of Medina to go out to Dajal then a man went home so he tied his wife He tied his mother she followed him he tied his sister he tied his aunt so that they would not go out to Dajal Why do many women join Dajal Because their hearts are easily provoked many that's why women are easily what's it called ee provoked by what they see what they hear and what's around them mothers who are blessed by Subhan all of this ee I bring as evidence that women's hearts ee easily Sensitive yes bapar even when Allah mentions about witches Allah Mentions witches women when Allah says minyarrin nafataati fil uqad of course male witches there are witches who dueled with the Prophet Moses are male witches but when Allah mentions in alqq then Allah says Na uq and takes refuge from the female witches who blow on the knots of arrazi in his interpretation mafatihul gaib mentions Why is it mentioned breath, namely the witches who blow on the knots of women because magic if done by a female shaman is more powerful Why is it more powerful because her heart is extraordinary if her revenge is extraordinary if her evil is extraordinary if her cruelty is extraordinary so when the heart that is truly vengeful that evil collaborates with Satan then it gives birth to very powerful magic What is this? This is why maybe female witches are more dangerous than male witches What is this? Grandma witches are more dangerous than grandfathers magic because of this I bring all of this so that the mothers who are present now, the attendees, pay attention to their hearts Moreover, we know that today is the era of fashion, this is the era, this is the time for women when they focus, they are all focused on their outer appearance, they forget that inner appearance, inner cleanliness is more The main thing is not to neglect external cleanliness, it is truly beautiful if a woman collects her heart, she cleans it as she beautifies her heart and she also beautifies her body. Let's talk about heart diseases, there are two types of heart diseases that are related to a person with Allah subhanahu wa taala. The second is heart disease related to a woman or a human being with another human being. Both are types of diseases that must be avoided. If they have happened, they must be repaired immediately. As for the first type of heart disease related to the Rabbul Alamin about Allah subhanahu wa taala, a person must struggle to repair it, such as, for example, Ee, no, no, she is pleased with the destiny of Allah subhanahu wa taala, not pleased with the sustenance that Allah has given her. This disease makes many women feel miserable even though there is a reason for happiness. What is the reason for happiness? Happiness returns to the heart. When our hearts are clean, we are happy. When our hearts are dirty, we are not happy even though our outer appearance is extraordinary. Maybe we ride in a luxury car, maybe we are accompanied by aunts, maids, maids on the right and left. Yes, maybe we sleep at home, yes, a luxurious room. The spaciousness of an expensive bed but if his heart is diseased he is not happy therefore among the happiness of the inhabitants of Paradise is that they have clean hearts Allah mentions in the Quran Wana maiuriim mininajah Anhar we remove from their breasts the envy so they enter Paradise beneath which rivers flow in another verse W ikw mqilin we remove the diseases Gil envy from their hearts so they become brothers the inhabitants of Paradise brothers to each other alqilin they are on eh beds beds facing each other with enthusiasm so because of what Because there is no heart disease at all between one another so when they face each other they chat with enthusiasm happily why there is no heart disease but if we chat with someone we are annoyed that we sneer at is different our expression when we chat Allah mentions among the beauties of Paradise the pleasure of Paradise is a clean heart therefore in the authentic hadith when the believers are saved from Sirat which Sirat is a bridge placed above the hellfire above the surface of hellfire they pass after they have successfully passed they are gathered in qantarah a location they are gathered for what the prophet Hatta idza hudzibu wqu said when they have been cleansed that is their hearts are cleansed before entering heaven before entering heaven Why maybe before that some of them have qisos each other when before Sirat so that when they are tried by Allah there may be annoyance there may be annoyance between them So before entering heaven Allah cleanses them first because Whoever has a dirty heart even the slightest cannot enter heaven Allah said tibatum fadula khidin you are clean then please enter heaven to stay there forever so this is a pleasure yes a person with a clean heart She is the happiest person even though maybe with economic limitations maybe with limitations of appearance that may not be as beautiful as others but when her heart is clean she is the happiest woman the happiest woman maybe lives in a simple house very simple facilities Maybe she doesn't ride a motorbike rides a bicycle yes her husband is ordinary ee bag too maybe a borrowed bag but she smiles a lot Why is she smiling a lot her heart is clean she is happy why is she happy her heart is clean try People for example beautiful luxurious cars yes maids many flashy houses then lots of money lots of ATMs yes credit cards are also many but His heart is dirty with hatred towards Allah, he doesn't accept the fate of Allah subhanahu wa taala. Is this a happy person who is not happy, that's why he is found as a rich person on drugs. Why is he looking for happiness? There is a problem, he loses drugs. If he can't be happy, he drinks alcohol to get rid of the fatigue in his head. The way out of alcohol is no longer strong enough to face the hardships of life. Entering a discotheque, dancing here, dancing, adultery, adultery, adultery, lots of money, but he is not happy. Maybe he is a famous person, how many people act as if he is happy, wants to be an official I want to be an artist, what do I want to do, but my life is miserable, I know there are people like that, when they go out in public, Masha Allah, they are like loving people at home, they are beautiful, but when they come home they have scratches, so happiness is when their hearts are clean, we are looking for happiness in the world before the afterlife, here we often pray Rabbana Atina Fid Dunya Hasanah Wafil Akhiratar Oh Allah, give us goodness in the world, goodness in the afterlife. Among the goodness in the world, there are those who interpret qanaah. accept it, this is advice for me personally and also for the audience presence to cleanse the heart and that is the best pious deed, so among the dangerous illnesses that make a person miserable is not accepting the destiny of Allah subhanahu wa taala not accepting the destiny of Allah subhanahu wa taala yes he needs to learn about faith in destiny he needs to learn about the wisdom behind disasters and I have a lot of lectures for a while about destiny about patience about the wisdom Behind Patience The wisdom behind disasters he listens to again and again he learns so that it is ingrained in his heart that what is true Allah chooses that which is best good if he is If he is patient If he is patient yes if he does not accept the destiny of Allah then he is miserable look in the mirror his nose is flat see his friend's sharp he is Sad why oh Allah you gave me a flat nose when there is wisdom if it is made sharp He may be an adulterer but to him PS no one is interested in him avoid adultery true or not true people nowadays when they are a little pretty they come out Uncover their private parts then commit adultery and when maybe his face is so-so no one is interested later there will be someone who is interested the best yes meaning a Rida with gifts if not then he will be miserable when he is hit by a disaster he says Alhamdulillah Al kullial all praise be to Allah for all the disasters that befell him know what he feels now the best I can't possibly discuss it in detail because I have studied it in many studies yes so when a Rida with what Allah has destined then he will be happy that's why ras wasam once said it is not true wealth is rich with many assets but true wealth is Rich in heart Rasul wasamersabda Nas Be happy with what Allah has given you, then you will become the richest person with the happiest heart. The happiest, yes, the happiest. Imam Syafi'i said Matain Qin Faantaik Dun Saw. If you have a heart that is willing to accept what Allah has destined for you, then in fact you and the king are the same. The king wants to have a large area, wants to have good wealth so that he can be happy and it is difficult for him to qanaah unless he has this, this and that, someone may not have anything but it turns out he has reached the level of qanaah. then he is happy first, maybe even than the king, so when a person has a heart that accepts Allah's decision, then he is the happiest person, so often train mothers, if there is a misfortune, say thank God ala K, partly why, O Allah, did you test me like this, that's it, that's the danger, why did you test me like this, O Allah, Why Why Why, so that he becomes a miserable woman, train ourselves to accept what Allah has given us, it's true, our mothers, with what Allah has given us, we can avoid many evils, okay? there's a lot of wrongdoing, yes, I am Just think about it, when we were in school, high school, for example, or junior high school, we had friends who were handsome, right? I mean, they were unnaturally handsome, right? We had female friends who were also abnormally beautiful, more than normal, right? They were the ones who usually went to discos to date, then drank bad beer, didn't drink beer, drank water, no one was interested in inviting them, finally, they had a mix of dating, adultery, and subhanallah, that's what happened when we were in school. I still remember, I had a friend at that time, he had a Tiger motorbike, what year was it, Tiger, was it 2000? Yes, in the 2000s, it was already surrounded by lots of girls, I rode a bike, no one, Wak, no one was surrounded by guys like me, but he, wow, where are all the girls going? Imagine if we had a Tiger motorbike at that time, right? There would definitely be girls who would crowd around, yes, who liked Tiger, yes, but subhanallah, let's think about it, there were friends who were in the luxury car community, what are they in these days? What are women talking about drugs in the world? That community Why do they have a lot of wealth we are pleased with what Allah has given us Insyaallah it is best if we are given wealth like we do not know maybe slandered It is extraordinary mothers try to see if famous mothers like artists have a hard life so they are in the spotlight become the subject of gossip must always appear drama where people are every day have to maintain a miniur sleep skincare and so on busy must always act in front of people people are looking for their mistakes if there is a mistake it is blown up the mistake goes viral and what kind of life is like that what kind of life is like that children are neglected husbands are in disarray divorced here divorced here married there married here Later they will be caught in drug cases later this later ask the artists who have migrated How Why did they migrate because they found happiness in their migration Alhamdulillah mothers have mediocre faces Alhamdulillah Try if their beauty is not normal then they become artists how would their lives be don't be fooled by seeing luxury lots of money does not necessarily mean happiness among the dangerous diseases that mothers have to fight is the disease of not being pleased with Allah's decision this requires struggle this requires struggle it requires appreciation of faith in destiny learn that what Allah It is destined for me that it is best if I am patient in accepting it in an orderly manner. In the midst of illnesses and dangerous things that make us unhappy, it makes us miserable, it is suuzan to Allah subhanahu wa taala, suan has prejudice against Allah subhanahu wa taala, yes, one trains oneself to always be husnudan and be kind to Allah. Whatever happens, there is a woman who is tested extraordinarily, tested regarding her husband, tested regarding her child, tested physically, tested with illness, then meets with her ustazah. meet with his teacher, his ustazah advise him. Whatever happens, don't disobey Allah, don't disobey Allah, Allah has given us the rules in the Hadith Qudsi Anaoni Abdii, I depend on my servant's opinion of me, Falun Bi Abdi Masyaa, so let my servant be prejudiced against me, what he wants, please be prejudiced in Khairan falahu, if he thinks that is good for him, good for him is waran falahu. If he thinks bad for him, it is bad. Subhanallah, this heart is tested when Allah gives us a shock in life, sometimes Satan appears for us suan Oh Allah why did you do this to me oh Allah oh Allah what do you want to do to me again don't ever do anything oh Allah criticize the polytheists and hypocrites who Allah said they are prejudiced against Allah with bad prejudices It's true that sometimes we are tested with a heavy test for us to start to have various kinds of prejudices when we start to have various kinds of prejudices immediately straighten out our prejudices indeed Allah is with our prejudices when Allah mentioned about the believers who were tested about the war of punishment when the enemy came from above you Muslims upon yah00ukond when the Muslims were so afraid that their views could not be stable because of the fear that entered their hearts when their hearts had risen their hearts rose to their throats because of the extraordinary fear Kara They were only 2000 surrounded by 10,000 in the city of Medina there was also the betrayal of the Jews Bani Quraidah yes yes makaalian prejudiced against Allah with various kinds of prejudices that can happen to anyone we are hit by we start to have prejudices well when it appears Bad prejudices that are not true, we will immediately fight them. Why do you rely on Allah? Haven't you been given goodness all this time? Haven't your prayers been answered? Have n't you been loved all this time? Haven't you been given guidance by Allah subhanahu wa taala? Haven't you been facing disasters all this time and you were able to get through them? How many good thoughts? Haven't you always prayed before, the result was like this, thinking well, a person is sometimes tested with a test as Allah says watununa billahiununa you also think with various kinds of prejudices, be careful there, it's a loss if we think badly of Allah, it's a loss. Whatever happens, whether it's pain or good, or a disaster, How big or heavy, how heavy, good prejudices, just play with your heart, good prejudices, remember the word of Allah, wahua arhamurahimin, he is the most merciful God, the most merciful I often say this when the Prophet Job prayed. He said anniani wa anta arhamur rahimin O Allah, indeed I am afflicted with suffering, yes, a severe illness, Prophet Job wa anta arhamur rahimin and you are the most loving substance among who loves me, if my mother loves me, if my wife loves me, the children love me, my brothers love me, Allah loves me more than all of them, why am I created by Allah, Allah gives me sustenance, Allah gives me Hidayah, Allah gives me guidance, prepares infrastructure for me, husnudan to Allah subhanahu wa taala Qul huarahmanu amanna bihi Wa Alaihi tawakalna Say he is Arrahman, the most merciful, amanna bihi, we believe in Allah, Arrahman, the most merciful Wa Alaihi tawakalna and we put our trust in Allah, Subhanallah, trust in our trust, we can imagine how much our parents love us, Allah loves us more, well, if that's the case, what are we going to do to Allah? I say this is not an easy matter, but this is a disease of a person who often suuzon to Allah, a disease and if he has suuzon often suuzon, what happens when he suuzon is that he has a bad prejudice, he starts to fall, falls, falls according to what he thinks, he always thinks well. Until you are hit by a disaster, you say, Thank God, ala kulli for everything Praise be to Allah for all His decisions behind this, there must be a lesson, there must be a lesson in it. It's impossible that there wo n't be a lesson. Yes, so that a person then doesn't have prejudice against Allah, something that is very detrimental to prejudice against Allah is like the nature of polytheists and the nature of hypocrites, that's why ee Some scholars say that Allah has decided the end of life for people who suffer with the story of the Prophet Ayub, in addition to the greetings of the Prophet Job, let alone the disaster that befell him. What is it? he didn't he said wa anta arhamurahimin You are the most merciful substance still Husnan remains husanb this is a disease of the heart that is related between a woman and Allah subhanahu wa taala I personally and also mothers don't ever suan what is the severity of disasters related to our husbands related to our children related to our economy still husn Who is patient the end will be beautiful, said Allah subhanahu wa taala Be patient The end is real what is beautiful for people who are pious is someone who is patient, what the Prophet Yusuf Alaihi Salam said He said Who is pious and patient in facing all tests Allah will not waste the reward for those who do good, namely those who are patient and remain husnudan to Allah, then the ending will definitely be beautiful, the ending will definitely be beautiful I know among us, among mothers, there are those who are going through big problems, going through big disasters, yes, but never suudan to Allah subhanahu wa taala tib Of course, ee, heart disease related to a woman towards Allah, there are many such as Suud, we have mentioned earlier, such as not accepting Allah's decision, among them, maybe doubt, among them, maybe and so, many doubts, but we will not discuss them, we will discuss these two tib, the next model of heart disease is related to women among them, among women, what is the heart disease between women, among them, is hasad? Yes, no, hasad, among them, is envy, among them, is envy, ee, this is a heart disease between women, then also suudan to other women, suudan to other people, yes, Ee, then among the heart diseases, worldly hubud, love for the world, forgetting about the afterlife, yes, these are also diseases that destroy someone's happiness, destroy someone's happiness, then a person struggles to cleanse his heart of these diseases Ti blessed by Allah subhanahu wa taala yes among the diseases that often occur among mothers is the disease of hasad hasad hasad what is tamanni zawalil nikmahilhair wanting that the pleasure that is in people in their friends is lost even as a scholar gives a harsher definition saying hate there are people who get pleasure that is called hasad that is called hasad we see rich people we don't like it means we are envious see there are mothers who are more beautiful we don't like it means what is hasad see there are people wearing more expensive clothes we are envious see there are mothers whose husbands are more handsome we are angry means what is hasadat there are mothers who come in a more luxurious car is a debt for the car we are envious we hate it means a sign of us having envious means we are envious well this we try to cleanse our hearts pray to Allah subhanahu wa taala so that our hearts are clean among them like the prayer that Allah mentions in the Qur'an W ja O Allah do not make in our hearts there is malice disease to people who have faith also misalo ya Allah akuohon kepadaauis yangj yangers Min to Allah oh Allah k allah when will we get our Salim buns happy among them also the prayer of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam waslul simatabi Oh Allah cleanse the dirt from my heart waslul sakimatabi Oh Allah cleanse the dirt from my heart and the prayer also Allahahumahdibi yes Allah give Hidayah to my heart when do we feel that I have hadad Oh Allah cleanse the disease of my heart Oh Allah give guidance to my heart give Hidayah to my heart Why I have to be with him why should I be with him and among the causes of young people being hasad because their eyes look up too often to see other people's advantages and not looking down at what makes people easy to havead even the prophet was advised by Allah subhanahu wa taala W Guestddna Aika Bi azwajam minhum zahratal biologicald Dunya lftinahum Fih warizqubika kir wa abqo said Allah subhanahu wa taala don't widen your eyes O Messenger of Allah, to the pleasures that we have given to those who disbelieve lahum We are testing them their slander with those riches warizikir abq But Allah's sustenance is better and more eternal for us if we see those who have more immediately correct our mindset people who have more riches have more reckoning Yes no more reckoning he has cars his reckoning is more Do you want to be reckoned more certainly don't want him to have a higher position his reckoning is longer We don't have a position even taking care of children is reckoned let alone those who have what his position the more famous his reckoning is the bigger it doesn't have to be among women for example hasad can appear even among scholars even among Ustaz there is even a book entitled tahasudul ulama namely hasad among scholars maybe it happens maybe because of the position as Ustaz as a prestigious position Why because many people respect many people flatter and that happens competition if someone doesn't guard his heart for example there is Ustaz Min he gives a lecture maybe 10 people attend maybe 5 people EMP the other person is present 10,000 people Ti there is no need for hasad yes Indeed the person whose recitation is crowded with many people is heavy What is the hard test? The test of popularity The test of sincerity The worldly test The test of women Many people are already famous according to their knowledge Now some people are slandered with various kinds of slander Slandered women exist Is there a slandered woman Is there a slandered woman Is there why when he started to be famous He started to have knowledge He was surrounded By mothers By widows By O girls Slandered Slandered yes As long as he is a normal man Yes Not normal Is safe Is there a seeker of knowledge Slandered by the world There is he is a seeker of knowledge Ustaz wants other things but he talks about new cars and models This is what traveling there He talks not about sharia He talks about what is the world Slandered by the world Even preaching is used as a means to make money For example, this is the world when he started to be famous If G Not famous Only 10 people come 20 people Who wants to see him No one sees him This Ustaz cannot be used for business No one sees I mean we don't need to be jealous People are given pleasures they have their own tests Our task is to be grateful for what Allah has given us If we want to try Yes please but G needs hasat With others we can try to get blessings from Allah without having to hate the blessings that Allah gives to others, so one of the means for us not to be jealous is don't let these eyes like to look at things that are far away from the world, don't you stretch your eyes to see the pleasures of the world Well, mothers, if you don't want to be jealous, don't like to look at social media to look at friends' statuses, statuses when traveling abroad, oh mothers, I'm only traveling in Bekasi, is this also abroad, not Bekasi, another planet, he said, then saw his friend going to Paris to Masyaallah, then she made a status of being with her husband Subhanallah, suddenly I hate seeing my husband, I'm rude, why, because I'm like a worldly person, I'm jealous of other people, how can he be taken away by my husband, in the end, our hearts are damaged because we often see things like that, so these eyes don't need to look too much, because this heart can be damaged if we see things that are in demand, we won't see what is suffering, it's the rainy season, I went out of the house, it's the rainy season, there are people carrying a cart, their children in a cart, it got wet in the rain, I've seen that, mothers, don't look at the mall, see what's there people push for food but yesterday I had a family meet again riding a motorbike with his friend suddenly there was a grandmother lifting grandmother lifting what used bottles want to sell finally the family bought Padang rice want to go back tah she wasn't there this grandmother looked for it turned out she had gone somewhere else nes-naes that trash In Jakarta there are things like that look at things like that don't look at the shiny and glowing ones look like that poor us Alhamdulillah still can recite the Koran still can eat still can get fat Alhamdulillah that's a pity finally the family gave me already eaten this morning He said there are still many like that look down There are still many people who have difficulty seeing luxurious houses There are still many people whose houses only have one room only two doors entrance and toilet door directly our house has doors there are still many like that sometimes one small room already three one child Masyaallah we are confused what to do if he wants to have sex with his wife his children tell him to go out first How confused So if we often look up this becomes envy becomes envy and if it is envy not qanaah not accept it it's finished we are not happy will not happiness will not be happy then mothers this heart do not envy others if you see someone getting blessings Subhanallah he is tested with blessings if I am given that blessing I may not be able to be grateful for it it's not easy to be grateful for having a car, Allah will ask where you got the car from, do you use it to obey Allah or to show off for arrogance it's hard to answer it's hard to answer if you ask about a bicycle it's easy right bicycle yes for the mosque to take the children to school the question is easy but if it's luxurious it's hard then our way to be happy yes Don't look at the above mothers don't hang out with people who are too luxurious too often if you can't guard your heart why can mothers change their heart from being grateful to being content can become envious see luxurious things in the end never Kona alahi to Allah subhanahu wa taala ba the next one among the diseases of the heart among the diseases of the heart yes and this is me befalls many people, namely the entry of a lot of information into the heart that is not filtered, the mess of the information so that in the end knowing a lot of things that bother us, in the end it is difficult to accept faith and piety. Why are we so busy with things that are essential, that's why in its history this heart is a vessel of fasil bil quran, busy that vessel, fill it with what the quran is, I often say in my teachings that among the things that make our hearts damaged is too much that we see on social media about this news, this news, this news, that news, news that makes us sad, news that makes us angry, news that makes us annoyed, news of sin that we see, messed up, lots of insight that enters our hearts so that our hearts are chaotic so that there is no time to read the quran, no time to study the quran, no time to fill our hearts with goodness because we are already busy with useless things, too nosy, wanting to know everything until there is a cleric who, for example, some of us in the virtual world are like if today there is a mother in the real world, she comes to a group of women, she comes k poor people who are busy with salons What are you doing Oh you're making this taking care of what this and this is the story he heard Oh like that then he commented then he went again there was another commission maybe they were exercising what are the mothers doing exercising oh like this there are people arguing what are you two doing arguing there are people getting divorced Mother why do you trust your husband there is this and that if we see our mother that mother is crazy Not everyone She wants to know her affairs is it true or not doesn't dare to say yes Well that's the picture of some of us in the virtual world and want to know this want to know this want to know that if in the real world there are mothers who like that we still have gaps What are you doing like that not taking care of your husband don't have time is enough not taking care of your husband time is enough taking care of your children Tahsin is right or not Prayer is solemn Not yet why take care of many people's affairs some of us are like that in reality but in the virtual world click this want to know click that want to know click this want to know in the end there is a lot of chaotic information both good and bad with various various branches keep us busy thinking when information enters our minds can't concentrate that's the disease finally the heart becomes restless Why is there too much information coming in that's why I said want to be happy happy read the Quran mothers already apply that HP put it away for a while Don't look at it read the Quran S hours reading the Quran definitely has an immediate effect happy definitely happy but if S hours Mothers see Instagram news check check join comment too why comment like that refute again that's S hours heart is damaged especially then stuck in Korean films finished damaged damaged the damage is worldly apart from what he built his faith in his heart destroyed because of watching Korean films so we fear Allah want a clean heart stay away from that because it makes us finally messed up next disease earlier worldly hubbub love with what world some women Masyaallah previously when gathering to talk about the afterlife how do we Tahsin how will it be later yes teacher is good or not expert in this Tahsin good the conversation there are orphans what if we how do we hold religious study groups how do we prosper the mosque how do we preach mothers who are new don't know the sunnah the conversation t like that now it has changed too Many people see that they are too social, what is the world, the world, when women are already infected with the disease of worldly love, they only want the little ones who are miserable, their husbands are miserable, they want to go to the mall, they want to buy branded bags, they don't feel confident if they wear cheap bags, they don't feel confident if they wear clothes that are not branded, Wow, this is what's difficult for husbands, if their husbands have money, it's okay, if they don't have money, they tell them to be bandits, it's difficult, so mothers, don't fill our hearts with worldly love, this world is already beside us, we are tempted, we have to fight it, how do we fight it so that we are not worldly-oriented, remember the afterlife, remember death, busy yourself with piety, with obedience, read the Quran, study Tahsin, don't waste time, mothers who are blessed by Allah subhanahu wa taala, every time we do something, ask ourselves, O Allah, I have 5 minutes ahead, I want to see what, here, am I ready to be judged, in these 5 minutes we don't click on something, watch tib, am I ready to be judged, what am I watching, 5 minutes to see celebrity news, in these 5 minutes I will be asked by Allah Why do you watch 5 minutes of celebrity news, are you asked or not, mothers are asked if we can answer, just watch it, it's okay if you can't, no need, no need, if you're not ready, don't be asked, because surely our hearts will become damaged, we live in an era of slander, we waste a lot of our time on useless things, finally our hearts are in disarray, damaged, so that various kinds of heart diseases enter our bodies, yes, tib. Ee, this is just maybe mothers, yes, of course, heart disease, yes, there are still many, yes, these are just a few criticisms for me personally and also for women who are blessed by Allah subhanahu wa taala. This is an era of slander and slander that damages the heart, both doubts and lust, a person calculates how much life he has left, we don't know, maybe it's still long or only a little, don't let us regret it in the future, this little remaining life, make the most of it so that we are close to Allah subhanahu wa taala, happiness is easy, make it a routine, just pray Duha, one rakaat, don't do it too much, make it a routine, make it a routine, pray Witr, don't do it too much, three rakaat, one rakaat, make it a routine, do morning Zikr In the evening, read the Koran regularly, keep yourself busy serving your husband, be busy taking care of the children, happiness. Happiness is not difficult. Happiness is not difficult. God willing, that's what Kanallahuaamwab says. If anyone asks, I'm welcome.