I am currently in my new apartment in Dubai, and there is a very important message I want to share with you about why I was constantly stuck on the basics in that vicious cycle of constantly having the illusion of: "Now I’m going to jump in, now I’m going to start, now I’m going to raise my standards, now I’m going to adopt the best gym routine, the best nutrition plan." But I always relapsed. Now I'm going for 100k a month. But I constantly fell back into my old patterns and habits, and I just never managed to break through that plateau and move from point A to B, where point A is my current situation and point B is the drone scenario, so to speak, that I want to head towards. What is the reason why I never get out of it? And this is what is going to take you to the next level, and what brought me to the next level, which is why I am now sitting in an apartment in Dubai. and no longer in my mother's bedroom where I used to make my videos. How did it happen that I have been able to scale up my coaching business to such a large point? The fact that I now even help other business coaches , so fitness coaches, and provide them with business coaching, and that I still dominate with the physical results I achieve. How is it that I have broken through that plateau, that I have broken through that pattern and am already moving out of that constant paralysis, that analysis paralysis of now? How did I ensure that I broke out of that and am no longer constantly stuck in those old patterns, those old patterns of my old self? That was because I saw myself as that, how I broke through that. That is because I have changed myself as a person. The choir changed who I am. Instead of always being reactive to the circumstances, to the scenarios that happened to me, I became proactive. Okay, this is very important. You want to become a person who is no longer afraid of making choices. You no longer want to be afraid of making choices. For what do I want to convey to you? You're not missing a strategy. You're just lazy. You are not yet the person you want to be because you haven't put in the work of that person from that dream scenario to get there. It is all in raw action. You can have the expertise of the world. You can read most books. You can acquire so much knowledge. But if you do not take action on that knowledge, then you remain the exact same person you constantly were. Because you don't change as a person. The only way you truly change as a person, moving away from the choir, is if you constantly take that raw action and actually take action. That is the only way for change. And how do you become someone who is always reactive, who takes no action? The one who constantly procrastinates, who is afraid of making the wrong choice, who is always locked in and already wants to go to the one who does do it . It is pure character. And the problem I had, let's say, was that I was afraid there would be a choice that is better. And that paralyzed me, because I didn't make a choice as a result. I was always too perfectionistic about the fact that there is a better alternative reality to the choice I could make. So because of that, I didn't take any, uh, action. So, for example, with this YouTube video, what is the best angle? What is the best way to start this video? That is exactly what I am struggling with . But that is a illusion. Because that paralyzes you. As a result, you keep ending up in that vicious circle. Because you won't become the person who is n't afraid to make a fool of themselves. You have to become that person. You have to stop with the perfect scenario. You have to stop with the perfect conditions. But you must become a person who creates the perfect circumstances. And you do that through action. So when you, uh, let's say, you absolutely want to lose a lot of fat , you want to get super lean, you want a beautiful relationship, you want to reach 100k months, 10k months, or 5k months with your business. What is the problem? That at the beginning you do not know what you are doing and do not know if what you are doing is the right thing. But that is actually a good thing. Because that is precisely when you create character. For all work is profit. Not a single piece of work, not a single piece of action you take in your growth is lost. Because they are all puzzle pieces that you put together to ultimately achieve what you want to achieve. For example, when I, um, just started giving personal training. I didn't have many clients. For a year, I was on the same, uh, I was on the same plateau. But because I took the right actions every day with the PT, new knowledge meetings, constantly making videos, constant boom boom boom boom boom. For a year, a breaking point was reached at some point. There came a breaking point where I felt that things were going well, that I was suddenly an overnight success . That suddenly everything went fast. I cost three clients in one day because of this. By drawing on that skill, character, and consistency for a year. But if you are never consistent, you will never build the skill to execute and eventually become that overnight success. So boom, a year of cuttings, cuttings, cuttings. It's like you're working. Let's say: "You have a part-time job now, and you aren't getting paid for a year of 9 to 5 every day." That is the work you ultimately have to put into it to eventually achieve what you want to achieve. And then, at a certain moment, all the puzzle pieces came together, and I had created the character who suddenly cloaked three clients in one day. Boom, then it started to sink in. The months later, I went to Dubai for the first time. After that I stayed in Dubai, uh, for two weeks I came back to the Netherlands. A month later, back to Dubai. I had invested all my money in the mastermind. Boom, I stayed in Dubai for three months . I am coming back to Dubai. One summer went by. Boom, after that I moved to Dubai. All that within a year. But a year before that, which I just mentioned, I had already built up all those skills. And the problem with that is that you are paralyzed and constantly bounce in the same vicious circle of changing your life , but you never change, because you consistently fall back into your old habits. And the problem with that is that you are afraid to make the right choices. For example, you want to carry out work, but you put it off for a very long time. The reason you are putting it off is because you are afraid of making a fool of yourself . That you are afraid that there is a better, uh, alternative that you can use. But that actually makes you fall back into your old habits. And my life had completely changed. How I got fit, how powerful I became. Didn't happen because of the best diet plan. Didn't make it through the best training plan. All diets work, all training routines work. It was the consistency in that. And the person I had to become, a decisive person who simply commits to one thing and doesn't stop at that one thing and the choices he makes. That is how I changed my whole life . So if you want to become that person , then One second. I'm filming a video. Hello. Yes. Thank you. So the moment I just kept making choices and I didn't stop making choices and I became very steadfast in the choices I made. So I was no longer afraid to procrastinate and not make a choice. Imagine you are at a restaurant and you put off for a very long time whether to order the chicken or the steak . Everyone has been in that. Or which dessert am I going to have? You do n't want to make the wrong choice, and because of that, you procrastinate. But if you just make the choice right away, you never make the wrong choice, because then you become the person. Imagine you are offered a job at two companies. The same slats are best for both, but you don't know which one suits you best. That does n't matter. Because you are making the best of it. You ensure that you become the person you make yourself out to be. And when you make that shift in your decision-making, so in the choices you make, that you are not afraid to make the wrong choice and you just make the choice. So the imperfect action, the imperfect actions you take, that creates you as a person, and that is how you are going to win. And that is how you break through that vicious circle. That is the only way. So instead of becoming paralyzed, I dominated. I dominated and just took raw action. And that is when my life changed. So as a person, you need to become proactive and no longer reactive. And I promise you that if you do this, your life will change completely. This is the only shift you need to make. I do n't care what business model you are in, or what you do. If you become a client of mine for my coaching, the first thing I do is I am not, I am not going to make you feel good. I am not going to make sure you feel comfortable, that you get a good feeling after the kale. We are going to look specifically at reality, and with that, I confront you with the real reality. The real reality, with why you are leaking now and where you stand. And the reason you are where you are now is because you have not yet taken the actions you know you need to take. And the reason you are not yet where you need to be is because you have not yet become the person who takes those actions . And that is what I do in coaching. And that is why it works so abnormally well. Because I am looking at you. I don't look at myself, at a strategy or anything like that. I look at you as a person, and that is where we dominate. If you are not yet living the life you want to live, then this is the issue. This is the issue. This is the only way to break out. By becoming the person you are meant to become by taking the right actions. It doesn't matter what kind of coaching session you take or if you have therapy, you have a good conversation and you feel good afterward. Nothing has changed, because you are not taking action. And that is real coaching. When you have someone who is real with you and who lets you take the sincere actions you need to take to change your reality . And I am a really good judge of character, of character. I can judge that very well. So after one crate, I know what allows us to go to the next level and take that to the next level . If you made it this far in the video , it means that this hit you, and it also means that it is time for action. And you have to realize that if you remain in exactly the same situation for the next three years as you are in now, so for the next three years you remain in the same position. Um, if you take the same actions, then I have a question for you. What will your liver look like in 3 years then? Who are you then? Not the person you want to be. So it is time for action. That's it. And that is the only way you are going to dominate. Bye. Love and follow more subscribe. And if you want to, follow me on Instagram below if you don't already. And uh, would you like to schedule a one-on-one call with me to see if coaching is right for you? Below. Bye bye. And uh, just comment on what you thought of it. Čia