please please please subscribe to my channel like the video maybe even throw in a comment if you're really trying to hang out say it to my face comment to my face like it subscribe I'll suck your dick bye what's up everybody Welcome to Sophia with an F I have a lot to say this week I am joined by one of my really good friends but before I even intro you or talk talk about you there's something a little more important what I'm dropping my new clothing collection love it's going to kill it it's incredible amazing baby blue white sporty Chic like the the I honestly wait those pieces on your bed were your merch yes wait I was like where are those from right wait it's giving right yes I'm recording from WTF media Studios blackowned Studio I am recording right now with my guest paig Len we recorded a year and a half ago yeah did the recording and just hit it off you're just a girls girl like and I can I'm super intuitive so I just like know immediately girls not yeah and like it's really rare to find good girls it is and you're one of the few like like it's not like we've spent a crazy amount of time together but you're just like one of those girls that I know that would ride for me regardless 100% but I want to back up you uh were on my podcast a year and a half ago you had a relationship with Army Hammer that was a huge like public thing documentary coming out soon about it stop yeah okay it's crazy like are we going talk about in a second you can keep going no no wait you can't just say that there it's just so there's a a documentary coming out about his whole family and I've been asked like a lot by the media to comment on it and I'm I'm in it like I think clips of me and the things that I've done and some statements I've made are in it but I decided to not be a part of it why is that it it was really hard for me like all of it was pretty hard for me like dramatic it the situation was traumatic and then like the media aspect of it was super traumatic mhm I came forward because we'd gone photographed Together We There were photos of me on my Instagram that I had bruises on me and stuff people knew people knew well and there's so many other women yeah there was so many other women and I I did so I actually like women were coming forward and I was sitting with my sister we were beating and my sister's just the best and she's dating a girl and we were just all sitting there her and her girlfriend were sitting there and they were like yo like this shit's coming out about Army like what do you like did this happen to you and I was like I make a a joke out of everything me too so I was just like I was like yeah this shit's so insane but like yeah like this is these are some things he did and my sister and her girlfriend were like paig like that's not normal yeah and I was like I was like laughing but they were like that's not funny like that's not funny that's not cool that's not Kosher that's not safe that's not BDSM like that's just weird and twisted and like he's a sexual deviant and it took for them to point it out 100% and that's why people are like oh well like you didn't say it like to begin with and like you you all of a sudden people started getting media attention then you whatever like jumped on I go no like I had a conversation with my family and then they were like Paige this isn't right cuz I was so manipulated I was love bombed I was manipulated I really thought that it was BDSM I thought it was just like I thought there was this community of people that did stuff like this MH and I think there there is but like the way that what you did it was not cool and I like had a relationship with that type of like sexual activity so I didn't know what was normal and what was not especially when it comes to sex 100% and pushing boundaries and you want to experiment yeah it's hard to know what's okay and what's not I also just like wanted to be down like I wanted to be a down ass like I wanted to be like a girl that would and that's like a that's something I've learned a lot like I've learned I'm a different person when all I should happen like I'm a very different person like saying no is cool and like being down all the time isn't hot like like and I I like I'm I'm into some stuff like I have things I'm into that's not vanilla but like saying yes to everything is not the move like but so many girls do you know a guy is not going to like you more no cuz you're the girl that's down to do whatever the and that's what I learned like I learned that cuz you lose respect for yourself like and that's the most valuable thing like they might be like wow cool girl but when you lose respect for yourself it's like that it doesn't even matter yeah but what upsets me is the public and their opinion and them saying yeah you're just you just want attention why didn't you say it earlier why didn't you say it like this the crazy thing is we already papazzi together before all it came out like I was already like any any clout that I gained from him like I already kind of have like we were P we were papazzi mhm like I didn't gain anything like the only thing I gained was like my family having to read that like that's with me forever like when I have kids like that's on the internet like I'm not naive like that was gnarly yeah it was Gnar like for my sex life and my like that deep n dark to come out was like not positive the fact that the public and this is like this happens all day every day Harvey Weinstein like all the girls have haters they come out well it's men too though 100% it's they I don't know what it is exactly but it's when a woman speaks up about being abused in some type of way yeah Society men in general want to shut it the down and make fun of it and cross it off yeah because they think we're a joke like yes it has to be a joke it has to be she's cunny of Fame it has to be that and how is that you trying to get Fam I'm like yeah this is not this is not positive press guys like the the details you gave about what he did to you you're like oh yeah that happened because I was trying to be famous like what is wrong with 100% you know what it is I think also he is a really cult following from one of his movies call me by your name which is actually like respectfully like a pretty amazing film for the gay community and it did a lot for the gay community because not a film like that and that's that's him that's not him as a person that's him as an artist so but the cult following he has from that film with Tim Timothy shal who was also a cult following right created this gnarly storm of like right this girl like conspiracy theory whatever like I'm so this I'm so that but I also like as a confident person I knew that I have like I know why I have a career and it's cuz I'm good at what I do mhm and it has nothing to do with that because so many girls are in the TBL but like what like I've gained and like what I've done has nothing to do with that like and I know that so I can sleep at night of you know of course but it is crazy like girls are so discredited I mean I'm sure even you've dealt with that it's just so crazy knowing you personally like obviously everyone thinks they have like an idea of you and we all have like we're all like we're all a character online right anyone who doesn't know you personally we're just characters to them but be knowing you personally like you're the most like the least malicious person I've probably ever met believe like you don't walk over people you're just like a sweet you're a girl's girl yeah thank you like you really are and like you but you can't fake that and I no like you really can't I want to say thank you but also like how can I work on being evil a little bit trying like get to that level hard I I I feel like it's just not in you it's not it's just it's not but also I think that with time those people that have stepped over people or anything like it it they might be killing it now but like it will catch up to them like I believe that too like Stomp and ruin and like and and like to make a move and Advance those people MH will always pay for it because I believe in karma in like a not like crazy spiritual way but like I really believe that if you've done that to someone and then youve made major gains like you're going to pay for it I think even or even if there're still still paying for it every day cuz they're like I think I don't necessarily believe I believe in karma in the sense that people that do that are not happy with themselves for sure when they go to bed at night 100% they're not and they're and they're not they're not thinking about that one situation that happened with you but they're battling yes what like small battle like they're battling for sure they're they're justifying it however they can but they don't feel good you know what I mean no I did not uh plan to get deep as we're going to start crying I'm like wait what I had a whole different plan for the episode but no let's get into it though I should we get into the questions and just like really get well the questions are going to be great but I feel like dating history the reason I want to talk to you about your dating history is cuz gorgeous blonde New York what is dating like honestly I don't like New York men why they're the best what do you mean wait I love that cuz it will never compete for a man like I want honestly my deal is like a Small Town Country like Roots like a husband but that like yeah you can make it in a city like I want my man to like be able to make it in a city you have to be able to hang here MH but I don't like a city boy a city rat like I want to show you what's good I don't love okay I don't know I think it's cuz I'm not from here too like that some of that just doesn't impress me it's like corny to me like oh like your parents are This and like oh you have this I'm like okay but I mean okay let's compare dating in New York mhm to Kansas to La okay fine let's compare that that's really fun let's start with LA the worst I would rather no La is the wor be celibate no so my vagina shut and vagina is closed I will be a priest I will I think I was an right yeah pretty much I don't know that's allowed but like you know what's so insane about La too oh I have a crazy La story but La the the people that I was partying with in La which is like the the main group of socialite celebrity influencers I was on a bender respectfully in La for about two weeks and they're still on the Bender they're still on that Bender 4 months later these people the fact that you said respectfully on bender and they're still on it they're still on it and I'm like watching the stories and I'm like damn you guys are you guys need to grow up and you guys need to figure it out never get off no never get off they're going to the same parties with the same people with the same girls talking the same the same people La is the most incestual place on the face of the Earth everyone's everyone and then the guys complain These Girls Aren't wiy I go what do you mean you're all the same girls like yeah you don't right like it's not even their fault although I don't really like love the girls in LA but I'm like you guys are all the same people and then you're saying they're not wifey men complain they're not wifey yes I've heard that so many times like the girl's not a trophy or like this St well probably you know what it is is because I I already know I just came up with this Theory it's going to break the internet the Internet it's going to be written it's going to be a study at Harvard the reason men in La say women are not wifey material is because La has become so Cutthroat fake social climbing beyond belief Beyond like anything we could have ever imagined beyond anything we can comprehend yeah that men are now dealing with women who are on their same level 100% Kansas Kansas like that's where my man is my man wait what I was saying Kansas randomly no I'm not but my man my man that I'm going to marry is driving in F-150 right now with like a cooler in the back of his truck and he's listening to like Luke comes and respectfully he's going to like move to the city for a moment but like that's where he is K this I need like a hom grown like like if you're wearing the latest no get out of my no no no no no get out I get that if you recognize my bags or like am my my sho I'm going to throw up like what like I can't like I can't like if you have like if you're wearing Dior sneakers like I want to you heard it here first those shits out but throw them out but listen and you know what's even worse is that a lot of the guys with all this designer in New York their dad bought it for them oh 90% but like there is nothing more sickening to me like than that but do we like the guy in Kansas with the truck and he doesn't have money Paige listen there she goes there she goes a little silent okay respectfully you have to have a goal cuz like I have my bag up so she's you don't want the Kansas guy bro no don't be like but have goals like it depends it depends on how broke we're talking like I know some like Rich rednecks you know like yeah but I did that I tried Nashville I I did I had a stint I had a like little I had a country stint can we talk about that yeah we just can't mention names okay we won't mention names um you were dating a very country very country man but you know what very famous country you know what if I'm going to date a country man like fix my flat tire right like fix my flat tire like per period period it's my car like I I want Foot Loose fantasy like you know that would be foot loose like can you lme dance then don't speak to me then I will date some New Yorker wearing golden gooses the reason why my ex-boyfriend the Nashville boyfriend loved me was also the reason why like we didn't work out he loved me cuz I was so independent I tried so hard to make his lifestyle something that I loved and I was like trying to convince myself because I loved him but it was ultimately like I needed to be doing my own thing like I couldn't sit on his tour bus I couldn't sit around and watch him Chase his dreams which were amazing he was like he's made history like it's incredible like I I admire everything he's done but like I want to make my own history like I am I'm my own person and it and it for like a few months it was fun and then I was just like I have nothing in me like I can't be a groupy forever no like no and that's what I was and then like people were calling me that and I would get so offended and I got offended because I knew that wasn't me but that's what I was with him I think that this might be like a mass generalization but like the South I feel like the girls in the South the girls that I got to know in the South have very toxic relationships and Men the relationship between a man and a woman in the south is very different and way more misogynistic but it was too much you've dated a lot of famous people yeah you have you have okay so like Army Countryman um and then Tyler Cameron was like my last P who else Tyler Cameron who else was yeah there's had to be one more oh no my first hockey player and I say athlet honestly I don't really count athletes as famous people famous men want me they want you they want me why don't C get it mixed up why don't celebs want me you're not marketing yourself good enough I'm gonna hire a new hire me hire me Paige please Tyler Cameron that was a very sickening situation so hold on that that you guys dated and then he he and I don't I don't even like read the news or anything he randomly said we broke up so this is what happened so I met him if we're being honest here I I was just starting to slowly become less interested and he felt The Vibes well how did you guys meet we met through friends like at parties we're going all the same okay like we're at all the same events he's like in New York whatever we're we have mutual friends and I was on I was like this man's a smoke show like this man's big and athletic and hot and he respectfully like goodlooking dude and this might sound narcissistic because he has has a pretty insane following but I felt like he was like using me really I don't know like iel like he wanted like some media storm okay best compliment ever no like actually like he was looking at my story views and I was getting more story views than him and he was like y like he literally word for word said like I need a scandal he was like I need like joking but I was like okay so you're the like no no no like I just think he knows like I just dated someone publicly like we have like I have some like like and I don't like that about myself but like I do have some in the media about me like there is some neither do I babe no like it sucks but like regardless like there's a like conversation especially around my relationships and I think he saw an opportunity not that he didn't like me but I think why he wanted to go public so fast is cuz he's like launching something soon like a big well you had just dated the biggest country star in the world who he's also like a fan of so I bet so but like saying can we play can we play that while we so okay so he you guys dated how long did you guys date a week like literally I don't even count him as a boyfriend I see listen I believe in dating and then boyfriend and girlfriend like respectfully we were dating but why did he all of a sudden like wait wait so I was like obviously fizzling out like he was getting one-word answers from me cuz I was just like not as into it anymore and that happened and it was distance and like I'm just focused on me and like my career and you're listening you're a country and I'm still listening to my exboyfriend at my apartment and and I just like was not into it honestly like not into it it happens was not into it and he was just like I felt bad kind of to end it and I think I also was like trying to stay in it CU he had posted me on his Instagram and we were went public and I was just not into it and he was like you're not giving like what I'm giving he was like I'm putting in all all of me and you're not even putting in like whatever a ceneter of it and what did you say and I was like you're right like I don't have it in me right now to like give you what you need and like we should respectfully like walk away from that and then literally a day and a half later he's talking to pop daily about like our breakup and I'm like you know I've been through so much in the media with my relationships like you really didn't have to do that and then some some see that's a no no it was Jank City like at that point I was like like you're really that guy you're really and I'm not trying to on him cuz I know like the media like no I love him da man is going to like pick this up and like take every word like that I'm saying but it was just really weird because I was like damn like these these feelings that I had and I actually believe it wasn't malicious like I actually think he wasn't trying to be like he wasn't trying to hurt me cuz he still has a lot of respect for me and like I saw him out at a bar a few weeks ago and he was like you have such a gift like you're very talented like all good whatever but respectfully he like definitely was trying to like stir up some and get some press about himself well I why do why else do you go to daily pop a day after a breakup like don't do that like no celebrity does that no no one does that and if I had gone through a breakup and had to do an interview I would have swerved the question no comment how about no comment but so yeah so I just was bummed because I wanted I'm working on in my life like I want to get pressed it's just about me being me like me as a human being and that like has from your lens and your truth and like there are projects that I'm doing and like cool that I'm doing and I'm gonna like make my own name for myself but it just sucks cuz he knew that I was sensitive about the fact that me in the media is me and Men right and I'm so much more than that like cool like but also like the media is so stupid like if you're they'll always try to if a man is involved in any way blow it up but like he didn't need to do that and that's why I like made a comment which I normally wouldn't do and which obviously escalated it and then that people rant articles on my comment but I was like that was weird as like you didn't need to go to the media like we could have waited a few weeks and like had them figure it out like we didn't need to give them all of our cards this is weird and intrusive and like you didn't ask me okay that's also my thing when an article comes out there can be a comment from both parties mhm the only thing that was out there was his comment why didn't why didn't you guys talk about I texted him after how should we approach no yeah no he didn't do that he just went to some sketchy ass like whatever and and I texted him and I was like what was that and he was like I didn't do anything wrong and I was like I didn't even respond I was like whatever like you obviously don't get it and that's fine but this is like I shouldn't even be surprised do you know any man you think that you could see me ooh I like athletes okay J color wait my friend have you ever spoken to him no but my friend Bridget literally said that to me wait that's insane wait my friend I swear to God I can see it right now I just interview with him wait that's what I think my friend Bridget sent me a clip from your podcast and was like wait why do I see you like marrying this man you guys like is he my soulmate I think so Jay Jay you heard it here first I'm literally damming him right now yes on air say I guess we're soulmates I've been told by five people but don't get too excited cuz like I don't really like to date mind and be like dated every person that's literally a type of I would write to like I love guess we are oh no I heard we are soulmates from two of my closest friends okay but I am not looking for anything serious that's insane let me know Sophia dude how brilliant give me one famous I want he one famous person you've DMD Albert Einstein move aside cuz I'm here people want to study my brain one famous person I I have wait I just I just up I have to unsend it and be that I said I spelled something wrong okay well you know what okay I hope he responds within the time we're recording because I just sent him a message Jay Cutler I'm on to you Jay although I've been kind of like talking to someone you are yeah okay but he's an athlete that's fine I'm super IND let's see which one's better to out let's look at their stats let's compare that like does Jay have Stat or have like podcast episodes dude I don't even watch words but I feel like that would be like the most obnoxious thing to say okay Paige we went through so much there's so much your entire dating profile I wanted to ask you about fashion skiing like so much but fascinating everything a lot of a lot of good stuff and within the relationships you've had I feel like we've learned lessons you know a lot of Life a lot so we're going to move on now okay to SOS SA salutes questions stories advice from my listeners are you ready I love your listeners yes they're the best and they're obsessed with you okay first question okay hey Sophia how do you surprise your man outside of the bedroom what are subtle things you can say to him or nicknames you can use to make him feel sexy slash spicing up I don't think there's a nickname name you can call a guy that's sexy no no you can call him daddy big daddy you can call him daddy zaddy like boss zad's like very play zad's almost like trolling I think yeah I think I think girl stay away from the nickname but there are things you can say outside the bedroom which are I feel like you could I feel like you could what I like to do is like if we go on a date or we go to brunch I'm like you look like you look so handsome exactly like you look insane like you look so handsome I love this outfit mhm but like you you have to be strong and confident like oh my like baby you look so sweet no you look you look handsome as compliment him on his look yeah and if he's done even if he hasn't done what but don't be dumb like when he looks like don't say he's the most handsome person when he's like you know be like be on fresh out the shower your hair like back or say like you smell so good also Love Languages you brought that up I nine times out of 10 every single guy I've had take the love languages test yeah physical touch is our top one or top two or top three so I think even though it's outside the bedroom squeeze his bicep 100% like you go to the bathroom at dinner you come back to the table touch his back yes touch his shoulders leg as you're like sitting down like touch him mhm over the pants hand job 100% make him come over his when you're in a relationship with someone you should be a the should never die when the dies go to the relationship dies yeah SL slute forever over like but overs like even if you're not like feeling the over the pants hand job do it 100% you'll thank us later yes so she said outside the bedroom nicknames don't call just make him come Lally don't call him that's a great that's the best advice okay next hi sopia let's just get into it how can I suck my man's balls he always says it's too sensitive I have never in my day sucked a ball I I have sucked balls no I've definitely sucked a ball or two um I've never heard a man say that he was too sensitive so that's very fascinating do you like sucking balls or do you know how to suck balls do I like it yeah you literally did balls I love them like so much that's why I'm crying would you actually love balls no okay absolutely not but do I suck them yeah okay but honestly like I've seen some weird balls really yeah like they're definitely some nicer ones in my day my thing is is I think that if and this might be I don't know if you're doing this but for me if I'm giving a good blowj job it means the whole area is wet if it's not that if if the balls aren't wet from the this is why she dates celebrities people here she goes go off here she goes here's the secret okay if you're giving head and the whole balls isn't wet you need to learn you should like get off back to the drawing board yeah like make that wet so it actually isn't that hard to suck balls when they're already wet if they're dry and weird and creepy yeah that shit's kind of weird yeah but like suck the dick for long enough where it's like it like you're spitting on it enough or like that shit's already wet you're just like licking down from the shaft to the balls cuz the dick actually goes like underneath the like it's weird like the anatomy of it like that actually goes down to their ass so like lick all the way down and then like get to the balls but but the but the balls specifically this her boyfriend he girl you might want to like rethink that yeah yeah I'm like I've never heard a dude say that but if he's saying that I would say don't don't suck on them just lick lick with the tongue that's the that's the advice if he's if you anything from this podcast episode lick balls do not up suck after tip of the tongue tip of the tongue if he's a man and he can handle it put them all in your mouth if you put two balls in your mouth at once I yes and I I feel like men don't like that I think I think the goal is to have one in your mouth and hold the other and switch I think when you put both in your mouth I heard it's like stop flexing like enough do less do less Queen do way do way less Queen my queen do so much less my queen please please we get it you've sucked a dick before like enough like we don't need to see all of this enough is enough enough is enough no but I've heard if the two balls are in the mouth close together it's super sensitive so do left I'll let you know tonight who are you showing off for him okay okay Queen great go off no one no one else cares so relax literally no one else cares okay next question hi Sophia I have been with my partner for 12 years married for four we are both in our early 30s my question is about ethical non monogamy I am not sure if it is related to my ADHD my therapist thinks it is but I really want to experiment with it my husband is not interested at all any advice is it time for divorce or do I just suck up this feeling and live this monogamy life until I'm but we have a 5-year-old too so this adds a layer of difficulty I'm thinking about all the times I cheated and I'm like if iated once I'm s if I could just say I have ADHD and just just write it off and just write it off I mean maybe there is some like medical clinical you know connection I don't know that's a wild question I'm kind of a traditional woman so the man that I marry is like I'm three songs fun M you're into those yeah okay yeah like if we're the right guy I don't know if I don't know if it I don't know if my husband and I are gonna we'll see like maybe but I think that that that can be a way to bring people in and spice things up without you know as long as the girl's in charge without like dishevel your relationship cuz listen like those relationships where like you're open and you're other people like the reality is is that ever worked actually like I haven't heard of it actually working it's always Messy as what like open marriages oh right but also closed marriages don't work either none of it works like let me know we're all on like literally raw yeah but I think back to this girl's question I don't have a good answer for her I want you to answer CU I mean she says I want to explore I love how she says ethical non- monogamy if you're feeling that way your husband is not and you're saying should I just bottle it up or should I leave him you're going to end up leaving him or being shady that's what I'm saying like so maybe he's just not your guy you need to get a divorce yeah cuz I think you bottling it up yeah I mean two years from now you're going to be on the side of the road getting a gang bang 100% it's only downhill from there like like is your if her vibrator is not doing it for her like she's if you if you want it that bad he says no I mean try it out for like a year but like you're going to get bored you're going to wonder and you're going to stray yeah so I mean I think actually that was really smart though offer the threeome let's try that first before we divorces are expensive let's let's take the cheap route right yeah let's I think for every divorce happens I try legally there has to be one threesome legally there needs to be a threesome and then you can do the divorce papers right I feel like thre sums could save marriages I agree 100% okay Paige you are fascinating brilliant gorgeous I wanted to talk to you about a million more things we could go on for hours hours for too many many too many seasons imagine we both take Aderall and sit here it would be it would be 15 hours literally scary but you shared so much information I love you so much Paige where can they find you you have your new merch I have dairy boy what like paig Lauren's Instagram has all my stuff so if you go to my Instagram you'll see it all you'll see my podcast my brand but I'm Paige laoren and I love you guys I've actually wanted to say this I've gotten hundreds of messages from your first podcast episode me and it about the Army situation so many women saying thank you for going on her podcast like I found you through her podcast that like just telling me their stories through the platform that you gave me and like the voice you gave me through yours so wow I feel like a lot of girls that are probably listening like from that first episode like know who I am but like I appreciate you for that and that was cool and yeah I love you guys and thank you if anyone sent me a message about like the first episode it was really sweet and I saw I see it all unfortunately I see it but um yeah I love you and thank you for having me on